Mumsnet #2

Yel · Nov 21, 2021

I think the lack of updates to the sites is partly because users have stomped their feet so much whenever thingd change. But they should have been dragged into updating things and making it somewhat modern.

They introduced quoting, but you can only quote once and if a post has quoted someone you can't quote so it's pretty useless and a waste of time. And they have a team of technical people doing what exactly everyday?

They made it so you can't edit the quote to prevent abuse rather than making it like here and every other forum and then if someone abuses it then you can take action.

They said the edit button is a bad idea as it would make people gaslight. So silly refusing / paywalling basic features because they have the potential to be abused when any rational person would introduce them but take action if they're abused.

Lilliepad · Nov 21, 2021

heretoreaditall2019 said:
With “charging” - surely they’re just asking for that family’s share of the total bill which is going to be in the hundreds? It’s not as if they’re selling tickets via ticket master?

Surely offering to pay your share of a huge meal/several day affair is a completely normal thing to do? Or if the hosting family refuse money you buy them something they’d like roughly of the same value?

Yeah our family all bring small particular bits but the host (which changes every year) does the Turkey and main stuff and we all chip in £50 quid per family. Saves the host bankrupting themselves

Yel said:
I think the lack of updates to the sites is partly because users have stomped their feet so much whenever thing change. But they should have been dragged into updating things and making it somewhat modern.

They introduced quoting, but you can only quote once and if a post has quoted someone you can't quote so it's pretty useless and a waste of time. And they have a team of technical people doing what exactly everyday?

They made it so you can't edit the quote to prevent abuse rather than making it like here and every other forum and then if someone abuses it then you can take action.

They said the edit button is a bad idea as it would make people gaslight. So silly refusing features because they have the potential to be abused when any rational person would introduce them but take action if they're abused.

It’s the amount they charge for partnerships that really baffles me. Sure, it’s got a large audience but the ads they create are so bad it’s painful.

Aussie · Nov 21, 2021

Chunkeylaydee said:
There’s one where the in laws are charging to go for Christmas despite having £100,000 plus wage.

I have just read this

Yel · Nov 21, 2021

Lilliepad said:
It’s the amount they charge for partnerships that really baffles me. Sure, it’s got a large audience but the ads they create are so bad it’s painful.

Yep, Mumsnet pretty much is an influencer that sells themselves to brands. Wasn't it a 6 figure deal for things like having a Gordon's gin emjoi and a Cadburys chocolate bar emoji? As if those and their other content actually sold any more stuff. Similar their lucrative deals with Lidl and the crappy content they made on their barely seen by anyone channels and blog. They've been successful at hoodwinking brands into thinking they're influential.

Chunkeylaydee · Nov 21, 2021

heretoreaditall2019 said:
With “charging” - surely they’re just asking for that family’s share of the total bill which is going to be in the hundreds? It’s not as if they’re selling tickets via ticket master?

Surely offering to pay your share of a huge meal/several day affair is a completely normal thing to do? Or if the hosting family refuse money you buy them something they’d like roughly of the same value?

Apparently it’s due to the amount of champagne they plan on buying which the OP can’t have as they make her designated driver,

never paid towards Christmas meals but have made puddings or brought starters.

Peachsquish · Nov 21, 2021

Just about to read a thread about someone whose planning to either sleep in a tent or put her teens in a tent due to elderly relatives staying over Xmas.

Theshamedame · Nov 21, 2021

Brigitjonesbuttcheek said:
I don't actually spend masses as my kids are pre school and even if they only get one present from everyone, that's still a shit load of plastic crap in my living room. I've probably only spent 50 between them.

Little ones is totally different I think, save your money for when they're older x

SpindleWhorl · Nov 21, 2021

There's a debate in active on whether only working class people put their xmas decorations up early Someone has posted they believe only working class people put their decorations up early because they have a harder life and need to obtain pleasure from simple things like that

Traveler001 · Nov 21, 2021

SpindleWhorl said:
There's a debate in active on whether only working class people put their xmas decorations up early Someone has posted they believe only working class people put their decorations up early because they have a harder life and need to obtain pleasure from simple things like that

Yeah, everyone not working class just has an easy, joyful life with no problems.

