YepI'm sorry if this is really hateful or nasty to her, but her obsession with dozens of different cleaning products and the multiple long cleaning rituals reminds me of stuff I read in the book 'The Feminine Mystique'* in which chapters discuss how the commercial industry advertises multiple different kinds of cleaners to take up women's time as housewives and almost acts like all women are interested in is obsessively complex cleaning of the home. It encourages them to waste their money and makes them spend more time than they need on housework cause that's all they have to occupy them. The feminist end of the book tells women to say to themselves 'no I don't need multiple kinds of cleaners, I don't need to give the companies all my money'.
*It was published in the early 1960s by PhD level psychologist turned housewife Dr. Betty Friedan and it was the feminist text that really 'got women out of the home.'