Very true but she doesnt need validation, she needs to hold on to that 3 million, she needs to keep them in "the big family" she needs them to feel a part of it all and the reason she does this is to be able to carry on promoting products when she gets back, she needs to keep high numbers so different companies come forward with offers, so she can start producing new marketed items, maybe a fourth book and to carry on selling the 'Hinch' name!
The 'validation' is no more than another sales ploy...same as anxiety, you sell better when you come across as a real person, you sell better when people think they are your friend....thinking she is an insecure, anxious, normal person needing to tell everyone about her life is what got her 3 million followers....the extension, kitchen and holiday are the things she and Jamie think they ( because he is also a salesman) are entitled to for several years of planning this!
Watch the YouTube video then tell me she needs validation, she is a confident, self assured, outgoing person!