Myka Stauffer - The mother who gave up her internationally adopted Chinese son

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But if thats the real her, why didn't she just do this to begin with? Own being materialistic and scheming, instead of pretending to be a youtube christian mom that wants to adopt. ugh.
Because i doubt it would have brought her the views/money.I can`t bear to watch these "mothers" who are basically selling their kids privacy for their own ill gotten gains.. :mad:
 
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People often comment on her videos that they love her 'soft spoken, soothing voice' That's why she does it. It's all just aesthetics and manipulation and chasing popularity based on algorithms. It's all such a fake world of pretence. Just devastating that an innocent child was brought into the tit show and will now be affected as a result.
 
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She sounds so Gangsta in her Cash Crush videos, it is like a completely different person to her main channel! Her main channel is so false, I had always thought that her voice was put on as it sounded so forced and insincere but watching her Cash Crush videos just proves that it was.
 
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I'm sure cilla would love to dispose of Abbie but then who would pay for the half million dollar home and all the trips. The maass family is a bleeping piece of tit as bad as myka. Don't forget about the third kid that As a wasn't paying for. Yea he's a real duck up too just like pigcilla. She doesn't want to be a mom she just wants the money,bleeping fat ass!

They did it all for you tube fame and money. They are monsters.
She couldn't get Huxley to perform for the camera. It got more and more difficult. On her Cash Crush channel she says how mummy videos like pregnancy, baby night routines etc. can earn a lot. She sounded very resentful whenever she said that he wasn't in a video due to him having a meltdown or a bad day. There's been a few times she's had to sit on the sidelines with Huxley and miss out on something like a parade he obviously was not going to like. It's usually James who will be sidelined with Huxley but when Myka does it you certainly hear about it.

There's no mention about how this has affected her other kids. Jaka was especially close to Huxley. She must be so confused and scared.

She sounds so Gangsta in her Cash Crush videos, it is like a completely different person to her main channel! Her main channel is so false, I had always thought that her voice was put on as it sounded so forced and insincere but watching her Cash Crush videos just proves that it was.
She says herself in a comment that the Cash Crush channel is where she will be herself.

Because i doubt it would have brought her the views/money.I can`t bear to watch these "mothers" who are basically selling their kids privacy for their own ill gotten gains.. :mad:
Where are the laws? Kids are making money for their parents. It's child labour. If sponsorship and ad revenue is then paid to the child instead of the parents then there's all sorts of tax issues too. Tax avoidence?
 
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I watched a bit of the latest cash crush video and her voice and personality are very different. It was filmed only a month ago, wonder if she will be taking on board her own advice now the sponsors have dropped her
 
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People often comment on her videos that they love her 'soft spoken, soothing voice' That's why she does it. It's all just aesthetics and manipulation and chasing popularity based on algorithms. It's all such a fake world of pretence. Just devastating that an innocent child was brought into the tit show and will now be affected as a result.
I never understood those comments, the soothing voice is such a put on! She’ll be talking in that voice and accidentally slip back to her real voice for a few seconds mid-video, it’s so jarring🤦‍♀️

I watched a bit of the latest cash crush video and her voice and personality are very different. It was filmed only a month ago, wonder if she will be taking on board her own advice now the sponsors have dropped her
Part of me thinks they’ve been planning/preparing for this, so they’ll be ok with setbacks. The other part of me thinks they’re too impulsive and narcissistic to have thought through the impact it could have on their profitability lol, like sure we gained our followers because of Huxley but even without him, they’ll stay now for us!

Sadly, I wouldn't be surprised if Stauffer Garage continues to have some success. They’re trying to separate James from the incident, plus he doesn’t show his family on that channel so a lot of people wouldn’t put two and two together (especially since I’m guessing he has a lot of viewers that did not find him through Myka).
 
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And if you go to the ‘channel’ tab they actually have removed the different channels. E.g. Stauffer Garage is no longer listed under Myka’s channel and vice versa.

