Don't even care about "hate" watching her last video as I know I'll have nothing to more to say than what's already been said before. She certainly can't teach me anything either about sustainability in fashion. Yet another piece of content for people that clearly have been living under a rock (like people still don't know plastic is bad? That polyester is a polymere? That vegan leather is plastic? Maybe they still don't know nail polish is not natural either, despite whatever brand wants to make you believe with their "clean nail polish" marketing?).
I don't get it why it's so difficult for people to do their own research. Do they watch documentaries? Reports? Read articles? I am always so shocked to see some people replies like their sole source of information is their favorite Instagramers feeds. We can criticize the influencers for as long as we want, if people behind their screens won't change their behavior, influencers will keep their status. It's crazy how someone can go on Instagram and present themselves in such a perfect way, and people buy and start wanting everything this Instagramer sells... It's like some people will never go and look for music themselves, they will listen to whatever is served on the radio. Meme's followers seem to be waiting for her to give them information. "please can you talk about this or that'' like she has some kind of PhD or expertise in sustainable fashion????
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On another note, I was thinking it's funny how Meme always talked about being extroverted, and they were always branding her like the better communicator out of them 2, when in reality Alex always seemed more extraveted than her. With him always having a network meeting or something going on etc.. But now, as I still think Alex is the extraverted one, I really see how Meme might actually care more for the people in her life than Alex could ever. Even though Meme hasn't had a lot of friends and doesn't seem to thrive in social environments where she isn't the centre of attention so it's not that easy for her, she clearly has kept her friends for longer than Alex. I think she is just really playing this extraveted persona but really she's very much a controlled self-protective quiet person. Hence why she's not been able to makes friends easily and hence why now she's sticking to this Masha Theone like she's finally found a cool chick to hang out with and that she trusts.
Alex hasn't got this problem. He's extraveted and arrogant, he only looks for self-serving relationships. They are replaceable. As we saw with UJ. He goes from one friend obsession to another. In Meme's mind being extraveted means needing other people energy, needing to feel surrounded by people, it reassures her etc vs being introverted means being basically closed to human interactions, picturing a lonely introvert in the countryside in the middle of nowhere. She is definitely introverted, and won't be arsed to interact with other people unless she's the center of attention so she's in her comfort zone. She couldn't form any relationship with the Onslow Square mums and any member of the community in the 6 years they've been living there since having Alexa. The mums said about her that she was very standoffish. Maybe I'm trying to find her excuses but I think she might just be very self- conscious and incapable of making connections without Alex. He's always been her life buoy. It was only after having Alexa, and being basically by herself (with Alex spending his days at the empty office when he could clearly work from home like he suddenly does more now that Alexa is at school
) that it became clear to Meme that she needed to form friendships.
Their dynamics is so weird with family members as well. Seems like Alex only cares about having fun, like he doesn't genuinely care about listening to people's problems or what is going on in their life (well to be fair I don't condemn him totally because Meme's family does seem to be bunkers, especially Leyla
), so his one job is to pay everything and arrange for everyone to buy himself out of the emotional support part of being a family.
And then you have Alex's own mom who's been staying at their office for 6 years on and off. And I'm pretty sure she's spent more time with Meme and Alexa than with Alex. Alex who again will take his mom once in a while to a super fancy restaurant that HE fancy, and call it a day. Son duty done for the month.
I think Meme has really wasted her life on him just for money. She could be her own boss, she could have made Love Hair her own thing and gained independence. She seems to care more about the peopme in her life, despite regularly criticizing her parents... If she was not as passive she could organise nice family vacations without her useless husband herself. Or organise herself à trip to Sweden with Alexa, because it's her dream but Alex don't want to travel in cold Sweden (but left for skiing with friends without a problem during covid).
And why couldn't it be Meme travelling for work instead of Alex for once?
Maybe Alex living for an insta bimbo would be the best thing to happen to Meme. She could take control of her life again perhaps... Or live at an even slower pace than she does now... Who knows.
She needs to wake up.