Iâve always thought this, she just wants a âcute little babyâ she seems to forget that they quickly grow up and itâs on you to raise a decent human being and that takes time and love. When she eventually has another, the same will happen, she will get fed up with them once they are out of the newborn phase. When I started trying to get pregnant with my daughter it was because we wanted to start a family, not just to âhave a babyâShe never gets a break but she wants to have another babymaybe this sounds bad but I feel she only wanted a baby, not a child if that makes sense. As soon as mabel started being mobile etc she straight away started talking about more kids.
Having kids isn't an easy thing, but I don't understand what is so hard for mia? She lives with her family, plus she's hardly running round after mabel all day, they are always both just in her room. The poor kid seems to have been trained that way, only stay in this one space,plus she seems like a pretty chilled toddler
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Iâve always thought itâs a bit strange how Mia wants a small age gap between her children because her her and Beth are only 2 years apart, when itâs not like theyâre especially close or anything. I think Mia thinks her and Beth are really close because she doesnât have any actual friends and Beth is the only person who puts up with her because theyâre sisters. Who else can you have a massive argument with and then be best friends with the next day (honestly having a sister is simultaneously the most infuriating and most fun thing ever)? Beth even said that her and Mia werenât that close until Mia got pregnant, were as Mia tries to act as if theyâve always been best friends. I wonder if Miaâs hoping that if she has another baby before Mabelâs 3 then once that childâs a toddler it wonât bother her as much because theyâll have an older sister to entertain them and play with.
That's what she said yes.
However I don't understand how she's going to be moving soon considering whats happend. How is she still expecting to pay for all of this
There is 22 months between my little girl and little boy, I wanted a small age gap even though me and my older siblings are close in age but aren't exactly close.My 2 are very close to each other and it's actually helped being in lockdown etc that they have each other. But I've said this before, I had a an almost 2 year age gap between my 2 kids, they are my world and made my life better but looking back I would have waited and had a larger age gap because its just so hard and I think that's what she's not understanding.
When I had my first midwife appointment with my second she asked if I planned the small age gap she looked at me and said good luck, at the time I laughed and thought how hard could it be but I soon realised that it's so tough. I wanted 4 kids before I had kids and now I have 2,im like no more
I personally wanted a small Ge gap between my kids because I wanted them to grow up together and I hoped they would have a special bond ( which they really do) but as I've said before, I think mia wanted and wants a baby not a child. I still get baby fever now but I realise I miss the newborn stages and you have to realise they grow up and it gets harder.
Expecially with her emotional state the way it is, she is not in any situation to be having another baby, let alone a close age gap. If she really loved her daughter she should focus on her now.sometimes I honestly think she sounds mad when she talks, she genuinely thinks she knows everything which at 18 I thought I did too, I think we all do. But she honestly makes me laugh so much when she's an 18 year old talking about getting a sperm donor just because she doesn't want a dad to be around with her kids, I genuinely feel she is not in the right state of mind when she talks like this because I don't think it's normal stuff for an 18 year old to be coming out with. I could underatand if she was 40, but she's 18.acting like their is no hope for her to meet someone and settle down and do it properly. I'm 22 now, but since being 18,my mind has changed drastically, and your mind changes so much within your 20s and 30s anyway. She shouldn't be jumping into having so many kids all at once imo.
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I know, sorry.
What I meant was that from what she said (if I'm remembering right), she will likely already have the keys.I donât understand the rush in having a small age gap. My me and my sister were 13 months apart and my mum said how much she really struggled she had to do everything twice or buy double, two nursery places ect which obviously isnât a problem when you can afford it, but with Mia spending over her budget on rent, not to mention her other bills, I think sheâd be really silly to get pregnant again just for the fact that she âwants a small age gapâ this is the real world, not a game of Sims. I personally thought about having kids close together because I loved the idea of them being best friends like me and my sister, but I couldnât afford two at once and I donât think Mia can either. My two are 3 and 8 and theyâre in completely different stages and my eldest is sooo helpful with the younger one. Iâm not saying there is a right time or right age gap, all of them have their positives and negatives! Iâm all for having kids when you want, if you can support and look after them properly. But everyone can clearly see, she struggles to give Mabel attention most of the time so I canât imagine what it would be like with two .Mia canât do what she plans to do on a wobbly wage and a tit attitude towards parenting as it is. I just think Mia should really think about her life choices, instead of just running with a really bad idea and then it affect her in the long run.
do you imagine her next video being "i'm pregnant again! - teen mom of 2"
Mia can barely look after herself and struggles with Mabel. No mum has to be model perfect and absolutely know 100% what to do. But Mia sends Mabel to nursery in pain whilst she gets a lie in and palms her off to nursery in pandemic. With 1 child in school in a few years and the other would probably be in nursery, you couldn't pack them off with illness - especially contagious - because they'll be spreading and picking things up. I hope she has seen sense and doesn't have another child yet for her sake as well as Mabel's. Mia always looks drained and not interested in Mabel and dismisses her negative emotions.
Mabel's toddler years should be enjoyed by Mia as she sees Mabel become her own person. She will be at school soon enough and Mia is still young, so waiting a bit for another baby would be best all round.
Mabel's toddler years should be enjoyed by Mia as she sees Mabel become her own person. She will be at school soon enough and Mia is still young, so waiting a bit for another baby would be best all round.
Iâm kind of excited to see when she does get pregnant because if itâs anytime within the next year (maybe even 2/3 now) itâll be SO obvious that sheâs gone down the dodgy Facebook donor route. So sheâs either going to have to wait quite awhile or admit that itâs from Facebook lmao
Personally, age gaps donât impact how close siblings are I have to older siblings who are 6 and 13 years older than me, we are still very close.
