Mumsnet #22 Are you strange generally?

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I call balls. There was an article in the DM this weekend by that blond etiquette man and he talked about dipping croissants in hot chocolate.
Honestly every other video on my tiktok is someone dipping croissants of varying sizes and flavours in hot chocolate, I think everyone knows it's a thing, it's definitely fake for the likes. So is most of those types of subreddits though!
 
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I have seen many English people eating croissants (and Americans) and never seen one ask for a fork.

Is the French obsession worse this year? It seems to have reached peak Breton Joules stripey top/ charming gîte
 
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There have been threads this week wanging on about Letby refusing to go to court for the sentencing, saying they would drag her in by her hair or would let the parents have 5 minutes alone with her etc etc as well as going on that Letby murdered "our vulnerable babies"
Is there no tragic story that these grief athletes won't hitch their wagon to, wringing their hands and weeping dry eyed for how sad it makes them?
Newsflash you ghoulish bleeps, it's not about you, stop trying to centre yourselves in someone else's tragedy.
 
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This thread is a smug, self-congratulatory, ghoulish disgrace. It’s like a competition to see who can be the most emphatically empathic.

MN really should put a stop to the masturbatory grief gawking. It’s shameful.
Why, just why? I hate it every time I see that demons name- just let her rot and not give her another thought. They are obsessive
 
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This thread is a smug, self-congratulatory, ghoulish disgrace. It’s like a competition to see who can be the most emphatically empathic.

MN really should put a stop to the masturbatory grief gawking. It’s shameful.
There was a thread on there earlier I forget the exact title but basically she hasn't stopped crying. I just hid it without reading it. I don't know if I'm made of ice or mumsnetter are made of tears but I think they're ridiculous about this kod of thing, always arguing over who has cried the most, then ones crying and shaking and ones crying and shaking and had to wake her children up to hug them close 🙄 If my mum behaved like that I'd have gone NC as a toddler.
 
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There have been threads this week wanging on about Letby refusing to go to court for the sentencing, saying they would drag her in by her hair or would let the parents have 5 minutes alone with her etc etc as well as going on that Letby murdered "our vulnerable babies"
Is there no tragic story that these grief athletes won't hitch their wagon to, wringing their hands and weeping dry eyed for how sad it makes them?
Newsflash you ghoulish bleeps, it's not about you, stop trying to centre yourselves in someone else's tragedy.
There’s one on there now from someone who’s got a 5 month old perfectly healthy baby. Reading the news is making her feel sick and scared to all babies and parents.
 
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I listened to the parents’ victim statements. They were heartbreaking and I agree with the one who said they are never going to give her another thought again. MN really need to put a stop to this mawkish grief tourism.
 
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They're like the people who see eg a car crash on Facebook and tag their mate like omg we were on that road three weeks ago, that could've been us! I won't sleep tonight!
 
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The only thread on there I’ve participated in recently is the ‘psychopath’ one. I’m fairly certain I’m on the spectrum (not the autism spectrum) and I give literally in-the-minus-numbers ducks about the LL case. Whoever wants to start a memorial thread about her really needs putting to sleep fairly sharpish tbh
 
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Remember Mumsnetters are suffering more than the parents of the murdered babies or even the poor babies themselves, how unkind to think otherwise.
 
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Another one. No-one thinks you're French, love!
I got asked if I was Italian by the Italian lady who owns an Italian cafe in town once 😎 thats a lot of Italians there, I apologise. But how else will you get the point I had to ARGUE with her that little old me is as British as you can get! M&S British you understand, not Poundland British.
 
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The thread here isn't much better. Everyone needs a hobby, I suppose.
The difference with the threads here is that people have actually followed the ins and outs of the case, it's not just a case of competing over who feels worse. There's a great deal of empathy, but also lots of humour!
 
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What is nose laughing? I just saw that used and a the single word ROAR after quoting a post, I think it was meant to be funny and wasn’t. Well, I didn’t find it funny.
 
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My extremely literal (I suspect on the spectrum) son is like this. He is 7 and a half but if a game or something is labelled as 8+ he won't go near it 🤣
I watched mean girls when I was 10 and it’s a 12 and the guilt eats me up to this day
 
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The difference with the threads here is that people have actually followed the ins and outs of the case, it's not just a case of competing over who feels worse. There's a great deal of empathy, but also lots of humour!
Well, we have no idea how closely MNers followed the case. To an outsider it's just 'our obsessive following is better than your obsessive following'. There was definitely people on the Tattle thread crying all day and, I believe, opening champagne 🤨.

But I find all true crime enthusiasm extremely weird so it's a 'not for me' situation all over, I guess.
 
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I am irritated by all the people wanging on about changing the law so people have to hear their sentences, and I include both Sunak and Starmer in that. Because what they really mean is that they want someone convicted of a crime to be confronted with the impact of what they’ve done and, huge though my sympathies are with victims’ families, no one can make a criminal sorry for what they’ve done simply by forcing them into a room and reading things to them. Maybe we should just cut to the chase and stick them in the stocks?

Meanwhile there are clearly massive systematic issues in the NHS around reporting and managing problems, so can politicians talk about that instead?
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And the competitive crying and holding tight of children on MN is just eyerolling.
 
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