Mrs Hinch #437 Hinch wants a holiday so Fiddle’s got dog but Inch has blocked the bog!

[Blue raspberry slush pupp]

Knew it. I said there’d be a post where she did exactly this. She’s so predictable and she clearly enjoys this page .
well Sophie… you don’t believe in labels but you believe in a diagnosis? So the doctors can say there’s an issue such as autism or whatever but you can’t tell people because you’re labelling him? Nobody is “labelling” your son-you just seem embarrassed he’s not the “perfect “ insta ready kid you wanted . you don’t need to tell us anything but drip feeding little bits and pieces for content is demeaning your son and his struggles so il label YOU- as a fame hungry attention seeking bleep!

 

[RAInbow2020]

Wtf are ‘invisible speech needs?!’ if you’ve got something to say ‘Soph’ just bleeping say it, you’ve shown the poor boy on the toilet ffs.

this is so sad- ‘4.1 million’ accounts have seen him in a space that should have been kept private- So they’ve all seen him at his most vulnerable and she still won’t just tell the truth instead she’d rather post cryptic questions and skirt round the subject. She’s lied about his speech on so many occasions the poor wee boy will grow up thinking she was ashamed of him when he looks back on his childhood and the stuff Grinch said

 

[Danielle0120]

Correct me if I'm wrong but what I see myself and fellow tatters asking is for Hinch to be honest about Ronnie's behaviours/meltdowns etc and the quite obvious speech delay. Not to just label him as a brat and a naughty lockdown child. The excuses are tiresome.

Any rational adult with more than 2 working braincells and a platform as big as hers would at least mention their suspicions and how they're going about supporting Ron and themselves. Being an SEN parent is hard. It's a battle with so many people and things and for once she could do good by her children and not be so god damn selfish!! It's OK to feel hurt, bitter confused etc when faced with a neuro diverse child but duck Me she needs to start acting like a parent now not an overgrown child!!!!

Yes

 

[WestHighlandWy]

Okay so her last rant was about ladies on the bus and now ladies in the park. She’s not gonna say trolls anymore, it will be ladies who “speak” to her!!

 

[MGMG]

I can well believe a parent gave her stink eye if he was having a meltdown, and I can well believe others were sympathetic, I doubt they addressed her as "sophie" and if they did that's a bit creepy! I can't see why she can't be honest and just say this is what we are doing to help Ronnie get the diagnosis he needs, but I'm guessing the obsession with perfection is stopping her, that's why she is describing him as "perfect", no human is perfect and labeling (which she said she's against) a child as perfect is an impossible standard and leads to people like Hinch who have to pretend everything is sunshine and rainbows and can't cope with being honest!

 

[Ray_of_Sunshine]

Ok I’m waaaaaaaaay behind but just caught up with her stories. It doesn’t match with last nights comments on the last thread? Has she done a delete and repost this morning as it says she posted about Ronnie’s speech/labelling thing 35m ago?

 

[C1975]

Wow she is unbelievable. There is a huge difference between a diagnosis and label. I believe she is happy to label her child naughty.
Honestly she needs to get Ronnie some help and safeguard him by keeping him off instagram. Sorry rant over.

 

[Icantwiththesepeople]

Sorry but those messages about other women having 2.5 year olds who don't speak because of Lockdown make my blood boil. Weren't you talking to your children at all during that time?? Kids don't only learn everything from other children and adults. It's up to you, the parent, to teach them these things and seek help when you feel things are not quite right. Christ, my toddler is only just two and can talk whole sentences and name about 20 different types of dinosaurs because we are constantly talking to him and learning together. To blame the pandemic is just lazy parenting.

