These threads are moving too fast. Now, don’t hate me..
I do sympathise with her struggling as a new mum, even though she has worded it to sound like a cry baby, oh poor me etc.. it’s hard, it’s even harder when you know people are waiting for you to fail (17 Years old with a new born- I felt like people were just watching and waiting for me to fail) so yeah, I get that with her the world was watching sort of thing, I get the struggles with MH, as again, been there, struggling through it right now. BUT, what I don’t get is waiting to put this all in a book and interview, to line her pocket, why not just come on her story after Ron was born and simply say “fuck this is really hard” or just be more honest about her MH, like “ok guys today I haven’t cleaned my home because quite frankly I’d rather stay in my pjs, scoff a pack of biscuits and sleep when my child sleeps”, without the gushing posts on her stories “we’ve got this, we’re together in this, i love you all hinchers. ATB” posted at 2am for sympathy....
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Also hate that she used “we were trying and I thought it wouldn’t happen” but, married August- Trying until October? 10 months. People try for years and years. What she meant was, it’s Soph’s Fairytale land, they should’ve conceived on the first try. MR and I are trying, have been almost 2years. Yes it’s disheartening but it is what is is.
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I’d have respected her more if she had just said, I went looking for this, I didn’t anticipate how much hard work it would be, hinchers are bat shit crazy and tbh, I am thankful for the lavish lifestyle it has enabled me to have... but, I want to slow down a little now. Thanks. ATB
I suppose honesty doesn’t come quite as easy to Soph though.