Do they know working class people aren't all living like people in Oliver twist or a Christmas Carol....

Briar Rose · Nov 21, 2021

Blond3g1rl said:
Anyone read the post where the OP got her dog dna tested and it’s come back as 20something% pit bull. She’s getting replies that she should put her lovely puppy down.

Fuck me. Mumsnetters really are absolutely deranged!

ElectricDreams · Nov 21, 2021

Briar Rose said:
Fuck me. Mumsnetters really are absolutely deranged!

There was one today where someone was asking if she was unreasonable to ask her friend not to bring her dog to her house as her daughter was scared of them. Loads of them told her she was unreasonable and she should just let the dog come and the daughter should just learn to get used to it! We're talking a two hour visit at Christmas and they thought it was worth stressing out a child in her own home because she "should face her fears" the more reasonable ones said she was well within her rights to refuse the dog and work on her daughters fears at a more appropriate time and place.

Cacacoisfarraige · Nov 21, 2021

I was banned and asked for all my posts to be deleted. It’s all our right under the ‘right to be forgotten legislation’
They grumbled amount the information for new mums etc being compromised but it’s the law. I just said I feared that my information was identifying so it all had to come off especially as I had no longer the right to reply.
if all the tattlers did the same it might be fun - it is your right especially if you think there ‘might be identifying info on there’

heretoreaditall2019 · Nov 21, 2021

Cacacoisfarraige said:
I was banned and asked for all my posts to be deleted. It’s all our right under the ‘right to be forgotten legislation’
They grumbled amount the information for new mums etc being compromised but it’s the law. I just said I feared that my information was identifying so it all had to come off especially as I had no longer the right to reply.
if all the tattlers did the same it might be fun - it is your right especially if you think there ‘might be identifying info on there’

Idk how they have the cheek to say that, especially as whenever I’ve googled anything to do with my baby it’s been SO rare to find a post post 2017? And these are the big questions eg why is poo like x, should I worry about baby coughing so much they vomit, sleep regression, blah blah blah. Some of the babies they’re speaking about in the posts Google surfaces are doing their GCSEs soon!

Cacacoisfarraige · Nov 21, 2021

They were super condescending - but I wanted all my posts deleted. I pointed hot that I didn’t find a site that supported Katie price as an example of good parenting deserved my advice,
I just wanted everything gone. They can make money off the back of someone else

I would love everyone to get their posts deleted and leave a giant enormous hole.

how will mums find out if Crispin goes with Caspian for naming kids then thoub

Theshamedame · Nov 21, 2021

Jeeeezzz.

I think MNers all shoot their own Xmas Dinners.
3 bird roasts from aldi were inspired by good old Constance shooting phesants, pigeon and quail just to make them into the avian equivalent of the human centipede centrepiece.
The kids might have fuck all to open but if they're lucky they'll find a shilling in their pudding and a bullet in their pigeon.

sixdinnersid83 · Nov 21, 2021

I kind of like seeing how outraged the ones with chips on their shoulders are though.

Very sneery about any class threads but there they are, posting on every single class thread about how awful other people are to care about class.

Theshamedame · Nov 21, 2021

Can't imagine that being a topic of conversation with your mates, can you?
If I asked my mate to engage in a conversation about the differences in classes due to Xmas deccies, she'd twat me and rightly so

Traveler001 · Nov 21, 2021

Saw this and thought of mumsnet

sixdinnersid83 · Nov 21, 2021

Anyone reading the social media show off thread? LeTwat is on there justifying her incessant showing off.

BethanyGilbert · Nov 22, 2021

Posts like this drive me mad! Why would a journalist care about MNs opinion on conscription. It's not likely to be happening any time soon. In fact anytime they suggest that the OP is just getting opinions or stories for a newspaper it makes me cross . Who outside MN cares what they think.

sixdinnersid83 said:
Anyone reading the social media show off thread? LeTwat is on there justifying her incessant showing off.

Link please?

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