I'll get off my box now

 

[Pollyanna263]

I know it’s been mentioned on here before but Laura Clery was so open with her sons ASD. She’s made a beautiful video on Insta about it and it broke my heart because I related to it (like so many people). There were things her son finds comforting which my daughter does. She likes to spin etc and we do it together and she loves that we do it together! Laura showed herself rocking her son as he found it therapeutic and I’ve tried it with my daughter when she’s having a sensory overload - it calms her right down. It’s that tiny little thing as a follower what has made my life that bit easier until we get the help we are waiting for.

Sophie could have shared her experience and helped her debatable 4.1 millions followers but she hasn’t! What a bloody shame

The difference between Laura and Sophie - and the thing that sets you a million miles ahead of Sophie - is that Laura knows her son, and you know your daughter. There is a connection there that runs deep. That is what allows you to be the safe place for your child.

 

[Danielle0120]

Ok I’m waaaaaaaaay behind but just caught up with her stories. It doesn’t match with last nights comments on the last thread? Has she done a delete and repost this morning as it says she posted about Ronnie’s speech/labelling thing 35m ago?

My head hurts now so can't think, but I know what you mean...

 

[Alfie1234]

Does she realise that there isn’t a parent alive that hasn’t experienced either the kindness of strangers when you’re struggling with your kids and the glare of the unsympathetic too. She hasn’t been treated like it because she’s Mrs Hinch or because of Ronnies issues, she’s been treated like it because that’s what people are bleeping like towards others! Some are nice and some aren’t, duck me she’s driving me mad this week, she even turns people asking about Ron into a pity party for herself. duck off Soph and when you get there duck off some more and don’t come back.

 

[MrsBint]

Does this sound like it comes across as someone she knows? Seems to be talking as giving advice or something or is that just the way I’ve taken it. Can’t see a stranger writing something like this but then again these shoppers are crazy!!

 

[Alfie1234]

I know it’s been mentioned on here before but Laura Clery was so open with her sons ASD. She’s made a beautiful video on Insta about it and it broke my heart because I related to it (like so many people). There were things her son finds comforting which my daughter does. She likes to spin etc and we do it together and she loves that we do it together! Laura showed herself rocking her son as he found it therapeutic and I’ve tried it with my daughter when she’s having a sensory overload - it calms her right down. It’s that tiny little thing as a follower what has made my life that bit easier until we get the help we are waiting for.

Sophie could have shared her experience and helped her debatable 4.1 millions followers but she hasn’t! What a bloody shame

and if she doesn’t want to that’s absolutely fine, but take him off Instagram and stop parading him to the world!

 

[Not_A_Troll]

She’s somehow managed to say something without actually saying anything, that’s quite a skill!

 

[Sh1tRollsDownHill]

It’s interesting how little Ron showed more enthusiasm, excitement, animation, engagement and pure joy with a couple of fake pigs than he has ever has with his fake mother. What an adorable little boy he is

He is so adorable. This is what I was thinking with my last comment, it shows how crap his parents are with him. They really can't be arsed to put some effort and love in to Ronnie can they, he's very alert and engaging with activities focusing on him. The Hinch needs to re-evaluate the way they are bringing him up, give him a playroom full of toys and dress up items would be a good simple start. Stop making him perform for their own benefit, ultimately. Unfortunately, I don't think they have it in them
We're all fed up of watching her treat him like a prop, she reads here, her threads are full of parents, professionals and those who just care giving amazing advice and still, she doesn't see what she's doing to her lovely boy! She'll pick up on the few comments about her dog, the breastfeeding or the freebies, then do a fake Q&A with a nasty tone directed at those, but she doesn't take a bit of notice about anything to help Ronnie. Unless, she thinks "he can talk perfectly well thank you" is addressing it!
she is one of those that knows best, or her mother does anyway!

 

[ns22xo]

I can well believe a parent gave her stink eye if he was having a meltdown, and I can well believe others were sympathetic, I doubt they addressed her as "sophie" and if they did that's a bit creepy! I can't see why she can't be honest and just say this is what we are doing to help Ronnie get the diagnosis he needs, but I'm guessing the obsession with perfection is stopping her, that's why she is describing him as "perfect", no human is perfect and labeling (which she said she's against) a child as perfect is an impossible standard and leads to people like Hinch who have to pretend everything is sunshine and rainbows and can't cope with being honest!

