I had my first baby a few months after Mia had Mabel. I used to watch her videos and all she ever said was about Mabel never crying. My daughter was a very crying newborn. So when Mia kept saying Mabel didnt cry, it always made me feel like I was doing something wrong and my baby wasnt happy. Looking back I know that wasnt the case. But this is a prime example why everyone should be okay about all aspects instead of trying to make out everything is perfect. Because there will always be someone you make feel bad as a result