Hahahahaahahaha I'm the exact same, I make the funniest digs. If I didn't I'd flip I think
Hahahahaahahaha I'm the exact same, I make the funniest digs. If I didn't I'd flip I thinkMy fella is a Mummy's boy as well. They facetime once a day, phone call every morning and night. She rings him and complains that he hasn't been to visit every dayhe has a Mum tattoo. When he says hes going to see her I go 'are you going to get your bitty?' He tells me to piss off
It's deffo a coping mechanismHahahahaahahaha I'm the exact same, I make the funniest digs. If I didn't I'd flip I think
I think I'd end up smothering her, using YOUR pillow that she is sleeping onWarning this will be a long post
So I really thought I would be coming online to share some good news with you. Last night I said to Mr P in a very serious tone ‘so your mums stuff is being installed at her house tomorrow. What is the plan after that’
He replied and said he will try and get his cousins to help move her home on Sunday. I was buzzing. Like thank god. This nightmare is ENDING.
Today he tells me that his mum has a hosp appt tomorrow which he will attend with her, and the delivery / installation of the stuff to her house is all day. He tried to call them to get a time and they couldn’t give one. I said okay can you not try and move your mums appt to Monday he said no. I said can you ask your aunt to go to her house (who will be at home doing fuck all 10 mins away) and wait for the delivery until you get back. He said no she won’t do it. He said I think they will reschedule. This fucked me right off because the last reschedule was a two week wait. He then said he hasn’t dropped all the forms off to make sure her care is activated ... he’s had them for over a week. So it’s clearly not happening on Sunday but he hasn’t told me that.
Today has been testing to say the least. She has randomly come to my dining room where I work to demand food in the middle of the day (she’d had breakfast and lunch)
She complained that I’d run out of crackers (she ate them all)
She then told me that my bedroom where she sleeps is ‘swarming with flies’ I haven’t seen one fly and it wouldn’t kill her to crack open the window. When I questioned her and said show me the flies she said there was one over there. ALL THIS NOISE OCEF ONE FLY ???
She then calls me and Mr P 3 more times to complain about flies. Mr P told me to ignore her. Dinner time comes around and she asks me what I’m cooking tomorrow - erm I don’t fucking know yet. She asks for me to get her a drink as I’m eating which I think is rude. If you can get up to demand food you can get up to get yourself a drink can’t you.
She then asks for about 3 things to eat after dinner. Then for me to help her lay down into (my) bed. Then asked me to BRUSH HER FUCKING HAIR.
Honestly at this point I could have a breakdown!!!
She had a fall not that long ago and banged her head. We had to call the paramedics and I was PRAYING they would take her and she’d end up remaining there. Sadly they were happy for her to to remain with usI think I'd end up smothering her, using YOUR pillow that she is sleeping on
I think you and I may be sharing a man!My fella is a Mummy's boy as well. They facetime once a day, phone call every morning and night. She rings him and complains that he hasn't been to visit every dayhe has a Mum tattoo. When he says hes going to see her I go 'are you going to get your bitty?' He tells me to piss off
I think he needs an ultimatum. Either she goes to her house ASAP or you go there alone. Current situation is not fair on you at all and the longer you put up with it the more you will resent them bothShe had a fall not that long ago and banged her head. We had to call the paramedics and I was PRAYING they would take her and she’d end up remaining there. Sadly they were happy for her to to remain with us
Oh god what the actual fuck. This sounds like a nightmare! You need to go batshit crazy I think. I think you’re being way too nice!!! Can’t your husband see her demands??? Why is he so quiet??? You need to give him an ultimatum. Say you can’t take this anymore, it’s unfair and she has completely taken over your life!!! If he doesn’t want to act on it then pack your things and leave that’s just pure hell. Also flies are normal at this time it’s summer?! They fly in and if you open a window they fly out. This woman sounds insufferable I hope you get rid of her soonWarning this will be a long post
So I really thought I would be coming online to share some good news with you. Last night I said to Mr P in a very serious tone ‘so your mums stuff is being installed at her house tomorrow. What is the plan after that’
He replied and said he will try and get his cousins to help move her home on Sunday. I was buzzing. Like thank god. This nightmare is ENDING.
Today he tells me that his mum has a hosp appt tomorrow which he will attend with her, and the delivery / installation of the stuff to her house is all day. He tried to call them to get a time and they couldn’t give one. I said okay can you not try and move your mums appt to Monday he said no. I said can you ask your aunt to go to her house (who will be at home doing fuck all 10 mins away) and wait for the delivery until you get back. He said no she won’t do it. He said I think they will reschedule. This fucked me right off because the last reschedule was a two week wait. He then said he hasn’t dropped all the forms off to make sure her care is activated ... he’s had them for over a week. So it’s clearly not happening on Sunday but he hasn’t told me that.
Today has been testing to say the least. She has randomly come to my dining room where I work to demand food in the middle of the day (she’d had breakfast and lunch)
She complained that I’d run out of crackers (she ate them all)
She then told me that my bedroom where she sleeps is ‘swarming with flies’ I haven’t seen one fly and it wouldn’t kill her to crack open the window. When I questioned her and said show me the flies she said there was one over there. ALL THIS NOISE OCEF ONE FLY ???
She then calls me and Mr P 3 more times to complain about flies. Mr P told me to ignore her. Dinner time comes around and she asks me what I’m cooking tomorrow - erm I don’t fucking know yet. She asks for me to get her a drink as I’m eating which I think is rude. If you can get up to demand food you can get up to get yourself a drink can’t you.
She then asks for about 3 things to eat after dinner. Then for me to help her lay down into (my) bed. Then asked me to BRUSH HER FUCKING HAIR.
Honestly at this point I could have a breakdown!!!
He has this mentality that we HAVE to look after our parents when they’re older. My take on that is when my mum gets older I will pop in on her a few times a week, make sure she has shopping, call her. Make sure she’s okay.Oh god what the actual fuck. This sounds like a nightmare! You need to go batshit crazy I think. I think you’re being way too nice!!! Can’t your husband see her demands??? Why is he so quiet??? You need to give him an ultimatum. Say you can’t take this anymore, it’s unfair and she has completely taken over your life!!! If he doesn’t want to act on it then pack your things and leave that’s just pure hell. Also flies are normal at this time it’s summer?! They fly in and if you open a window they fly out. This woman sounds insufferable I hope you get rid of her soon
He can do everything, at her house, either they go there, or you do. And if things go back to 'normal' I suggest you give him a lengthy spell on the sofa!He has this mentality that we HAVE to look after our parents when they’re older. My take on that is when my mum gets older I will pop in on her a few times a week, make sure she has shopping, call her. Make sure she’s okay.
His take on that is we have to do EVERYTHING they ask of us. No matter how it’s asked. Its expected.
The problem too is that she also EXPECTS to be looked after and has no interest in being independent. So it’s obviously some weird family thing and I didn’t get the memo
I can see myself doing it eventually.I would pay good money to see people finally snap and unleash on their MILs
https://giphy.com/2UvAUplPi4ESnKa3W0
Girl let me know so I can tune inI can see myself doing it eventually.
This would make a good reality tv show and I would be the first contestant.I would pay good money to see people finally snap and unleash on their MILs
https://giphy.com/2UvAUplPi4ESnKa3W0
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