Mrs Hinch #350 No one puts baby on the cooker

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Anyone want to hear a load of bullshit....if so have a listen.
"I've always been a fan of Tesco". Uh no you haven't love it's just they have thrown you tit loads of money to promote the brand.
What an absolute load of bollocks šŸ˜‚ As if anyone actually has brand loyalty to Tesco. People just pick whichever supermarket is a) nearest or b) within their budget.
 
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I am the same. Diagnosed anxiety, severe depression and ptsd. Like you it has ruined what should be happy moments. My daughter is 12 and has anxiety too now. She pulls her hair out, has no eyelashes and her eyebrows are slowly beginning to grow in again. Covid and lockdown did not help, it made it worse.
I hate when people use anxiety for things. I am not saying people don't have some form of anxiety but Hinch lies about the extent of hers. I followed her when she had 10,000 followers and truly believed she was like a friend to me. I was a mess because of her and it ended with my mum dragging me to the doctor. I was on the verge of being put on a 72 hour hold. I am ashamed of that, not because of my mental health but that a person online got me into that state. I was obsessed with cleaning, I was bleaching everything, I was constantly cleaning and scrubbing, I wasn't sleeping, I felt like my home was not good enough, that I was not good enough.
Listen... my mum a few years back got taken in by one of these online conmen. Sheā€™s so horribly embarrassed by it and canā€™t even discuss it with me as she did send him money. I canā€™t begin to wonder how much as itā€™d send me raging. And I understand her shame and embarrassment cos we all go ā€œhow could anyone be so stupidā€ but sometimes we do get taken in especially when we are vulnerable (my mum has chronic depression anxiety low self esteem and I can now tell has undiagnosed ADHD). End of the day whether itā€™s ā€œstupidā€ to some people, she believed it and sheā€™s a victim. Shouldnā€™t be blamed. Same as you. Hinch is not good for those with mental health issues. Donā€™t feel too awful xx
 
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Sorry if this has been done but Iā€™m surprised sheā€™s posted nothing about Sarah Everard. Sheā€™s such an influence and huge female following im surprised.
I guess telling people to educate their sons to be nicer to women wonā€™t fit her 1950s housewife model. And itā€™s hard to monetise posting about a woman who was just walking home. šŸ˜”
 
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Looks a bit like it. Perhaps he hit himself whilst in his home gym??
He just looks tired and unhealthy all the time. Mate needs to step back from the take-aways and his wife's attempts at cooking and chow down on a salad every now and then.

Sorry if this has been done but Iā€™m surprised sheā€™s posted nothing about Sarah Everard. Sheā€™s such an influence and huge female following im surprised.
I guess telling people to educate their sons to be nicer to women wonā€™t fit her 1950s housewife model. And itā€™s hard to monetise posting about a woman who was just walking home. šŸ˜”
You mean, Hinch actually comment on something going on in the world? A year on and she's hardly even mentioned Covid. It's like the world outside the Beige prison doesn't exist. Unless it's somewhere she can buy tat from....
 
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I need to have a look at the bouncy castle footage again but Iā€™m pretty sure it was filmed at the end of last summer rather than this spring. She was very careful with what she showed. I think she randomly showed it because it needed to fit in with the garden narrative.
 
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Felt I just had to comment today. Like everyone else Iā€™m so upset about Sarah and canā€™t imagine what she must of been put through. We have Hinch who hasnā€™t even mentioned SE when she has such a large platform (questionable) to do so. She could share something at least to help her fans who I presume are mostly female but no nothing, instead we get a crappy Easter tree sheā€™s purchased from a garden centre (such a necessity). Itā€™s exactly the same with coronavirus, no helpful tips or reassurance when she could of made such a difference to people especially those with ocd. Sorry but Iā€™ve had a really crap few days here in the real world and all I see is this bint pissing money up the wall!
 
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Sorry if this has been done but Iā€™m surprised sheā€™s posted nothing about Sarah Everard. Sheā€™s such an influence and huge female following im surprised.
I guess telling people to educate their sons to be nicer to women wonā€™t fit her 1950s housewife model. And itā€™s hard to monetise posting about a woman who was just walking home. šŸ˜”
Yeah, she probably had trouble making the story to be about her, so left it . She really doesn't give a flying duck does she ?
 
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Sorry I only lasted 30seconds in... šŸ¤®
That's a shame, you missed her saying um um um um um um um um that many times I wanted to lob my phone from the nearest unopened window. When will karma catch up with this lying, fake, conniving ignoramous.
 
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bleeping hell I normally flick through her stories without sound but today I didn't and what in the name of Mother Mary was that music all about? šŸ¤¢šŸ¤¢ So cheesy I almost boaked. What kind of simpleton would enjoy that tree montage? I have a feeling we will find out when she shares some messages from her sheep telling her that they are in tears and her family is 'goals'.

