To be fair kids are allowed to go and stay with the other parent if their parents aren’t together. Otherwise you would get a lot of people using this as an excuse to not have their ex see the kids. Visitation/joint custody rules carry on just the same which is a good thing.They’re all doing it, they think they’re above everyone. SS I’m sure had family round at the beginning of lockdown for a family bbq and her kids go to their dads. They should come to my place of work and see what I do... maybe then they’d realise how serious this is