Mrs Hinch #437 Hinch wants a holiday so Fiddle’s got dog but Inch has blocked the bog!

[Suebigfatsue87]

My son is now 16 , it took me 8 years to get him his diagnosis, I knew something wasn't right with his development when he was young, so I started researching, all his traits pointed to Asperger's, but I was constantly fobbed off, I've been told not to bother with him as he was just naughty and would never amount to anything, my Dr said it was because his dad left ( his dad was a lorry driver and was never there) no one seemed to want to help, but I pushed everyday and finally he got a pediatric appointment the first week of him being at secondary school and he was diagnosed with Asperger's, but I still constantly fight for things he needs, life has been tough, me and my oh haven't been on a date or been out on our own since the day we met and we've been together 12 years! I've not had a full night's sleep in 16 years but I don't care because I do what's best to support my 3 children and the things they need... Oh and he hated school but since he left in may, he's like a different boy and I'm extremely proud because he's now at college studying to be a professional chef
She needs to get her priorities right, get off the gram and be a mum, not a crap Mrs mop.... btw my house is a tit tip because I put my kids first lol

of course! Sorry terrible habit typing in abbreviations

 

[mgh727]

1) why would two random women walk up and call you Soph, they aren’t your besties and your name is Sophie. Not to mention you aren’t a huge celeb so I fully doubt this ever happened and you’re using your sons struggles to self inflate your own ego

2) how do you go from “ronnie speaks perfectly fine” to “he has a speech delay” there is nothing wrong with a child having a speech delay, but don’t lie about it, own your child, support them, embrace them and let them own their own journey! Do not be ashamed and lie about it!

3) is she only coming out about this because she’s realised he’s getting to an age where she can’t keep dubbing and lying especially as Lennie is such a vocal and emotive baby?

4) Stop speaking “Hinch” are start using proper English around ronnie, no more screeching and “mummaz handsnomes manzzzzz” and “GAWAAAAAN MA SON!” use plain English! do some pronoun work with him, support him at home whilst you wait for a professional referral, that’s if you are referring him! Work with your son!

Whether he’s autistic, has global development delay, speech issues, hearing issues, or is even just a slow learner who’ll get there eventually, ronnie is an amazing lad, no one doubts this!

 

[Jyhy1110]

She’s shot herself in the foot

says Ronnie can speak perfectly well and said about the man with the paper

claims Ronnie has invisible speech

so which is it soph? Can he talk or not? Stop lying!

 

[Rearviewmirror]

Does this sound like it comes across as someone she knows? Seems to be talking as giving advice or something or is that just the way I’ve taken it. Can’t see a stranger writing something like this but then again these shoppers are crazy!!

I’ve just looked at that account and it doesn’t follow her. It’s very odd.

 

[Howdy]

Whoever supposedly told her that she is what the world needs more of needs to give their head a massive wobble. Her values are awful.

She doesn't behave like she's proud of Ronnie at all, the saccharine quotes don't fool me. She dubs over him to try and hide it, she plays video in reverse to try and make him something he isn't. She is only being more open here because she can't avoid it, it's glaringly obvious he has some delays. He's a lovely little boy, help him thrive. Start talking to him properly for a start. Go out with him one to one. What's that? You don't want to? No, we know.

 

[Jemmylina]

Bulldgit Bulldgit

It’s in the attachments in the recap above but here you go
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Omg wtf!!! Did she get and interesting troll replies

 

[Penguinfeet]

I would also recommend she start finding out about schools in her area now, he is 2.5, them yesrs fly by till reception. Sophie if you read here, private schools are not as good as mainstream schools for senco. I know you believe chucking cash will buy the best but that’s not always true. Yes it’ll certainly help you pay for private assessments which is amazing, if Ronnie needs an ehcp one day this potentially will get it sorted quicker if your local la accepts private assessments… but it doesn’t help with education. Private schools just don’t seem to have the amazing resources and knowledge like state schools do, probably because their are far more children in state schools in the U.K. and always have been so you’ll find the best for Ronnie will be a mainstream school with a good senco or a specialist school.

Absolutely this. I went to private school all my life, my children go to state schools. I will, without hesitation, say that my children's state school is superior in every single way to any of the schools I was sent to, and that's without any additional needs. I know the additional needs team at our school are amazing as I've seen them in action. In fact, all the staff are amazing. Private Schools are not what they're cracked up to be and whilst I understand my parents were trying to do the best they could for me, I genuinely think our education system (certainly in Primary, I've not had secondary experience yet) is brilliant. Reception does come around extremely fast and if you have the money for independent testing and support that will go a long way to a) easing the NHS burden and b) helping Ronnie when it comes to school selection as you know what you're looking for/not looking for.

 

[mrs Stot]

I hope for that lovely little boys sake, they all stop burying their heads in the sand and acknowledge not only he needs help, but they themselves need help to learn how to ‘parent’ a child with additional needs, even if his needs are SALT alone, or SALT and a diagnosis etc.

Talking and interacting with him, not laughing at him, not clawing him, not saying he’s being naughty.
He has further needs which need to be met, as parents you can either continue down the Disney route, or pull your big girl pants on and make your world revolve round him and his needs.

Be aware that noisy bus journeys will affect him, he’s not having a tantrum, he’s telling you he doesn’t appreciate being in this situation.

