When has he ever used anything???.... said it before and I'll say it again, he's a lazy arsed git ...
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Wow using mentally ill as an insult for people you dont like, or who don't like you???......... will have to watch.
Latest HTSM, another vlog with nitty blowing smoke up mankys ‘playfull’ arse 
bleating on about how kind he is.....where is the evidence of all this super kindness??? Cos if it was happening then im pretty sure he’d be filming it and iv never seen it! Again she admitted to being down right vicious and nasty in rows.....she must throw allsorts at him in these fiery moments, his mental health, past and childhood issues i reckon, its a side to her they definitely dont show.
i do find these vlogs the most interesting tbh, i like the way they contradict themselves and backtrack when one of them gets offended lol
bleating on about how kind he is.....where is the evidence of all this super kindness??? Cos if it was happening then im pretty sure he’d be filming it and iv never seen it! Again she admitted to being down right vicious and nasty in rows.....she must throw allsorts at him in these fiery moments, his mental health, past and childhood issues i reckon, its a side to her they definitely dont show. i do find these vlogs the most interesting tbh, i like the way they contradict themselves and backtrack when one of them gets offended lol
She said she made the jacket potato earlier but it just looked like a raw potato to me?
So it is confirmed Mark does sleep in his clothes as I had always suspected The opening of they home time vlog shows them having just woken up, still in bed and Mark is wearing a jumper he had been wearing in all their coffee moaning lives recently.
As this forum is open to all opinions, I would like to make comment on this and some other recent posts regarding Manky.
We must try to remind ourselves that he does genuinely suffer from depression and addiction. Being in sobriety can be like having, as Tom Hardy aptly put it, "Llike I'm carrying a 20lb orangutan around my shoulders 24/7."
Now yes, we know know that he does have the money and the time to seek help, however I am beginning to feel these attacks on him are becoming a little brutal. My reason for feeling this (and this is only my opinion) is that he is married to a woman who is:
1) A pathological liar
2) Borderline Narcissist/Socicopath
3) Vehemently jealous
4) Must be in control of everyone's lives
5) Must be the centre of attention at all times
6) Cannot be alone (for that would require hearing her real thoughts and feelings)
7) Incapable of introspection
8) An enabler, NOT a rescuer
With this in mind, being married to such a person for 18 years; said person (Madia) would have, and will do everything in her power to stop him seeking help and getting well, BECAUE i believe if he did, he would leave.
She must remain the sole carer and in being so, she has, and is still moulding her husband into whatever she needs him to be as and when she needs it.
I suppose what I'm trying to say is, at times there is a distinct imbalance in our criticisms towards them. I will continue to repeat, if the gender roles were reversed, would we possibly be a little more kind towards Manky? Would we see (her/Manky) trapped and controlled in a loveless marriage? Nardia (now in the male role) being the breadwinner and not allowing him to go out or do anything which does not involve (her/Manky) being at the centre of Nardia's Universe. Just imagine for one second what that opinionated, ignorant, arrogant woman would be like when the cameras are turned off.. I would imagine, pretty darn intimidating, full of emotionally violent threats and dark, prolonged silences, which permeate the house for possibly days.
This is completely up for debate.
Since the book launch I've noticed some, quite frankly very cruel comments about a person who does genuinely struggle. His wife has a bottle of vodka on the go most of the time. How kind.. when your husband is possibly always on the brink of wanting a drink.
She is gifted make-up, clothes, 'Curly hair' whatever.. She gets to go out, shows off on the 'telly' and afterwards, no doubt people telling her how wonderful, funny and down to earth she is. Goes out lunching, gets smashed, basically has a laugh as and when she wants. Whilst he remains at home being brainwashed by her on how brilliant he is in all aspects of creativity as long as it involves her. He is never allowed a break from the Toy Cave, unless it's to walk the dogs which were just bought as a 'guilt' gift from her, for not being a 'present' hands on Mother.
Just pointing out, for me, knocking her for not using a Ninja properly and spouting off about Sweden is not enough. She is an arch manipulator. Beware Tattler friends, she has managed to distract us, so we brutalise him. The scales of justice seem to me, slightly imbalanced.
