@Ruby'smum I have said that I feel for the girls like many others and I dont disagree with what your saying but the reasons I and probably others feel for the girls is Lee is the only parent that genuinely seems to want to spend time doing things with them, it really isn't about the fact hes going to work offshore it's more about the fact they are being left with Reb who just thinks about what she want.
Previously when Lee worked offshore I didn't feel for the girls and often said to my partner they seemed to get so much more quality time with their Dad than our children even tho my partner was off every weekend and I was always jealous of simple things such as nursery pick up as my children would have loved their Dad to drop off or collect from nursery or school. Ok I may have not be of sound mind back then and been one of Rebs deluded sheep but she also seemed to do lots with the children getting them out and about everyday but now if it's not for an AD she doesn't seem to take them anywhere or even do anything with them in the house other than teaching her toddler to sit and watch TV.
Personally I would have preferred Reb to go get a job and Lee to stay home with the girls maybe he could have started the Meldrums channel up again to try and make a little bit of extra money if they wanted to keep YT going as he always seemed to really enjoy it and was very good I thought, I certainly wouldn't have been feeling sorry for the girls if Reb had got an offshore job.
Previously when Lee worked offshore I didn't feel for the girls and often said to my partner they seemed to get so much more quality time with their Dad than our children even tho my partner was off every weekend and I was always jealous of simple things such as nursery pick up as my children would have loved their Dad to drop off or collect from nursery or school. Ok I may have not be of sound mind back then and been one of Rebs deluded sheep but she also seemed to do lots with the children getting them out and about everyday but now if it's not for an AD she doesn't seem to take them anywhere or even do anything with them in the house other than teaching her toddler to sit and watch TV.
Personally I would have preferred Reb to go get a job and Lee to stay home with the girls maybe he could have started the Meldrums channel up again to try and make a little bit of extra money if they wanted to keep YT going as he always seemed to really enjoy it and was very good I thought, I certainly wouldn't have been feeling sorry for the girls if Reb had got an offshore job.