Missing Blogger Esther Dingley

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I am on quite a few other threads and comment on them. Sorry if its aimed at me,been following this story from the start. Wanted to wait for her to be found before commenting.
Nope not you, they are all easily identifiable by only being "Member" and having no profile image. Neither of which you meet.

"delta ops"? Is everyone at LBT Global about 8 years old? Do they think they're in the SAS or something?
 
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It tells you all you need to know.

Personal Statement by Esther’s Partner, Dan Colegate

Esther is simply the best person I’ve ever met. She is kind, generous, compassionate, intelligent and creative. She wears her heart on her sleeve and always sees the best in others.

There is a reason Esther has a first class Oxford degree and represented Great Britain as a junior rower, among her many other material achievements that came from her determination and resourcefulness. Yet none of those achievements are the reason I love her so much. The real reason, the one that drew me in almost 19 years ago and sustained us both through the ups and downs of any normal relationship, is her unwavering goodness and commitment to doing what she feels is right.

It is true that once Esther sets her mind to a goal she will move mountains to make it happen, but that has always remained secondary to her commitment to helping those in need and leaving the world she touches a better place. We can never finish a hike without her pockets bulging with litter she’s picked up, she won’t pass a stranger without smiling, and every decision Esther makes is governed by a powerful moral code.

Since Esther went missing I have been lost in a world that no longer makes sense to me. Every aspect of my life and the future I dream of includes Esther. We have built a life that focuses on being a team, where ‘home’ is wherever we are together, and where nothing matters as long as we have each other. Spending occasional times apart, to pursue separate goals, recharge and intensify the pleasure of being together, is part of that for us. Seeing Esther happy in the mountains, expanding her boundaries and discovering more about herself makes me happier than I can describe.

I never imagined that one day she would not come home. Many times we had discussed how we would grow old together and take slow walks reflecting on the adventures of our youth. The pain of her disappearance is excruciating, but even that pales into insignificance against the pain of not knowing what’s happened to her. It’s crippling. The nightmares. The constant questioning. The helplessness.

Until Esther is found I have to continue to hold on to the hope that she can come home safely.

If anybody has any information, no matter how insignificant it might seem, or if they know anybody who was in the area at the time, who may have been working outdoors, hunting, walking, hiking or cycling, please, please contact the LBT Global Hotline. Information can be provided anonymously and passed on to the police in this way.

LBT Global Hotline: +44 (0) 800 098 8485

WhatsApp: +44 (0) 7545 826 497

Email: [email protected]
The boundaries part? The rest for me is him virtue signalling.

I get red flags if I see someone pushing their partner to "expand their boundaries".

Esther did tell the world he was always "pushing her" to go further than she thought she could manage. (Her Facebook posts)
 
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What's the deal with all the new posters in this thread that only ever look and comment/react on this thread, and never any others?

Are they Dan, or employees of LBT Global, getting ready to steer the narrative?
Yes I am Dan trying to make you all think I did it!

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The boundaries part? The rest for me is him virtue signalling.

I get red flags if I see someone pushing their partner to "expand their boundaries".

Esther did tell the world he was always "pushing her" to go further than she thought she could manage. (Her Facebook posts)
To me it reads as his truth, the whole thing. Each chapter represents something significant, it can be translated thanks to his obsessively organised mind. But yes that boundaries part is the worst. Also how he hopes she comes back safely, as in not alive but safely for him.
 
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Nope not you, they are all easily identifiable by only being "Member" and having no profile image. Neither of which you meet.



"delta ops"? Is everyone at LBT Global about 8 years old? Do they think they're in the SAS or something?
Not all. Some like Broccoli & several others have very interesting insights.
 
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What's the deal with all the new posters in this thread that only ever look and comment/react on this thread, and never any others?

Are they Dan, or employees of LBT Global, getting ready to steer the narrative?
To be fair, I've been a member for a while and used to post on the FoD threads, but I lost interest in all that kind of nonsense and only post/read this thread now. I was originally on the Websleuths thread, but there is too much moderation/judgement from fellow posters on there, and this is the most frank discussion on the internet about this case. So I can see why people have been drawn to Tattle specifically for this thread.
 
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What's the deal with all the new posters in this thread that only ever look and comment/react on this thread, and never any others?

Are they Dan, or employees of LBT Global, getting ready to steer the narrative?
LOL, if you mean like me - then I found this thread googling the story, which interests me as I've spent time in mountainous terrain.