Also, love how they made a 10 minute task look like an all day family adventure. What a pair of wet wipes! šŸ˜‚
 
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WHY I AM HERE
Hello everyone, I am new(ish). I have joined in with conversations a couple of times but I really wanted to open up more about why Iā€™m actually here.

I used to love the person that was ā€˜Mrs Hinchā€™. I fell into the trap that makes you feel like sheā€™s your friend. That is a deliberate trap to make you feel welcome and it encourages you to trust her. Not only her but all influencers. I was the type who would look forward to her stories daily to see what she was doing and how she was. I would laugh along with her. I would interact with her questions and polls. I bought her first book (painfully boring). I followed what she was buying and bought the same things to try them. I defended her against people in real life I spoke to who laughed at the concept, I took no notice of anything negative.

And then it changed...

I donā€™t know if I remember one specific moment where I started to make a U-turn, but there was a rapid accumulation of things and they are as follows. I would often send messages of encouragement to her and ask questions and never get anything back. Maybe I was expecting too much, Iā€™m sure she gets thousands but she always says ā€œI see them all, I read them allā€. So I wondered to myself, if thatā€™s true I wonder why she only replies to certain people. Then I noticed it was people who either worship and praise her, or people that are saying how good her book, magazine, interview, product etc is. She doesnā€™t reply to or acknowledge like me who is trying to have a heart to heart, she replies to and puts on her stories those who are praising or promoting her. That didnā€™t sit well with me.

The next thing that joined the accumulation of doubt was her first book. I was excited to read it. Two chapters in I discovered it wasnā€™t so much a book, but a shopping list. After talking about herself indulgently in the first chapter, she just goes on to list what she uses at home and whatā€™s in her cleaning cupboard, one after another, after another, product after product. I remember sitting on the train on my commute to work thinking is this a book or a stock check? I was incredibly bored and disappointed for that, but also because it felt like a sell-out. I wondered which of the brands she was mentioning had paid her, or which ones she hoped to be paid by.

I have also noticed how much spending and wasting happens in the Hinch home. Growing up we didnā€™t have anything. We werenā€™t allowed trainers, branded sports wear, games consoles etc because my mum simply couldnā€™t afford them. Now that Iā€™m an adult I like to look after what I have and Iā€™m grateful for it all. Truly. I do not find Mrs Hinch to be grateful or generous towards others or the less fortunate.

Lies...
I have had my eyes opened here regarding lies and false claims, for sure. What I wanted to say about this was that these are not speculation, there are screenshots and dates for EVERYTHING. You canā€™t come back from that, itā€™s damning. This proof, combined with things I have seen myself have fuelled the doubt. I do not trust her to want whatā€™s best for me as a follower or consumer.

Anxiety. I have saved this for last and that is because it makes me the most angry. I have an anxiety disorder. DIAGNOSED. A full on, long-term, diagnosed, crippling, anxiety disorder. That is different from simply having anxiety. I am not downplaying how people with anxiety feel, I know it isnā€™t nice. But anxiety disorder is not the same. In my case it is combined with eating disorder, OCD and depression. I am going to claim therefore that I have the right to speak about it. I am not Mrs Hinch, so I do not speak for her. However, on the viewing end of her stories and posts, I find abnormalities in the consistency of how severe this ā€œanxietyā€ is. You can be nervous before a TV or radio interview. You can feel sick before public speaking. You can feel self conscious walking to the shop. These are all normal feelings of anxiety. That is not the same as an anxiety disorder. My perception is that Mrs Hinch will use anxiety as a sort of ā€œpassā€ for things she shouldnā€™t. Responsibility, people not liking her etc. This to me is offensive and unacceptable. If I had the platform she had I would want to be an ambassador for my condition. I would love to be a patron and a spokesperson for things I believe in. Why isnā€™t she working with charities if she suffers so badly? I donā€™t mean a one-off collaboration or mention for an event, I mean proper ground work. Or donations? Sheā€™s wealthy enough to be able to do that now. I have seen Mrs Hinch speaking in groups and in public. Sheā€™s fine. Getting nervous in the car on the way there isnā€™t anxiety thatā€™s abnormal, thatā€™s normal - you canā€™t then later use that to excuse yourself from other things. Anxiety disorder and OCD are not jokes and are not a trend so unless you have been diagnosed, not just Mrs Hinch, anybody reading this, you should look into whether you have a normal amount of it or not before you throw it around as a get-out.

I want to round up my post by saying that influencers of all kinds are not there for you. They donā€™t care about you as an individual, they donā€™t care what youā€™re struggling with, theyā€™re not going to hold your hand at night or pay your debts to that you can afford to eat. Itā€™s their job to make you feel like they will, or might, so that you trust them enough to buy what theyā€™re selling. I am telling you now, every single person apart from people you know in real life and face to face, EVERY person you follow on Instagram is fake. They are false, they are a brand, they are acting. Itā€™s all a performance. Itā€™s a job.