Be aware that sensory overload again isn’t him having a tantrum.

Be aware you restraining him whilst he’s sat on rides is not helping him.

Be aware cuddling Lennie non stop and not spending 1-1 time with Ron also doesn’t help. Could Ma not have Lennie (like she did when you went to the hotel) and you spend a full day just you Jamie and Ronnie doing things Ron wants to do. If you don’t know what that is, now is the perfect time to find out.

priorities need to be Ronnie now, get what he needs and you need to back it up too. If it’s SALT, then you mimick his sounds or words every day to encourage him (do this privately, not on the gram).

If he has autism/asd or falls on the spectrum then ROUTINE is key. The same things, the same wake up/sleep times, the same bed, the same room etc etc will all help him feel safe.

and finally, if he does have any additional needs at all, he won’t be ready to potty train. Please don’t push him for content or so that people believe he’s reaching milestones when he’s not.

Every child is different, as you keep reminding us. Please tell yourself that and that Ronnies routine/needs being met and being loved are far more important than hitting any milestones on time.

Rant over! I hope you do read here Sophie.

 

[ChunkyMonkey90]

I just wish Sophie would stop now. Take R off the internet. Get yourself off the internet. And concentrate on R now.
My youngest child is so much more outgoing and hyperactive than my eldest.
My youngest is loud, doesn't stop talking doesn't concentrate for long enough and gets easily distracted. At one point we thought they might have a bit of ADHD. So went through my doctor, the doctors had phoned the school to see how they are there. Doctor said it's just their personality. Not one part of me felt ashamed. Or felt like I couldn't speak to a friend or family member. Just so odd how in this day and age Sophie felt the need to lie and say he speaks and now is back tracking and saying he's delayed

 

[DisgruntledPelicans]

There is so much to dig through but if anyone has worked out what invisible speech needs are please let me know?

 

[Needacuppa]

How many times has she said 'Ron asked for. , Ron wanted , she has spun her own Web of lies and is now caught up in it she knows that people in PPW have noted things and is terrified of being exposed God bless that clever, amazing, sweet little boy!!! She has done good addressing it, but she has waited till she has no choice, rather than being proud of who he is!!

 

[Spiritual girl]

Once she realises her sheep will praise her for speaking up about ronnie not talking , she will become a know it all about Autism and write a book about how to support your child and it will be about money for her why pretending she’s a perfect mum! all her followers will congratulate her for speaking up and then say “ well done it made me open my eyes and get my child checked” yet parents being talking about it for years! she’s been in denial for long time but once she sees it will benefit her she will love it! sad to say but true! yes all children are different but he should be talking by now, lockdown would not delay your child as our children mostly learn from us at that age, so that’s a lame excuse!

 

[Hiyaguys]

So… she’s selling things you can’t even use as their main purpose View attachment 789209

Why call it a throw if you can’t use it as a throw? Why not call it a blanket? Or can’t you use it for that either

 

[Tinkerbell cat]

Just caught up on her stories. There is no way anyone approached her about Ronalds 'tantrum' and referred to her as 'Soph', just duck off billy bullshitter.

It is good she has spoken out, well kind of, she has said something without saying something.

 

[KellyO]

Just to lighten the mood… gotta love a Hincher
And the lurking Tattler for their reply

 

[Sexpistol]

I've not really been watching sophs stories since she came back after having lenny henry... I tend to flick through occasionally whilst my baby naps but never have the sound on and i skip though.

Apart from his lack of talking (I haven't heard him speak at all as I just flick through quick with no sound) what are his other traits that have made people think he might be on the spectrum?

 

[Howdy]

Soph, I know you’ve not read here since 1066 but I just want to say, we don’t hate you, we’re concerned.
Please do everyone a favour and take yourself off Instagram and put your energy into your children, they need your full attention.
If you can’t bring yourself to do that then at least take the kids off your page, it’s not healthy for them or for you.

She is far too narcissistic to do either of these options unfortunately. And what else has she got to do? Insta is her be all and end all. She has no discernable talent.

 

[MiaBinaryCode]

For someone who doesn’t “believe” in labels…she sure as hell put a lot of them out there.

Bit of advice Sopha, we know you and Inch STALK these pages(and I think MANY people have said it) - Take your children off social media. Ronnie and Lennie DESERVE their privacy. They didn’t choose this life for them, you did.

And if you’re going to talk about having a neurodiverse child…then BE REAL! Be real about the difficulties in getting help, be real about his meltdowns and what triggered them, be real about the small little steps and the big milestones he makes. Autism or whatever diagnosis he has is just a diagnosis, it is not a label. It will help open the door for Ronnie to begin living HIS best life. Stop living in your world and live in his! Stop making it about you and make it all about him. The only person putting a label on it is you.

 

[MillionDollarBaby]

Sorry to interrupt the chat surrounding Ronnie but….

Remember when she was decorating Lonnies nursery and kept using the bear emoji……

All just subliminal messaging for the upcoming mini and me teddy bear onesies then.

 

[Inchhighprivateeye]

As much as I don't want to think it. There is a motive behind this. Whether it's for engagement, to one up SS or if she's being paid for an upcoming ad for something. Sophie always does things when it's money in her pocket. Shameful!!

Sadly I agree with you