What annoys me is she does it under the guise she cares about her followers! She doesn't give a flying fudge about her followers! She's already dropped them and told them not to trauma dump on her page.
Oh absolutely! I found it so odd the video she posted of her and her family at the bowling over the weekend. The kids looked totally disinterested, it just looked like an average family and nothing special whatsoever. It wasn't like the usual 'mummy vlogger' posts where they show the excitement of the kids, the happiness of the husband etc, the kind of thing that people actually consider inspiration to improve on their own lives. I skipped past it thinking it was a rando account tbh
Ah yes, the 4 step children that don't look at her tik tok!!!
despite her posting pictures of the kids on tik tok 
She is probably speaking from deciding not to try to work out why her mum abused her, but it’s not a standard that should be set. This is when she should be saying that she’s not qualified to give advice.She said yesterday that a commenter shouldn’t go to therapy because it’s better just ignoring it and not finding the causeyou’re apparently using this platform to help others but giving advice like don’t find the root cause for your mental illness
Yet she says she’s never afforded to leave the country. How can you afford all of that but not be able to slot in a cheap holiday somewhere. I just can’t imagine going through life working full time with nothing to look forward toAnyone else get the impression the real reason for Mel's tik tok is so she can show off to her ex family that she doesn't want in her life?
Every tik tok is... Look at my new house, look at my wedding, look at my husband, look at everything I've purchased, look at me slagging you off, look at my step family, look I've bought a new car, look at my life etc etc... But... I don't want anything to do with you!
I think it's because she is consumed and obsessed with looking backwards instead of looking forwards. Looking backwards also allows extended periods of woe is Mel.Yet she says she’s never afforded to leave the country. How can you afford all of that but not be able to slot in a cheap holiday somewhere. I just can’t imagine going through life working full time with nothing to look forward to
Yes, that live was cringe. 'ohhh, stop gifting me you guys, stooppppppp'. And she stays on for hours because she's being flooded with gifts. So, she's another tiktok beg, what a surprise eh?I get that each person trauma is bad to them & it's not a competition but I agree with you re her trauma. Many people have been through alot worse than Mel and deal with it much better than she does, and most don't need to liable others to recover.
I too would be interested in hearing the other side to her "stories" as I see her as a drama queen!
The problem with Mel is her followers seem to believe her every word, I don't.
Her stories are her interpretation of her past but it doesn't mean it's true.
She's currently on a live with her husband at midnight on tik tok! Imagine being so happy with your new husband / home / life etc that you feel the need to go live with strangers all day including at midnight in your home?
Would you ever trust a therapist or get into a therapeutic relationship with a person who's spent years online, publicly exposing her whole families and friends private and sensitive information everyday for years? Talking about and exposing very private information that is nothing to do with the trauma they say they've suffered? Because surely if a person can do such a thing to their own family and friends, they are more than able do it with the information that any random stranger has given them?duck no. Just talking about my trauma makes me uncontrollably shiver. Everyone’s different I guess and she’s already talked a lot of it out in therapy whereas I’ve kept it buried.Long one...
So, I've suffered from trauma in my life as maybe some of you have, would any of you who have suffered trauma in your life ever dream of creating a tik tok page to repeatedly tell your trauma stories over and over and over?
If a close relative or family member or friend has hurt you in your life, would you set up a tik tok account picking them to pieces and criticising them every day of your life? Blaming them and taking zero accountability yourself?
Would any of you set up a page to dramatise and act out your trauma because actions speak louder than words and you want to make sure people clearly see all you have to say aswell as hearing you?
Would any of you air your whole families dirty laundry in public so that you open yourself, your family and your friends up to ridicule online, because you've turned yours and their private life into an unbelievable car crash drama? Simply because you value yours and other people's privacy and lives so little?
Would any of you bring your awful past trauma into your new dream home for it to deliberately take up residence and have a room of its own, and for it to be brought out multiple times a day to the point you are living in the past in your dream new home? To the point you are just existing in your dream home but you are actually choosing to live in the past?
Would any of you who've suffered trauma, and after putting your husband through years of hell at the hands of your behaviour (we know this because we were told this) would you keep focusing on the past in his company, instead of planning a better future with him and relaxing with him, instead of making him join in yet more "trauma rants" as soon as he walks in his home after work or when he sits down to relax?
Would any of you who've suffered trauma go live and discuss your trauma repeatedly like a stuck record before and after work everyday and then upto midnight, in your dream home with your dream husband beside you, rather than privately relaxing with him and having a private life?
If you'd suffered from trauma of a sexual nature, would you invite people, into an imaginary "safe space" online and in public and then tell them to get dicked everytime your horny, especially after you've berated any critics who disagree with you by saying its normal to talk about a person's sex life in a safe space dedicated to talking about sexual abuse and trauma with followers who's stories you don't know?