I worry for the younger ā€œHinchersā€ or anybody that had trouble taking care of their own finances who may be vulnerable and not able to understand that.

Taking this, and all of the other accumulated things into account I have now decided that I do not like Mrs Hinch, or the Mrs Hinch brand. It is tacky. It is deceitful. It will be short-lived.
I feel that there are probably so many others out there who realise all of this stuff but are too embarrassed to admit they they were wrong or that they changed their mind. Especially if, like me, they have out so much time and effort into defending her. Itā€™s hard to come back from that and say ā€œyou know what, I was wrong, this is stupidā€. If you are one of those people, thereā€™s nothing wrong with admitting you misjudged someone. You can change your mind. Iā€™m raising my hand now šŸ¤š and Iā€™m admitting I was one of them. I was sucked in.

Iā€™m closing now with this. Trolls are people who continually harass either by contacting someone online directly or via comments saying hurtful, malicious or threatening things. People who have an unpopular opinion or do not like Mrs Hinch are not trolls. You do not have to like everyone. Thatā€™s just how life goes. I do not agree with people calling her an ugly witch or saying things about Ronnie that they shouldnā€™t be. That isnā€™t right.
But lies, deception, generally being unlikeable and tacky? Yes. Thatā€™s an opinion and thatā€™s where I stand. I am no longer a Hincher. Sorry, hincher. Small ā€˜hā€™.
couldnā€™t have put this better if I tried. Well said šŸ™ŒšŸ»
 
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The more I see the more I loathe this vacuous moron. Doing an insta story in a maccy ds drive through. Fucks sake, and you just know the learning Spanish is because they'll be buying a place out there, if its not already bought that is.
Flaunting everything with zero bleeping regard to what's actually going on outside the walls of Castle GreyHinch.
I bet she's absolutely livid that Stacey got a TV show. I'm waiting for all the gushy posts when the first episode airs, it'll be vomit inducing. She'll always want to get one up on Stacey. Horrible human being. Selfish money grabbing chav.
 
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What an absolute load of bollocks šŸ˜‚ As if anyone actually has brand loyalty to Tesco. People just pick whichever supermarket is a) nearest or b) within their budget.
Wasnā€™t she shopping at Morrisonā€™s a few months back? šŸ¤”šŸ¤”
 
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Anyone want to hear a load of bullshit....if so have a listen.
"I've always been a fan of Tesco". Uh no you haven't love it's just they have thrown you tit loads of money to promote the brand.
She managed to squeeze 17 ermā€™s into a 2:13 clip. Yep I counted.
 
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She managed to squeeze 17 ermā€™s into a 2:13 clip. Yep I counted.
When she said sheā€™s always shopped at Tesco, I possibly, out loud, said what a load of bollocks, you shop in Morrisonā€™s! Partner thinks Iā€™m off my head!
 
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WHY I AM HERE
Hello everyone, I am new(ish). I have joined in with conversations a couple of times but I really wanted to open up more about why Iā€™m actually here.

I used to love the person that was ā€˜Mrs Hinchā€™. I fell into the trap that makes you feel like sheā€™s your friend. That is a deliberate trap to make you feel welcome and it encourages you to trust her. Not only her but all influencers. I was the type who would look forward to her stories daily to see what she was doing and how she was. I would laugh along with her. I would interact with her questions and polls. I bought her first book (painfully boring). I followed what she was buying and bought the same things to try them. I defended her against people in real life I spoke to who laughed at the concept, I took no notice of anything negative.

And then it changed...

I donā€™t know if I remember one specific moment where I started to make a U-turn, but there was a rapid accumulation of things and they are as follows. I would often send messages of encouragement to her and ask questions and never get anything back. Maybe I was expecting too much, Iā€™m sure she gets thousands but she always says ā€œI see them all, I read them allā€. So I wondered to myself, if thatā€™s true I wonder why she only replies to certain people. Then I noticed it was people who either worship and praise her, or people that are saying how good her book, magazine, interview, product etc is. She doesnā€™t reply to or acknowledge like me who is trying to have a heart to heart, she replies to and puts on her stories those who are praising or promoting her. That didnā€™t sit well with me.

The next thing that joined the accumulation of doubt was her first book. I was excited to read it. Two chapters in I discovered it wasnā€™t so much a book, but a shopping list. After talking about herself indulgently in the first chapter, she just goes on to list what she uses at home and whatā€™s in her cleaning cupboard, one after another, after another, product after product. I remember sitting on the train on my commute to work thinking is this a book or a stock check? I was incredibly bored and disappointed for that, but also because it felt like a sell-out. I wondered which of the brands she was mentioning had paid her, or which ones she hoped to be paid by.

