Just a little rant really - I'm a sad witch and have no mates to vent to so here's my tea
So we booked our wedding during the first lockdown, we've gone for a small wedding with only our parents and my other halfs grandparents. But even though it's a small ceremony I still want all the nice things big weddings have!
I'm the baby and I'm 10+ years younger than my 3 siblings. When they realised they weren't invited they all well and truly kicked off about it went into full on "she's favourite, she's a bleeping little princess" mode.. and I was just like "yeah.. I am huns! "
So long story short me and my sister have since started talking again. It took her a full 9 weeks after us announcing our wedding for her to get in touch and apologize for the fact that all she did was text me saying "congratulations guys" ...now since then she hasn't asked a single question about the wedding hasn't asked about my dress, my shoes or anything! It's been totally swept under the rug (she's obviously jealous. But she just can't even fake abit of interest)
So I've purposely not offered any information to her, her husband on the other hand openly asks about everything! Flowers the lot! So I show him photos and I talk to him about it.. she questioned why I show him stuff and not her, so I just said "because he asks and shows interest, you don't" and she went silent.
So here's where my mum comes in... Months ago I went dress shopping, my mum had photos of my dress, my shoes and my cake on her phone and she "accidentally" showed them to my sister (while me and my sister wasn't talking might I add) she thought it would encourage my sister to get in touch with me. Did it f*ck.
So I forgave her for it even though I was upset. So fast forward to last week, I've had a custom painted leather jacket done to wear after the wedding ceremony, my mum said "ohhh don't show your sister because she will copy you! And she will be wearing hers before your wedding" .... Because she copies everything I do
And low and behold! The day my jacket arrived I sent my mum a photo and the exact same day SHE showed my sister it! - I can't make this tit up!
I'm absolutely fuming with my mum sent her an awful text telling her how out of order she is and I haven't spoken to her since. (Despite working together. We've both been silent and it's f*cking awful!)
I just feel like she's ruined my big day - all the things that should be a secret between the mother of the bride and the bride until the day are now just ruined. She's said sorry but it won't give me back what she's taken away from me. I'm not a nasty person in the slightest but I just want to be so spiteful, I want to tell her that she's not helping me into my dress on the day or un-invite her full stop!
Am I being out of order? How would you react to this?
So we booked our wedding during the first lockdown, we've gone for a small wedding with only our parents and my other halfs grandparents. But even though it's a small ceremony I still want all the nice things big weddings have!
I'm the baby and I'm 10+ years younger than my 3 siblings. When they realised they weren't invited they all well and truly kicked off about it went into full on "she's favourite, she's a bleeping little princess" mode.. and I was just like "yeah.. I am huns! "
So long story short me and my sister have since started talking again. It took her a full 9 weeks after us announcing our wedding for her to get in touch and apologize for the fact that all she did was text me saying "congratulations guys" ...now since then she hasn't asked a single question about the wedding hasn't asked about my dress, my shoes or anything! It's been totally swept under the rug (she's obviously jealous. But she just can't even fake abit of interest)
So I've purposely not offered any information to her, her husband on the other hand openly asks about everything! Flowers the lot! So I show him photos and I talk to him about it.. she questioned why I show him stuff and not her, so I just said "because he asks and shows interest, you don't" and she went silent.
So here's where my mum comes in... Months ago I went dress shopping, my mum had photos of my dress, my shoes and my cake on her phone and she "accidentally" showed them to my sister (while me and my sister wasn't talking might I add) she thought it would encourage my sister to get in touch with me. Did it f*ck.
So I forgave her for it even though I was upset. So fast forward to last week, I've had a custom painted leather jacket done to wear after the wedding ceremony, my mum said "ohhh don't show your sister because she will copy you! And she will be wearing hers before your wedding" .... Because she copies everything I do
And low and behold! The day my jacket arrived I sent my mum a photo and the exact same day SHE showed my sister it! - I can't make this tit up!
I'm absolutely fuming with my mum sent her an awful text telling her how out of order she is and I haven't spoken to her since. (Despite working together. We've both been silent and it's f*cking awful!)
I just feel like she's ruined my big day - all the things that should be a secret between the mother of the bride and the bride until the day are now just ruined. She's said sorry but it won't give me back what she's taken away from me. I'm not a nasty person in the slightest but I just want to be so spiteful, I want to tell her that she's not helping me into my dress on the day or un-invite her full stop!
Am I being out of order? How would you react to this?