mayb thats y the split. i have friends whom have split with their respective parnters and split because they got a new found confidence.
I suspect that myself. Well, I think it might be a few reasons actually.
Weight loss does change you. I can totally vouch for that. I lost nine stone several years ago, going from a size 24 to a size 10/12. I cut my hair, started wearing things I could only have dreamed of, from shops I never thought I'd even get one of my legs into. I felt amazing. I didn't split up with my partner but I did start getting checked out again, after years of being ignored, and it feels
bleeping great I can tell you!
But I also realised just how much you were judged by people for being overweight. One woman in my old office, who I barely knew to be honest, made a point of coming up and actually telling me what her old "fat" nickname for me was - I was so mortified, I couldn't even punch her in the face!
The main reason I think Rackley lost weight is because of how big her Instagram was getting and more companies wanted to actually use her photograph. She has pretty much deleted them all now but she always looked so uncomfortable in front of the camera - always grabbing a cushion to hide behind and all the other little tricks big people use (been there, done them all) I found this one still on her blog and I know how much she must have hated this photo. On that kite, her blog and Insta bio used to make a point of saying she was "happily married" - not any more.
I know people were saying they thought she was losing weight to get pregnant or for IVF but I never thought that. I don't think she wants kids to be honest and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that - not everyone is cut out or wants to be a mother. I think she loves her little cousins but is relieved when they go and she can get the house tidy again! I think she likes/liked their lifestyle of lots of kid free holidays. I also think she's pretty career driven, both at work and Instagram. There is a ten year age difference between them as well. Maybe he was pushing to start a family and she just didn't want to....?
Another thing is that their only apparent friends - this pair
- also appear to have split up. He has only one photo of her on his open Facebook profile now (and it's of all four of them) and there's a photo of him & the Rackleys taken in the summer - no girlfriend. I can't find her on Facebook as I don't know her suname and her Insta is private.