Was just reading through the comments on the calling Mia out video and saw Mia’s comment:
View attachment 376636It’s just more bullshit from her. She never addressed the fact she said she wanted a sperm donor with a ‘darker skin tone’, she just said she wants her kids to look like Mabel in response to a comment. If she wants people to take her word for it she has to actually address the issue in a video, not just a comment on a tiktok. Also, there’s proof that Mia’s looked at Facebook sperm donors so she’s just lying plain and simple.
This comment was only made 40 minutes ago. Do we think she’s sat crying to the camera about how this has ruined her 2021 before it’s even started so she can quickly add it to today’s video for extra sympathy and to get more of her fans to send hate to the girl who made this video?
I am going to assume this is an unpopular opinion here, but I am glad Mia has done some serious thinking and has reconsidered her decision to use a donor with a darker skin tone. But I totally agree that she needs to take some accountability for saying this in the first place, and needs to address it properly and not just on a comment hidden on tiktok.
I find it highly unlikely that a clinic will treat Mia right now given her current financial and living circumstances, and I believe that even if she moves out she will have some trouble getting a clinic to inseminate her. Mainly due to the fact that she is still a teenager, and although is legally classed as an adult is VERY young. I am almost 21 years old. I am no where near ready to be a parent. I know there are young people who are amazing parents but the situation is still not ideal.
The clinic and I am certain that any other medical professional would advise Mia to wait for a little while before making the decision to have another child, especially with a donor. Mia needs to acknowledge that being inseminated with a donors sperm is extremely different to getting pregnant naturally. When you have a sperm donor (an unknown one through a HFEA clinic) you are committing to being the only parental figure in that child's life because an anonymous donor is legally not allowed to have their identity fully revealed until that child is 18. I know in Mia's delusional mind this is what she thinks she wants, but the practicalities of this arrangement are not actually ideal and no clinic would encourage that. Mia can alienate Mabel's father all she wants, but when she fell pregnant, if she would have allowed him to be involved, she could legally have been given extra emotional and arguably financial support from his involvement. Many young parents who get pregnant are under the initial impression that they are going to have at least some involvement with the biological father. Even if that does not eventually end up happening. By using an anonymous donor through a clinic she will be the only parent that child legally can have. No clinic in their right mind are going to grant an 18 year old girl, who already has one young child at such a demanding age, that amount of responsibility.
The clinic will also recognise that an 18 year olds wishes and beliefs change constantly. Mia herself has herself illustrated this by the fads she goes through. One day she is committed to animal crossing, the next it is harry potter and so on. This is not me saying that Mia is not a committed parent to Mabel. But to make a decision to totally raise a child alone is a very BIG decision. In a few years time Mia might have grown up a bit and may wish for her child(ren) to have a relationship with their father, but if that child does not legally have a father what is she going to do? What if she meets a partner and realises that this is the man she actually wants to start a family with? Her circumstances could also change dramatically, she may be a "Youtuber" now, but what if youtube falls through? She said she's dropping out of college after her level 2 so she wont have a stable education to fall back on. she may be looking for a house to rent but that isn't a stable home, she may have to leave due to rent increases or tenancy agreements ending. She has hardly got stability right now, and the clinic will take all of those things into consideration and for now, refuse her a donor.
There is evidence that Mia has been on a sperm donor facebook group, and though I have no evidence to confirm her intentions on there, I would imagine that she joined that after having issues with finding a clinic that would provide treatment to her. If you google cases of young girls using donor's, they have always been through facebook and other informal means, rather than through actual HEFA registered clinics. Which really does seem suggest that it is not common for a clinic to provide teenagers with sperm donors.
Mia, we know you're 18 years old, and we know you will make mistakes, just like any other parent of any other age would and have. We are not attacking you because we think your a terrible parent. That being said some of the things you have done have been really questionable and in some cases neglectful. Nobody is vilifying you for that, at least on my part. But we do want you to be held accountable for that. That is literally the only way you can grow as a person. You can write in your journal and "manifest" as much as you want, but if you are not willing to own up to your mistakes and learn from them, you will never improve as a person or a mother.
As for the fact that this comment has now been deleted. I have nothing to say. The truth is if that video did not hit a nerve, or was, as Mia suggests full of lies, she would not even acknowledge it. Nor would she take time out of her day to comment on it, and then delete that comment. That in itself proves that Mia cannot stand the criticism and feels the need to get immediately defensive about it. I wouldn't be surprised if she made another video crying just like she did about this thread, just for the sympathy and the views.
if you can literally see they aren’t vegetables how can you believe her just because she said it 
and the receptionist rolling their eyes and having a good laugh about it.