Very strategic. Cheeky fuckers
 
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And if you go to the ‘channel’ tab they actually have removed the different channels. E.g. Stauffer Garage is no longer listed under Myka’s channel and vice versa.

Very strategic. Cheeky fuckers
They'll be doing all the loop holes behind the scenes. She's deleted all references for James' Stauffer Garage off her Instagram too, just hoping people don't associate the two.
 
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I think there's something not right about her in the draw my life video she did. Something not genuine... Can't explain. Give it a watch and see what you think. I thought she wasn't real and she talks about having a baby with a guy really quickly and that to me sent alarm bells ringing. I think she jumps into commitments too quickly. I don't know maybe just me that thinks it. I enjoyed Huxley journey that's when I started to watch a bit more. I just wanted to give him a big hug! There were times when I felt they treated Huxley different but couldn't tell whether it was his autism, that made it so they had to cause he didn't like to do certain things ect. I think she treats the girls a bit different to they boys aswell although that could be an age thing? Making the girls tidy up and not the boys ect.
I can't believe she'd given him up and continued to post such self absorb videos on YouTube?!?!
I nearly had to rehome my dogs last year due to behavioural issue, and I just couldn't do it! I hurt so bad and I feel its my responsibility to take care of the dogs regardless because I made that commitment! I could never ever 'rehome' a child. Biologically mine or not. I couldn't live with myself. I know there's problems with getting the right support for special needs children but they have more than enough money to! Poor Huxley 😞
Then to get pregnant aswell! I know accidents happen but you don't replace one child for another do you?
 
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Out of interest who were the main sponsors they had?

I remember awhile back I saw a video on one of the channels and the sponsor was some gambling company and James had said something like “there’s nothing wrong with playing online while you wait for the kids bus”

I was just disgusted and refused to watch anything after that. Absolutely despicable sell-outs.
 
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I think there's something not right about her in the draw my life video she did. Something not genuine... Can't explain. Give it a watch and see what you think. I thought she wasn't real and she talks about having a baby with a guy really quickly and that to me sent alarm bells ringing. I think she jumps into commitments too quickly. I don't know maybe just me that thinks it. I enjoyed Huxley journey that's when I started to watch a bit more. I just wanted to give him a big hug! There were times when I felt they treated Huxley different but couldn't tell whether it was his autism, that made it so they had to cause he didn't like to do certain things ect. I think she treats the girls a bit different to they boys aswell although that could be an age thing? Making the girls tidy up and not the boys ect.
I can't believe she'd given him up and continued to post such self absorb videos on YouTube?!?!
I nearly had to rehome my dogs last year due to behavioural issue, and I just couldn't do it! I hurt so bad and I feel its my responsibility to take care of the dogs regardless because I made that commitment! I could never ever 'rehome' a child. Biologically mine or not. I couldn't live with myself. I know there's problems with getting the right support for special needs children but they have more than enough money to! Poor Huxley 😞
Then to get pregnant aswell! I know accidents happen but you don't replace one child for another do you?
Yes she’s very impulsive. She found out her dad wasn’t her real dad so she went out the next day and lost her virginity, what an odd thing to do in that situation and what an odd thing to tell people...then she apparently became a catholic...but got pregnant before marriage by choice a few months into a relationship... There is something totally not right about her.

she always used to say (before Onyx) that they weren’t trying to get pregnant, but they weren’t not trying to get pregnant either, she used the rhythm method and condoms, according to her anyway.
 