Gosh, do share what horrified you. I never read the document, just snippets others posted.
Here's a link to the document:
 
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The more Dan + LB Trust push the ‘French police/searchers incompetence’ angle to explain why her body + belongings were not found sooner by them, the more determined the French investigators will be to provide a definitive answer.

My instinct is that it will be undetermined (or most likely an accident) - given the subtleties between falling and being pushed and otherwise lack of circumstantial evidence. (Thinking of the complexities of The Staircase case and that was in a house with the crime scene secured relatively early). Unless there is some sort of smoking gun level of reveal in the forensics. Caroline Crouch’s death would always have seemed suspicious but it was the phone/smart watch data that ultimately tripped up Babis Anagnostopoulos, in contrast I doubt Esther’s phone will yield anything and burner phones and sims are easy to ditch.

I can only go by a few videos I have seen of Dan (both before and after Esther’s disappearance), from those he isn’t someone I’d want near my girlfriends/sisters/nieces. Does that make him a murderer? No of course not but he still sets my alarm bells off. I wonder if anyone felt the same about Ian Stewart after his first wife died. (It wasn’t until Ian was convicted of murdering his second wife, wealthy author Helen Bailey, that his first wife’s death was re-examined and he was charged - now facing trial).
 
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Yes I am Dan trying to make you all think I did it!



To me it reads as his truth, the whole thing. Each chapter represents something significant, it can be translated thanks to his obsessively organised mind. But yes that boundaries part is the worst. Also how he hopes she comes back safely, as in not alive but safely for him.
By acting the part of someone who loved her he gets to look good & sell more books.

It's quite cold really. There's nothing truly warm & fuzzy there.
 
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I only comment on this thread & I'm new to this site. I came here because I was so frustrated at the Dan fawning that's going on over on Websleuths. I had been following the case over there for months until someone there mentioned this site. Then I moved here. I don't agree with a lot of what's said here, but that's ok, at least you CAN share different opinions here and that's the key. You're not allowed to even mention Dan's suspicious behaviour or his anomalies over there, yet ALL of it forms the story. You can't just cherry pick parts of the story and leave out the rest because it's "victim blaming". Dan had a massive part in this too, whether he was directly involved or not, as he is the one providing the information. The sheer fact he had them concentrating their search in the wrong area (whether by accident or by design) in and of itself could have cost her her life. What if she was laying there alive for a few days with broken legs? He also didn't call for help soon enough. Again, oversight or by design? Then you have him finding the body when the search teams searched that area twice. Another massive red flag. If these points cannot be discussed, then what is the point as you are discussing half a case? And that's before we even mention any of the other red flags. I'm fed up with Websleuths and how they fawn all over these partners. They were fawning all over Caroline Crouch's husband as well, and we all know what happened there. I get that allowing discussion of partners can get very nasty when maybe they are totally innocent, I get the sensationalism. But more often than not it IS a family member, so there's a fine line. My personal opinion on this case is this - I don't know. It could easily have been both - an accident or foul play. We don't have enough information. We don't even know where exactly she fell. We don't know why her phone didn't ping anymore. We don't know if she died later on the 22nd or if it was the next day. If it was the next day, we don't know where she slept that night. We don't know why she was up a mountain that seems impossible to climb (IF indeed that was where she was, which we don't even know). We literally know nothing. What we DO know is that Dan has acted suspiciously since the get-go, and all of that forms a part of this story, whether he was directly involved or not. That's my two cents for what it's worth.
 
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As I've said before, I still think he is responsible but I think he will 'get away with it' as it will be impossible to prove beyond reasonable doubt. He would know that any blood near him would lead forensics to him so I think he pushed her but how on earth would you prove that unless you can put him at the scene?
 
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LOL, if you mean like me - then I found this thread googling the story, which interests me as I've spent time in mountainous terrain.


Here's a link to the document:
SvenS, I have very much appreciated your comments on here. Because I straddle between the two theories, and a lot of what you have written re the accident theory makes sense to me. Plus you helped me get clearer in my mind that she probably went West and never did go East. Maybe she always went West and could possibly have had the accident that night.
 
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I actually think there are a few posters on websleuths have been suspicious of DC for quite some time but the rules of that website are very strict about what the moderators term ‘victim blaming’ and at the moment DC is classed as a victim of the tragedy. So posters on there have to be careful what they say, but reading between the lines a few of the posters are thinking along the same lines as many people on this thread.
That’s so bizarre. Clearly the victim here is Esther since she is the one who is dead.
 
