But your sister won’t see your wedding attire when you walk down the aisle.Right I'm coming across all wrong here.
I joke about being the favourite because my siblings say it. It's them who are constantly arguing with my parents and causing drama saying I get treated better. Which I really don't. We've all had the same growing up and we still do now. I'm 27 incase you was wondering. That makes my sister 37.
Me and my sister have our differences. We get along most of the time but it's her with the chip on her shoulder. She's always trying to out do me (believe it or not because you've obviously got an opinion of me already - I actually don't care) but my life is constantly everytime I buy something she goes out and gets the next one up of it or buys 2 of them. You know what I'm saying? My partner has always bought me 2 pairs of Dr martens every Christmas since we met.. suddenly her husband has started doing it and she says "oh yeah it's out tradition" and her only aim is to have a collection of boots bigger than mine. I tit you not, that is genuinely her attitude!
I don't care for these things I'm not a materialistic person. I just wanted my husband to be the first person to see my dress other than me and mum who went shopping for it. Why is that so wrong of me?
I'm not in any way trying to out do her at all.
I'm well within my rights to think that my wedding attire SHOULD have been a secret till the moment I walked down that aisle. That doesn't make me a spoilt brat, or a wannabe princess. It makes me a bride.
Hardly anyone will.
It sounds like your mum didnt show the people that will be there so they will be surprised by what you wear. Which is what you wanted, right?
To me it sounds like you wanted a big wedding.
But your wedding is really small and this bug fuss seems out of proportion