Would any of you who've suffered trauma repeatedly and heavily criticise anyone who's ever hurt you in your life to the extreme that even strangers know the story word for word and can predict what your going to say next?
Would you find it very easy to betray anyone and everyone who is no longer in your life, and publicly humiliate them without them been able to have a right to reply to your allegations?
Would you feel comfortable exposing and oversharing your most private and intimate stories, your friends and families most private and intimate stories, your wonderful new husbands private and intimate stories, all for a few quid on tik tok and some free Mooslover leggings?
Surely therapy is were normal people go to be heard, to work trauma things out and to heal in a true safe space where qualified people can help you to heal safely? Yes there may be waiting lists and therapy isn't always perfect but surely it's got to be better and safer than this absolute car crash of one absolutely crazy womans life!
Bearing in mind she says she wants to be a therapist!
Of course these are metaphorical questions, I wouldn't dream of anyone answering them in public due to their serious and sensitive nature, and because I am not Desperately Undignified Oversharing Mel, the lass who I wouldn't trust with my shopping list never mind my precious life stories!
Safeguarding? Confidentiality?
Safe Space! Don't make me laugh! 🫣
YES TO THIS!!!Long one...
So, I've suffered from trauma in my life as maybe some of you have, would any of you who have suffered trauma in your life ever dream of creating a tik tok page to repeatedly tell your trauma stories over and over and over?
If a close relative or family member or friend has hurt you in your life, would you set up a tik tok account picking them to pieces and criticising them every day of your life? Blaming them and taking zero accountability yourself?
Would any of you set up a page to dramatise and act out your trauma because actions speak louder than words and you want to make sure people clearly see all you have to say aswell as hearing you?
Would any of you air your whole families dirty laundry in public so that you open yourself, your family and your friends up to ridicule online, because you've turned yours and their private life into an unbelievable car crash drama? Simply because you value yours and other people's privacy and lives so little?
Would any of you bring your awful past trauma into your new dream home for it to deliberately take up residence and have a room of its own, and for it to be brought out multiple times a day to the point you are living in the past in your dream new home? To the point you are just existing in your dream home but you are actually choosing to live in the past?
Would any of you who've suffered trauma, and after putting your husband through years of hell at the hands of your behaviour (we know this because we were told this) would you keep focusing on the past in his company, instead of planning a better future with him and relaxing with him, instead of making him join in yet more "trauma rants" as soon as he walks in his home after work or when he sits down to relax?
Would any of you who've suffered trauma go live and discuss your trauma repeatedly like a stuck record before and after work everyday and then upto midnight, in your dream home with your dream husband beside you, rather than privately relaxing with him and having a private life?
If you'd suffered from trauma of a sexual nature, would you invite people, into an imaginary "safe space" online and in public and then tell them to get dicked everytime your horny, especially after you've berated any critics who disagree with you by saying its normal to talk about a person's sex life in a safe space dedicated to talking about sexual abuse and trauma with followers who's stories you don't know?
Would any of you who've suffered trauma repeatedly and heavily criticise anyone who's ever hurt you in your life to the extreme that even strangers know the story word for word and can predict what your going to say next?
Would you find it very easy to betray anyone and everyone who is no longer in your life, and publicly humiliate them without them been able to have a right to reply to your allegations?
Would you feel comfortable exposing and oversharing your most private and intimate stories, your friends and families most private and intimate stories, your wonderful new husbands private and intimate stories, all for a few quid on tik tok and some free Mooslover leggings?
Surely therapy is were normal people go to be heard, to work trauma things out and to heal in a true safe space where qualified people can help you to heal safely? Yes there may be waiting lists and therapy isn't always perfect but surely it's got to be better and safer than this absolute car crash of one absolutely crazy womans life!
Bearing in mind she says she wants to be a therapist!
Of course these are metaphorical questions, I wouldn't dream of anyone answering them in public due to their serious and sensitive nature, and because I am not Desperately Undignified Oversharing Mel, the lass who I wouldn't trust with my shopping list never mind my precious life stories!
Safeguarding? Confidentiality?
Safe Space! Don't make me laugh! 🫣
She’s upset because she has had to do some work for once! Either that or she has been worded about making TikToks whilst she is supposed to be working.More fake drama and crisis from Mel. Obviously she has to "jump on tiktok" to get sympathy
Wait till she fills up her new SUV with fuel.
She'll need another morgage after having had a corsa for years!
I'm suprised work tolerated her making TikToks when she was supposed to be working and getting paid to work, she pushed it and she knows she pushed it. Of course they will be her new enemy now especially if they have critisised her in any way. Mel does not have the emotional intelligence to deal with any justifiable criticism levied her way.
