3 hours! duck me, no wonder she no longer has a job if thatās her work rate. Seriously, why does she always tell us how long she puts into a caption or a post? Theyāre never thought provoking in any way either.3 hours to type this
Nelly London #3 Always complaining, negative Nelly, wants to appear bigger so contorts her belly
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Of course it didn't take her 3 hours...she talks and types utter shite!
2023 is clearly going to be another year of her doing the same unimaginative, unrelateable pointless nonsense !
2023 is clearly going to be another year of her doing the same unimaginative, unrelateable pointless nonsense !
For me thereās something about using a photo of yourself at your heaviest in a slide next to you now, itās STILL screaming of body checking and thereās a subtext here that sort of, to me, says wow look how I used to look and look at me now. She still wants people to look at her body in a male gaze-y way, hence the white bikini photo inclusion. Her following that look like her in the first photo or her in the white bikini photo might infer from this that to look like that is ābadā because she isnāt shy about calling this photo a time when she had an eating disorder. The real ādesirableā body sheās trying to show us is her current body, thatās the āgoodā body thatās not a product of an eating disorder, according to Nelly and something to be proud of.
She is obsessed with her body, itās something she looks at daily in various states of undress, contorts for photos, walks around in next to nothing next to curtainless windows. Iām not sure if she realises there are people bigger and smaller than her that are still healthy and happy and thriving. Or that wanting to get fit or lose weight is not a toxic thing. I want to lose weight this year and workout daily, just because I want to be fitter and I wfh so I barely move (lol!) thereās no insidious reason, people are allowed to get fit and allowed to want to lose weight. Body positivity is NOT body positivity, you only have to look at the other body positive influencers to see what it is, a chance for them to show their body off and get validation. How many of them show other women on their feeds? Discuss different body types? Give their followers a spotlight to discuss their own body issues, to share their wins etc? Itās all done through the lens of their experience, so itās not body positivity itās just another vacuous way to earn money and status online.
Oops, Iāve gone on a rant! 2023 me needs to take a chill pill clearly hahaā¦
She is obsessed with her body, itās something she looks at daily in various states of undress, contorts for photos, walks around in next to nothing next to curtainless windows. Iām not sure if she realises there are people bigger and smaller than her that are still healthy and happy and thriving. Or that wanting to get fit or lose weight is not a toxic thing. I want to lose weight this year and workout daily, just because I want to be fitter and I wfh so I barely move (lol!) thereās no insidious reason, people are allowed to get fit and allowed to want to lose weight. Body positivity is NOT body positivity, you only have to look at the other body positive influencers to see what it is, a chance for them to show their body off and get validation. How many of them show other women on their feeds? Discuss different body types? Give their followers a spotlight to discuss their own body issues, to share their wins etc? Itās all done through the lens of their experience, so itās not body positivity itās just another vacuous way to earn money and status online.
Oops, Iāve gone on a rant! 2023 me needs to take a chill pill clearly hahaā¦
This is spot on. Her current photo should have been an unposed relaxed one without lingerie or a full face of hair and makeup and then she would have proved her point a lot better.
Especially since the whole idea is taken from someone else, ie Alice Liveing and Alex Light. She has no originality, she doesnāt leave the house enough to gain some.
She needs to start going to therapy again to work on her weird lies and her constant need for attention from strangers on the internet.
she really, really does.
I think her therapy sessions focus on food and improving her relationship with it (or at least that was my understanding). Her experience of therapy wouldāve actually made for useful content. A lot of people donāt know how to access it or what to expect etc. A lot of people are out off by the cost or daunted by it. a lot of charities offer talking therapies based on your income though and waiting lists can be long but itās because it tends to be a long commitment.
Nelly clearly still has deep seated issues and treating her ED is just treating a symptom. Because she may not under eat or binge and maybe talks about her body in more positive ways, but her obsession with her body is still there. Itās just morphed.
her self esteem issues go further back, than hitting puberty and suddenly crumbling because she got boobs.
Wrote a comment on the body post. Explaining how this exasperated my need to continue losing weight and someone else commented agreeing. Of course because it goes against her narrative it was deleted. I wonder now how many comments she deletes because she doesn't agree with them. She is truly pathetic
she is so fake. I watch her comments regularly because she does delete things pretty regularly.
when she comments to people disagreeing with her, itās damage limitation. Sheās not actively trying to learn or engage with contrasting views. On that house of CB haul she did not so long ago, someone commented about how bad house of CB was in terms of sustainability. It was the most liked comment and tons of people wrote to agree, so I guess she didnāt feel she could delete. Instead she commented as though she was shocked and appalled by that piece of info, but then ā¦ proceeded to promote house or CB. She went to an event of theirs a while after.
it always stood out in my mind because I thought her followers were a bit blind to her bullshit, and I was surprised at how many likes this mildly critical comment got.
on a side note: anyone know how to get a wiki going? Iāve requested twice on the support thread but no luck - not sure if Iāve missed something?
I think it might have to be a certain size. Iām in the Eden Harvz thread and thereās about 50 threads and weāre still struggling to get a wiki linked.
This is where she is absolutely stupid - she could do with sparking conversations in her comments, it would increase her engagement and would look great to brands. Her influencing career is so undeserved, she filters comments, doesnāt read DMs, and doesnāt allow any criticism, it all feels very one sided.
I swear she hasn't done a gym post in months and here we are, 2nd Jan, back in the gym. Almost like she's the thing she's preaching against....
Many people are at the gym to see changes in their body, smaller, bigger, more toned, whatever it is, there is nothing wrong with wanting a before and after. Chill Nelly.
Many people are at the gym to see changes in their body, smaller, bigger, more toned, whatever it is, there is nothing wrong with wanting a before and after. Chill Nelly.
Her whining about the scales 
the gym arenāt forcing her to stand on them.
the gym arenāt forcing her to stand on them.Youāre telling me sheās in the gym, and on scales, on 3rd January? Hahaha, the jokes write themselves. You sure showed the diet industry there NellyHer whining about the scales
Ooh no she isnāt getting on the scales but it didnāt stop her complaining about them haha. She is at the gym though which makes zero sense after her stupid post a few days ago.
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Sometimes I think she is an alien experiencing earth for the first time, who knew youād find scales at the gym?
I have my issues with food, I am ex slimming world alumni which comes with its own problems, I am very aware of things like not complimenting someone if theyāve lost weight, and diet culture in the office and amongst middle age women drives me crazy however I can understand that people still want to lose weight for their own good and I certainly wouldnāt be shocked at a pair of scales in a gym. Thereās some things that border on ridiculous and if Nelly things that is something that shouldnāt belong there she really is a nutcase
Just what I was thinking. Heās a comfort blanket for her and itās so toxic. I think the last time she did a trip without him was going into London to meet up with Max Hovey back in November. Flat tire? She calls B. Out on a walk post surgery and finding it sore? Calls B. Invited to an influencer/PR event? Bring Bā¦ or hide in the toilets and go home early. How can she not see this?
āI hate gym culture and the January pressure to loose weight but here I am at the gym I was just railing against for contentā
Because she is boring and unfulfilled as a person and doesnāt have content unless she is complaining.
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