I bet when the woman who looked down her nose at her (if that woman even exists) is when she stormed off and left Jamie on that ride because I bet she couldn’t/wouldn’t help Ronnie and just complained that he was being naughty and having a tantrum and most likely snapped at him. I bet that’s when (alleged) woman judged her and she stormed off

 

[Sausage90]

Why is she speaking in riddles?

Say what you want about lockdown, but I found my two came on leaps and bounds with me teaching them one to one.

Maybe the social aspects, but we all know Sopha didn't stick to the lockdown rules anyway!

 

[Suebigfatsue87]

Oh dear there’s a lot to unpack here. Can I just start by saying the fact she’s finally put that out there is one step and it is better than the ignorance we’ve seen of ronnies clear developmental delays, so credit to her for finally realising, you can’t help a child by making them live a life being who “you” wanted them to.

the label thing troubles be, Sophie I know you read here. Autism is a label, like any disorder is, if your child is not labelled with his autism or whatever it could be. He would of spent his life being labelled as strange, quiet, different, unusual etc. There’s no escaping labels. So please rethink how you word that. Autism is a label for a child who is neurodiverse, children with autism are amazing and have the potential to fulfil a rewarding life. Be grateful that you have access to huge lots of money which will open doors to jumping ques for private slt, ep etc assessments.

Ronnie deserves and is entitled to privacy on his journey in learning how to navigate the world as a neurodiverse child. The world is not quite there yet of being accepting of neurodiversity, take him away from Instagram, work with him privately. If you want to share snippets of him, cover his face, share how the progress is going but let Ronnie have a private life and identity away from the Instagram world. He will thank you for it as he gets older. If she does read here, read about “theory of mind” google “theory of mind and autism” it’ll help you understand better.

Children with autism can be particularly vulnerable, I highly recommend you do not keep sharing everything about him, this is the one thing she needs to take on board.

I would also recommend she start finding out about schools in her area now, he is 2.5, them yesrs fly by till reception. Sophie if you read here, private schools are not as good as mainstream schools for senco. I know you believe chucking cash will buy the best but that’s not always true. Yes it’ll certainly help you pay for private assessments which is amazing, if Ronnie needs an ehcp one day this potentially will get it sorted quicker if your local la accepts private assessments… but it doesn’t help with education. Private schools just don’t seem to have the amazing resources and knowledge like state schools do, probably because their are far more children in state schools in the U.K. and always have been so you’ll find the best for Ronnie will be a mainstream school with a good senco or a specialist school.

I really really hope this is the start of something for that little boy, I really do. He deserves to thrive and be loved. No more lying about his development as that almost makes it seem shameful, I hope she deletes the videos of her trying to prop him up and lying about speech. He doesn’t need to feel like he was embarrassing growing up.

mostly YESS for Ronnie! I would absolutely love to plan intervention with him, I just know he would thrive!

 

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[cantstandinfluencers]

If Soph hates social media negativity and all the discussions that come with that, then why did she choose to include showing her kids on it?

People are always going to comment on what they see and hear on a public platform. Same applies to celebrities, film stars, musicians, politicians etc etc.

so my advice is if you don’t like hearing what people have to say, stop using your kids. You didnt think twice when you thought it was fine to show Ron on the toilet. How would you like that happening to you? You publicly put Ron and Jamie down which is so unkind. Using words such as ‘naughty’, ‘tantrum’, telling everyone you had a falling out with your husband and that he blocked the toilet. Is it ok for him to now to do the same to you?
If you don’t like anyone discussing your children then just remove them from the public scrutiny. If you think you are so talented and famous, you shouldn’t have any need to use your kids on your account - it should be just about you and your cleaning.