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Yes she’s very impulsive. She found out her dad wasn’t her real dad so she went out the next day and lost her virginity, what an odd thing to do in that situation and what an odd thing to tell people...then she apparently became a catholic...but got pregnant before marriage by choice a few months into a relationship... There is something totally not right about her.

she always used to say (before Onyx) that they weren’t trying to get pregnant, but they weren’t not trying to get pregnant either, she used the rhythm method and condoms, according to her anyway.
Ahhh yes I forgot about that aswell! Very odd. Everyone does impulsive things dont they, but just thought that was all a bit much. And now with the adoption thing. She is very impulsive 😳
 
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Hadn't watched the Draw My Life before. It really sounds like she is mixing up catholism with the more US-type Christian religion. The bible study talk and saying "the lord" is not really catholic at all. I am pretty sure she just made up her faith to catch the algorithm.

Same with veganism, home schooling and adoption - all of which she has dropped. Everything on her channel (and life) was to gain views.

I can't stop thinking about that poor little boy I feel heartbroken for what he is going through.
 
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The videos with Huxley, Autism and Adoption are her highest views. Especially if he's in the photo to go alongside the video. On her money channel, I think it's called Cash Crush she gives an example of one video her husband made $42,000 from his car detail channel. She's removed specific videos of Huxley's adoption and his updates now so her highest view video is the current one of them crying crocodile tears. They've monotised that video so as she would say she'll be "making bank".
They should both have their channels removed NOW!! Get these money grabbing ,morally lacking narcissists off all SM!

Ahhh yes I forgot about that aswell! Very odd. Everyone does impulsive things dont they, but just thought that was all a bit much. And now with the adoption thing. She is very impulsive 😳
I`m amazed (and appauled) she was even passed for adoption.My parents had to undergo both physical and intense mental health checks before being accepted.Did she make it finacially worth these drs while? Because i`ve never heard of medical specialists advising anyone to give up their child.She`s just full of it ,and viewers ,and youtube need to stop rewarding her obscene behaviours.
 
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Buzzfeed are reporting that:

Delaware County Sheriff’s Office is working with "several other agencies" to investigate the case, a spokesperson told BuzzFeed News.

"We’re very aware of this case," Tracy Whited, the office's community and media relations manager, told BuzzFeed News. "We are investigating, but it is an active case, and as such, we cannot divulge too much information just yet."

Hope Huxley is with the best people who can love and support him. Poor little boy
 
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Hadn't watched the Draw My Life before. It really sounds like she is mixing up catholism with the more US-type Christian religion. The bible study talk and saying "the lord" is not really catholic at all. I am pretty sure she just made up her faith to catch the algorithm.

Same with veganism, home schooling and adoption - all of which she has dropped. Everything on her channel (and life) was to gain views.

I can't stop thinking about that poor little boy I feel heartbroken for what he is going through.
I can tell you for a fact that ain't Catholicism, I was born & raised in Dublin & went to convent schhols for primary & secondary education & if you know 89% of schools are Catholic. I can confirm Catholics don't teach kids direct from the Bible, there ain't bible study, never has been, even back in the 60's people learned using the Cathocism. Kids now will learn the stories of parabells & miracles & some of the old testament prophets through child friendly books & worksheets. Or I know my cousins grew up in England not attending Catholic school, so had to do classes on a Sunday to make their communion & they learned from the mass leaflet.

Like people might do the rosary in a group, but a full rosary wouldn't be done kids until after their first communion which is usually made depending on which country your from between the ages of 7-10. Also using the term "the Lord" isn't really a term used, unless in mass for the response. Catholics will say the following God, Jesus, the holy spirit, the holy ghost.

So it definetly appears Myka is trying to appeal people from to the U.S prodestant demographic.
 
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100% I’m an ex convent girl myself. Sometimes my Granny would have said ‘our Lord’ but never ‘the Lord’ and there wasn’t bible study. Lots of religion but no scripture reading. That would be done more in Protestant faiths. I have friends that do scripture reading a lot. And Catholic’s have a lot more about Mary also. This whole situation is just awful. I can’t stop thinking about that wee boy going to another new and strange home. He has already had so many moves in his short life. I hope that he finds love and warmth and stability and happiness.
 
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I am assuming they won't ever be able to go down the adoption route (of another kid) now, right?
 
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