Bollocks to wake windows. They're tiny humans, not robots.I met with a friend earlier today who has gave birth a couple of weeks ago and went to a baby massage group. My little one decided she was gonna be awake the whole time we were there & throughout having a drink after (about 2 hours), which is normal for her at that time of day. But I've been left feeling like I'm letting her down because my friend couldn't believe I wasn't following wake windows.
My little girl wasn't ratty, she was smiling and cooing away. She had her feed, changed her, did the massage class & then a cuddle after. As soon as we got in the car she was asleep. I've tried to follow baby's cues since she's been born, and she's happy, healthy and sleeps like a dream especially overnight (I'm super lucky and she's slept through now for 2 weeks!!!).
Is it bad to not follow wake windows? Or is it OK to be completely baby led?
If your friend is only a couple of weeks into parenting then she's still plenty of time to learn that babies often do their own thing. Just smile and nod next time.