I have also noticed how much spending and wasting happens in the Hinch home. Growing up we didnā€™t have anything. We werenā€™t allowed trainers, branded sports wear, games consoles etc because my mum simply couldnā€™t afford them. Now that Iā€™m an adult I like to look after what I have and Iā€™m grateful for it all. Truly. I do not find Mrs Hinch to be grateful or generous towards others or the less fortunate.

Lies...
I have had my eyes opened here regarding lies and false claims, for sure. What I wanted to say about this was that these are not speculation, there are screenshots and dates for EVERYTHING. You canā€™t come back from that, itā€™s damning. This proof, combined with things I have seen myself have fuelled the doubt. I do not trust her to want whatā€™s best for me as a follower or consumer.

Anxiety. I have saved this for last and that is because it makes me the most angry. I have an anxiety disorder. DIAGNOSED. A full on, long-term, diagnosed, crippling, anxiety disorder. That is different from simply having anxiety. I am not downplaying how people with anxiety feel, I know it isnā€™t nice. But anxiety disorder is not the same. In my case it is combined with eating disorder, OCD and depression. I am going to claim therefore that I have the right to speak about it. I am not Mrs Hinch, so I do not speak for her. However, on the viewing end of her stories and posts, I find abnormalities in the consistency of how severe this ā€œanxietyā€ is. You can be nervous before a TV or radio interview. You can feel sick before public speaking. You can feel self conscious walking to the shop. These are all normal feelings of anxiety. That is not the same as an anxiety disorder. My perception is that Mrs Hinch will use anxiety as a sort of ā€œpassā€ for things she shouldnā€™t. Responsibility, people not liking her etc. This to me is offensive and unacceptable. If I had the platform she had I would want to be an ambassador for my condition. I would love to be a patron and a spokesperson for things I believe in. Why isnā€™t she working with charities if she suffers so badly? I donā€™t mean a one-off collaboration or mention for an event, I mean proper ground work. Or donations? Sheā€™s wealthy enough to be able to do that now. I have seen Mrs Hinch speaking in groups and in public. Sheā€™s fine. Getting nervous in the car on the way there isnā€™t anxiety thatā€™s abnormal, thatā€™s normal - you canā€™t then later use that to excuse yourself from other things. Anxiety disorder and OCD are not jokes and are not a trend so unless you have been diagnosed, not just Mrs Hinch, anybody reading this, you should look into whether you have a normal amount of it or not before you throw it around as a get-out.

I want to round up my post by saying that influencers of all kinds are not there for you. They donā€™t care about you as an individual, they donā€™t care what youā€™re struggling with, theyā€™re not going to hold your hand at night or pay your debts to that you can afford to eat. Itā€™s their job to make you feel like they will, or might, so that you trust them enough to buy what theyā€™re selling. I am telling you now, every single person apart from people you know in real life and face to face, EVERY person you follow on Instagram is fake. They are false, they are a brand, they are acting. Itā€™s all a performance. Itā€™s a job.

I worry for the younger ā€œHinchersā€ or anybody that had trouble taking care of their own finances who may be vulnerable and not able to understand that.

Taking this, and all of the other accumulated things into account I have now decided that I do not like Mrs Hinch, or the Mrs Hinch brand. It is tacky. It is deceitful. It will be short-lived.
I feel that there are probably so many others out there who realise all of this stuff but are too embarrassed to admit they they were wrong or that they changed their mind. Especially if, like me, they have out so much time and effort into defending her. Itā€™s hard to come back from that and say ā€œyou know what, I was wrong, this is stupidā€. If you are one of those people, thereā€™s nothing wrong with admitting you misjudged someone. You can change your mind. Iā€™m raising my hand now šŸ¤š and Iā€™m admitting I was one of them. I was sucked in.

Iā€™m closing now with this. Trolls are people who continually harass either by contacting someone online directly or via comments saying hurtful, malicious or threatening things. People who have an unpopular opinion or do not like Mrs Hinch are not trolls. You do not have to like everyone. Thatā€™s just how life goes. I do not agree with people calling her an ugly witch or saying things about Ronnie that they shouldnā€™t be. That isnā€™t right.
But lies, deception, generally being unlikeable and tacky? Yes. Thatā€™s an opinion and thatā€™s where I stand. I am no longer a Hincher. Sorry, hincher. Small ā€˜hā€™.
This is so beautiful articulated. Thank you so much for this, perfectly put and polite.
 
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Wasnā€™t she shopping at Morrisonā€™s a few months back? šŸ¤”šŸ¤”
Literally about to say that I swear she used to bang on about Morrisons and how much she loved them. Then swiftly she changed to now amazing the clothes were from f&f and it was continously tagging Tesco.
 
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