Sorry but I could turn around and say I helped raise her children seen as the 2 years I lived there I was just a live in babysitter for her.If she did so much for you then I find you ungrateful for not inviting her.
Did you ever thank her for giving up a part of her childhood/teenage years to care for you?
I agree with you and am out of here. The poster doesn’t have any appreciation of other people’s time and doesn’t want advice but confirmationSo you’re sister gave up part of her childhood to raise you, gave you a roof over her head when she was a young couple with her husband making their own way, sacrificed so much of her own life for you and you didn’t even bother to explain that you weren’t inviting her to your wedding. Or to have a wedding where you could show your appreciation to her by having her there as part of the wedding party. It wasn’t as important enough to you to have her there. But you don’t speak to people for weeks over some photos and instead you want to be clever and sarcastic about being the favourite and her being jealous.
This is absolutely unbelievable!!!! The level of selfishness here blows my mind.
How exactly do I treat my family?If this is how she treats family no wonder she doesn’t have many friends !
Sounds like babysitting her kids was the least you could do. 2 years / a whole childhood - yeah that adds upSorry but I could turn around and say I helped raise her children seen as the 2 years I lived there I was just a live in babysitter for her.
I've done a hell of a lot for my sister in return and I'm forever thankful to her and she knows it. But she still throws it back in both mine and my mum's face constantly.
You lived there for 2 years! Yet you get married without your sister or her family being present!Sorry but I could turn around and say I helped raise her children seen as the 2 years I lived there I was just a live in babysitter for her.
I've done a hell of a lot for my sister in return and I'm forever thankful to her and she knows it. But she still throws it back in both mine and my mum's face constantly.
You’re acting like a spoilt princess - boo boo your mum showed your sister your dress big deal! She was a second mum to you and if you were my sister I wouldn’t want anything to do with you! Did you write a post for validation !? Did you want everyone to bow down to your royal highness and tell you that your mum was a meanie who ruined your day! Grow up read the room - there is more important things in life then your wedding dress! Your sister sacrificed her teen years for you put a roof over your head and all you’ve done is witch and moan! I feel sorry for your partnerHow exactly do I treat my family?
Love how this is a gossip site but next to none of you could sense any sarcasm in my original post
Big question did the DMs get a wedding invite haha!My final advice to the poster is to invest in a good psychologist.
Must be a sad life without friends and so many quarrels with the family.
At leaset she has a big boot collection (detect the sarcasm, please)
Says a lot when everyone has an issue with you !Alright I'm done.
I obviously should have opened with alot more context because your all absolutely missing the point.
Right for starters. My brother's are shocking with money and every time I've invited them out for tea for birthdays or anniversarys for my parents they let me down "sorry can't afford it" so I'm right to think "yeah it's a big ask to expect them to travel and stay over for our wedding" so I never just said "your not invited byeeee" I said "we've chosen to have just our parents and grandparents at the ceremony, but we are hoping to have a big party for family and friends at a later date so we can all celebrate together!"
To which... I got "Congratulations hope it's everything you want" and "congratulations guys" the other sibling said nothing. And all 3 in-laws said jack tit as well.
You know it Hun! Just can't decide which pair! Hell I'll take them all and have loads of costume changes!Big question did the DMs get a wedding invite haha!
Get a wedding pair of DMs loads of brides do it just don’t share a photo with your mum .You know it Hun! Just can't decide which pair! Hell I'll take them all and have loads of costume changes!
To be honest I don't think there was any sarcasm. I think you wanted everyone to come on here and feel sorry for the bride. You've not got the response you wanted or anticipated and now you're backtracking.How exactly do I treat my family?
Love how this is a gossip site but next to none of you could sense any sarcasm in my original post
she provided you with a place to live for 2 YEARS and you looked after her children - your nieces/nephews while you were living in her home. Are you are seriously using that to score points??? Just stop it. You are making yourself sound worse with every post. Can you just stop for a second and take a look at the big picture here? Your wedding is a few hours of a single day out of your whole life. A life you wouldn’t have had, had it not been for your sister helping you out and stepping in when your Mum wasn’t able to. You’ve made a decision to have a small wedding - that’s your prerogative- but what were you expecting them all to do/say? You’ve told them your getting married, they say congratulations- what more do you want?!Sorry but I could turn around and say I helped raise her children seen as the 2 years I lived there I was just a live in babysitter for her.
I've done a hell of a lot for my sister in return and I'm forever thankful to her and she knows it. But she still throws it back in both mine and my mum's face constantly.