Im exactly the same. I used to feel like I was doing something wrong because my friend had her kids in this amazing routine and knew what they were having for dinner every night and my life in comparison was chaos.Same here. I am not a routine person. I eat when I'm hungry, the time changes every day. Some nights I go to bed earlier
My kids tend to be in bed around 8.30 but that's something they've done on their own.
I can't be restricted and find the stress of having meals at a certain time too much and not being able to leave the house so they can nap, can't deal with it.
I don’t anymore. I find routines very stressful and what my friend puts herself through to make sure these routines are stuck to just seems like a lot of hard work. I’ve never been good with routines, my kids as a result are very happy go lucky and we all just just go with the flow. I like it that way