The hits keep on coming with tonight’s Hometime: 1) someone needs to remind Manky that he is not having an actual conversation with subs when he is talking into the camera (he says he is more comfortable having a conversation with the subs than with the Loose Women - that is only after he has deleted any comments that offer a question or criticism); 2) Nuds, people who disagree with your hypocrisy are not being nasty for no reason and do not (necessarily) need mental help / sounds like you were dismissing some of the negative book reviews even though you loved all the positive ones that you received and gave credit to; 3) that being said many of your loyal subs perhaps could use a call to MIND and once again you promised to include a link below the vlog and did not do so; 4) and when you say it’s not healthy to take anger out using the keyboard and social media I think the message more accurately applies to Manky.
In fairness most, of not all to some degree coild be applied to both of them.
Just don’t see it this way at all.
1) A pathological liar
They both lie. Her’s are generally silly/white lies. His are much bigger - about his childhood and career.
2) Borderline Narcissist/Socicopath
He shows more symptoms/signs of this than she does.
3) Vehemently jealous
Again, he shows this. I never seen her show jealousy of him.
4) Must be in control of everyone's lives
In what way? Food maybe.
5) Must be the centre of attention at all times
Yep she likes attention but so does he and I think more so.
6) Cannot be alone (for that would require hearing her real thoughts and feelings)
She often spends time alone, says she really enjoys time alone and wishes she got the chance more.
7) Incapable of introspection
Not true. Listen to the HTSM/Modern Parent videos. He can accept no criticism, whereas she can. They did one on regrets as parents - she listed many, he only gave one and that was a joint one with her.
8) An enabler, NOT a rescuer
Maybe, but an enabler of what? Narcissism?
There seems to be a real cold and strained relationship between Maddie and Nadia. Maddie can't seem to show affection towards Nadia.
I disagree too. He's proved what he's like in that late live meltdown video while nadia was on detox . He's a toxic man when he wants to be and it really showed in that unhinged video. No wonder he's had many partners and baby mamas.
Wow doesn't Nadia sound angry about the "trolls" in the home time vlog? She tries to hide it by doing a bit of reverse psychology but it doesn't really work because she can't hide her body language or facial expressions.
Fair enough, maybe they are both as bad as each other. I was in a horrendous controlling 'relationship' years ago, and I just see the signs. 'The Charmer' is very good at hiding the extremely dark, emotionally violent side. He doesn't hide it. It seems to me like he's letting out all the rage, anger and resentment he feels towards her on yt. I don't condone it. I think their channel should be shut down, most importantly for the sake of their vulnerable subs, their children and ..themselves.
Considering only a few days later her husband goes absolutely bat tit over comments left about his mum, which ended up in some very vulnerable people practically begging him to be able to remain a member of their family. They make me the bleedin' sick!
Well said GSampson1982!
Did you not think it looked a bit fake? His yawning definitely was. Perhaps he'd been up for a while, got dressed then laid back on the bed.
Also, why was Nadia taking her charger with her for her 'digital detox'? She then realised she had her phone with her as she left, took the phone out (kept in her hand), but not the charger.
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Thought I was missing something. Are some poor fools going to buy that big piece of kitchen equipment to fry a Bit of steak and a few re heated potato’s for just one person that took over forty minutes and served on a cold plate?? I’ve made dinner for twenty in less time. There was No sauce, mushrooms , onions, fresh chips - never seen such exhaustion over nothing
She's almost as annoying as N.This his how you treat a garden gnome; they occupy a place of honour in Stacey’s home.
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i see what your saying, but hes not the complete victim that your painting imo. He is an emotionally abusive misogynistic victim playing pleb tho. They have a very codependent toxic relationship, i agree that she loves the rescuer role so enables his bad sides and keeps him in an unhealthy anxiety induced state.....but he also keeps himself this way as it suits him. They are both worn down with each other, drainers the pair of em.
Him going out and getting a proper job? I dont think he can, hes very inept both professionally and socially....regardless of nitty.
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