I saw that video. I think Nicola has issues, constantly looking for validation online, everything she presents to the world is fake, but I do think her feelings on the issue with her daughter are genuine. I think N needs to have a look at herself and her behavior. I actually don't think she's doing anything on purpose to affect her kids negatively, but can she even have an intimate moment just lying on a bed with her kids chatting, or would that need to be photographed and filmed and made into a video with her narrating over the top about how she always takes time with her children to talk about how they are feeling, with close ups of her kids smiling and cuddling her, then fifty comments telling her that she is such a caring mamma. Children are sensitive to everything, her daughter knows that when she is acting out the cameras are firmly off and that is probably the one time she can have an actually connection with her mummy that is real, even if N is reacting negatively, shes got her for that time and its real with real emotion. I actual think her kids are quickly learning that if their mummy is sad or angry, or if they are, the camera won't come out to catch the moment, the second they are all happy and having a good time, out comes the camera and they've lost her.