She needs to shut the duck up. I buried my Dad last week and there was only 17 of us. Max was 20. We weren't allowed a car apart from hearse, had to sit every other row, wasn't allowed to sing the hymn & no wake afterwards. No-one was able to touch, although I did have a very brief hug with family although we were all wearing masks. That was the criteria. And we went with it. Because it's the rules. We'll have a big celebration of dad's life at a later date when we can but so many people were disappointed they couldn't come as my Dad was very popular. No-one moaned though as we're all adults and have respect. She needs to learn some !