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Don’t shoot me but I’ve got a whole new theory ….. so we’re all agreed he seems to be a bit less well off than she was so what if he cooks up a scheme whereby she goes missing in the mountains, media gets involved, everyone looks for her and then he miraculously finds her. They then write a book and make a fortune but somewhere along the way it all goes a bit wrong and she ends up in an accident. Hence why he was able to eventually find her (he knew the path she’d take) and that’s why he is dodgy as buggery!
 
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That’s so bizarre. Clearly the victim here is Esther since she is the one who is dead.
Yes it's terrible. And worse still, the fawning is dreadful. Poor Dan this, poor Dan that. Nobody dares mention all his red flags. All of which led to Esther only being found now. It's like gaslighting tbh. I understand the website don't want to point fingers at family members until the police say so, but in this case the police have said numerous times they are not ruling out foul play.
 
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As I've said before, I still think he is responsible but I think he will 'get away with it' as it will be impossible to prove beyond reasonable doubt. He would know that any blood near him would lead forensics to him so I think he pushed her but how on earth would you prove that unless you can put him at the scene?
Did you notice the list of 18 missing items? They're all things that she'd have been wearing eg thick jackets or holding close to her body eg hiking sticks.

Blood spatter surfaces he'd have to get rid of.

Inclines me to believe blood was involved. Why else would the killer remove 18 items?

I'm putting all my hopes in forensics & info they have that we don't have.

They have spent a lot of $$ so far and stated forensics will take 1 month. They had to justify that expenditure to their bosses & pull a senior guy in on top of all that.

Fingers crossed.
 
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By acting the part of someone who loved her he gets to look good & sell more books.

It's quite cold really. There's nothing truly warm & fuzzy there.
Yes exactly.
Paragraphs as I see them-
1. "Best person" for supply
2. Her status and worth. What he saw in her, intrigued by her morality (opposite to him).
3. Why the relationship ended and he went off her
4. All about the murder, his motive and thoughts since. It made him "happier than he can describe".
5. His doubts about swapping his futures. Will he be caught?
6. "I try to hold on to the hope I will get away with it"
7. "My anxiety is off the chart, so if you saw me working outdoors, hunting, walking, hiking or cycling, please tell the police so I can be put out of my misery, but no one did see me because I am so clever"
 
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Nope not you, they are all easily identifiable by only being "Member" and having no profile image. Neither of which you meet.



"delta ops"? Is everyone at LBT Global about 8 years old? Do they think they're in the SAS or something?
Hang on, that sounds like me. I’ve been following the case for a while because I instantly thought it was the boyfriend but I wasn’t sure on voicing my opinions out loud! I’m definitely not from LBT though
 
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The list of missing items got my attention this morning.

18 things! I'd thought it was just a tent.

No way animals took all that. What for?

Metal sticks.
Jackets.
Items in proximity to her body.

1. If he only pushed her or only scared her into stepping off a cliff (she did not fall anyway IMO ) there is no need to remove evidence.

2. If he smashed her skull he does. And we have a cracked skull.

Yes exactly.
Paragraphs as I see them-
1. "Best person" for supply
2. Her status and worth. What he saw in her, intrigued by her morality (opposite to him).
3. Why the relationship ended and he went off her
4. All about the murder, his motive and thoughts since. It made him "happier than he can describe".
5. His doubts about swapping his futures. Will he be caught?
6. "I try to hold on to the hope I will get away with it"
7. "My anxiety is off the chart, so if you saw me working outdoors, hunting, walking, hiking or cycling, please tell the police so I can be put out of my misery, but no one did see me because I am so clever"
It took me a minute but now I see.

What the FBI call "leakage".

You're incredibly good at detecting it. Gobsmacked.
 
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Did the police ask for volunteers that were used to climbing the area to advise them on spots of interest? I still find it odd that she was hidden away in a cave that police has previously missed yet he found her.
 
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Don’t shoot me but I’ve got a whole new theory ….. so we’re all agreed he seems to be a bit less well off than she was so what if he cooks up a scheme whereby she goes missing in the mountains, media gets involved, everyone looks for her and then he miraculously finds her. They then write a book and make a fortune but somewhere along the way it all goes a bit wrong and she ends up in an accident. Hence why he was able to eventually find her (he knew the path she’d take) and that’s why he is dodgy as buggery!
I thought this yesterday when I watched him talking about seeing the mountain rescue teams. It was like he saw the opportunity there, knew people would go looking, just after the BBC piece about their travels…

Either he coerced her into ‘disappearing’ and she had an accident, or something happened and she wanted to call it off, they argued, he was close by and then something happened.
 
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