I think Mia is rushing to have another kid because she wants to âperfectâ her life asap, she would rather feed her identity of being a mother to distract the fact she has no other solid personality traits other than that, she doesnât want to do any other personal development to herself other than pop out strangers children.
If she has 3/4 kids by 25 sheâd be able to prove the âhatersâ wrong that her life is âtogetherâ.
Yet the reality is Mia is the bare minimum of a mother, she keeps Mabel alive but doesnât nurture or love her truly imo, Mabel is literally Miaâs source of income and the reason people know her yet she makes very little time for her - sheâs an annoyance.
Mia very obviously struggles with depression it seems and finds it difficult to not only take care of herself, but Mabel too. Why is she treating a second baby as a âget away carâ to her current problems? Your life wonât be perfect when you have 2 kids Mia, just going to be a whole lot more difficult.
I think Mia is rushing to have another kid because she wants to âperfectâ her life asap, she would rather feed her identity of being a mother to distract the fact she has no other solid personality traits other than that, she doesnât want to do any other personal development to herself other than pop out strangers children.
If she has 3/4 kids by 25 sheâd be able to prove the âhatersâ wrong that her life is âtogetherâ.
Yet the reality is Mia is the bare minimum of a mother, she keeps Mabel alive but doesnât nurture or love her truly imo, Mabel is literally Miaâs source of income and the reason people know her yet she makes very little time for her - sheâs an annoyance.
Mia very obviously struggles with depression it seems and finds it difficult to not only take care of herself, but Mabel too. Why is she treating a second baby as a âget away carâ to her current problems? Your life wonât be perfect when you have 2 kids Mia, just going to be a whole lot more difficult.
The personality thing is sooo true. Iâm not diagnosing her at all but it wouldnât surprise me if she did have some kind of personality disorder/issue. Itâs sad to see her make such drastic life-altering decisions because she isnât getting any help to figure out what the route cause is. Itâs like thereâs always something missing for her and thatâs why sheâs constantly trying to do a million different things and be a million different people..
(I do think YouTube plays a massive part in this but I do also think thereâs more to it as well)
This is so true I have a sister who's 13 months older than me and we dont get on and a sister who's 7 years older and shes litreally my best friend
you saw how much Mia banged on about how desperate and happy sheâd be if she got twins. Sheâd want the small age gap for matching outfits and the insta pics
she likes nothing more than the idea, the aesthetic and the weird names for her kids, after all that, they will be plonked on the electric stove or spend their 1st year stuck in a jumperoo whilst Mia has her back turned, doing ads for products she doesnât even really like 
Even in her recent post on instagram about leaving Youtube for a while has spelling mistakes in it. So embarrassing honestly
Any updates on her return yet??? Any social media updates?
I'm sure she'd of got the keys to her house now, think she said mid Feb for keys then move in beginning of March so wonder if She's gonna come back like nothings happened sometime in March with loads of BORING house content
orrrrr she's left the house because she's realised there's no way in bleeping hell she'll cope with her own house just yet. She had alot to learn during her break.
I'm sure she'd of got the keys to her house now, think she said mid Feb for keys then move in beginning of March so wonder if She's gonna come back like nothings happened sometime in March with loads of BORING house content
orrrrr she's left the house because she's realised there's no way in bleeping hell she'll cope with her own house just yet. She had alot to learn during her break.she probably wants a small age gap because then she can title her video âSINGLE TEEN MUM OF TWOâ she knows she only has 2 more years to rinse the teen mum click bate
Even if Mia's fully aware she wouldn't cope with a house of her own I don't think she'd give it up. She has zero humility and she's really immature, so she'd never "prove people right" by not going through and being open about it, she'd do it anyway and fall back on benefits or mummy, or she'd back out and say that it fell through, through no fault of her own.
Personally, I look for accountability in influencers. I don't really care if somebody fucks up (within reason), as long as they're honest and remorseful and educate themselves and come out and say "I did X and I understand now that it was wrong for X and X reason and I've done X and used X resources to better educate myself so that I don't make the same mistake in future" and a genuine apology to anybody they've upset or offended. That's a good influencer. Not "ITS JSUT TEA FFS"
Personally, I look for accountability in influencers. I don't really care if somebody fucks up (within reason), as long as they're honest and remorseful and educate themselves and come out and say "I did X and I understand now that it was wrong for X and X reason and I've done X and used X resources to better educate myself so that I don't make the same mistake in future" and a genuine apology to anybody they've upset or offended. That's a good influencer. Not "ITS JSUT TEA FFS"
We havenât any updates yet. But donât worry, sheâll be back. As soon as she runs out of money she will come running. She will act like nothing happened as usual because she refuses to get a real job. She couldnât even keep a job at dominoes when she was pregnant due to her incompetenceAny updates on her return yet??? Any social media updates?
I'm sure she'd of got the keys to her house now, think she said mid Feb for keys then move in beginning of March so wonder if She's gonna come back like nothings happened sometime in March with loads of BORING house content
Sheâll come back to Youtube with another half-assed apology as usual. Also, i heard that she deleted her twitter for some reasonđĽąshe worked at dominoes?!!We havenât any updates yet. But donât worry, sheâll be back. As soon as she runs out of money she will come running. She will act like nothing happened as usual because she refuses to get a real job. She couldnât even keep a job at dominoes when she was pregnant due to her incompetence
She's very active on facebookAny updates on her return yet??? Any social media updates?
I'm sure she'd of got the keys to her house now, think she said mid Feb for keys then move in beginning of March so wonder if She's gonna come back like nothings happened sometime in March with loads of BORING house content
I think sheâs keeping an eye on this thread waiting for it to go quiet. Then sheâll assume weâve all moved on and forgotten her so she can return without being called out for anything
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