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I wonder why she never talks about the therapy she's had and the tools she's used to help overcome her past. When I saw her page originally I really thought it would be a place where people healed together.
Shes not interested in anyone else's problems at all, she recently accused people of "trauma dumping" on her by sharing their stories in her safe space. I'd never heard of that term but think it's quite cruel in terms of people who saw her safe place as a place to open up and share. She definitely only wants to tell her story. I feel sorry for anyone who shared their story with her and has been accused of trauma dumping. They must feel hurt, I would if I'd opened upto her.
In terms of the amount of posts she rushes out every day, I didn't realise she was on a mission to get famous quickly, to get freebies etc. That's even worse.
I cannot put my finger on it but there's something not right with her imo.
Shes not interested in anyone else's problems at all, she recently accused people of "trauma dumping" on her by sharing their stories in her safe space. I'd never heard of that term but think it's quite cruel in terms of people who saw her safe place as a place to open up and share. She definitely only wants to tell her story. I feel sorry for anyone who shared their story with her and has been accused of trauma dumping. They must feel hurt, I would if I'd opened upto her.
In terms of the amount of posts she rushes out every day, I didn't realise she was on a mission to get famous quickly, to get freebies etc. That's even worse.
I cannot put my finger on it but there's something not right with her imo.
I didn’t realise she had said this! Thought she was trying to build an inclusive “safe space”? Couldn’t anyone argue that she is “trauma dumping” (as she puts it) with her page? That’s disappointing, I had liked her but recently felt something a bit off.
I’ve never questioned her past tbh I’ve watched most of her videos explaining stuff and never got the vibe she was making any of it up. Her brother got convicted of something separate nothing to do with her but apparently did admit he did the things she’s accusing him of but the police never took it further because he was 14 and she was 9.
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On another note imagine a 20 year old getting with a much older bloke with 4 kids I couldn’t and wouldn’t
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On another note imagine a 20 year old getting with a much older bloke with 4 kids I couldn’t and wouldn’t
I never got the vibe she's making up her abuse either. I think her brother got convicted of having child porn but not convicted of abusing her. She had so much promise when she started.
She just seems determined to tell all the skeletons of everyone in her family, things that aren't necessarily to do with her trauma. She "trauma dumps" many times a day it's hard to keep up. I'm no pride but I'll never understand how she thinks her "safe space" for victims of all sorts of abuse is an appropriate place to show off about her sex life. She really is nieve if she thinks her step children won't see her tik tok!
God she’s insufferable. She also is OBSESSED with posting TTs and going live. I liked the first few videos I saw talking about what she has been through but the continuous posting of clout chasing nonsense and clap backs are annoying
I feel sorry for her shy husband, coming in from work and he has to join on her live tik tok, sits down in the lounge to relax for the evening and she puts them live on tik tok for hours. It always feels like she's racing to tell everything, well everything about everyone else. I really hope she is doing it for healing purposes and not to make a tik tok career or a living from tik tok. It started about her telling her story about what happened to her but she seems to get some perverse pleasure for telling all her families secrets unrelated to her abuse. It's weird.
Something 100% does not add up about this woman. She changes her stories all the time and contradicts what she’s said previously.
the role plays regarding her mum are a little odd, but each to their own , it’s her platform.
however. You cannot create a ‘safe space’ and tell people it’s such, and then when they share accuse them of trauma dumping and bringing you down. That’s absolutely not okay.
I feel at first she was more genuine, now she’s on a rush to become tik tok ‘famous’
the role plays regarding her mum are a little odd, but each to their own , it’s her platform.
however. You cannot create a ‘safe space’ and tell people it’s such, and then when they share accuse them of trauma dumping and bringing you down. That’s absolutely not okay.
I feel at first she was more genuine, now she’s on a rush to become tik tok ‘famous’
And then when she gets questioned about things she goes mental . Why put it on a public platform
For me it’s the inability to be humble or accept constructive criticism. Or even any kind of differing opinion really. Anytime someone even politely disagrees with her and makes good points, she goes mad and makes these videos having a pop and send her bunch of sycophantic followers after them.
Funny, isn’t that behaviour one of the hallmarks of being a narcissist?
I actually don’t doubt her family was abusive and that she suffered, but I don’t think she’s much different from them herself to be honest. She heavily reminds me of my narc ex. Unable to take any kind of criticism or differing of opinion in any form.
Funny, isn’t that behaviour one of the hallmarks of being a narcissist?
I actually don’t doubt her family was abusive and that she suffered, but I don’t think she’s much different from them herself to be honest. She heavily reminds me of my narc ex. Unable to take any kind of criticism or differing of opinion in any form.
Shes made quite a few videos calling out anyone who says something she disagrees with, she definitely struggles to hear different points of view.
Also, Calling out your whole family on tiktok is bound to have consequences, her reaction to her family watching her videos is odd and nieve.. However badly they've behaved, they have rights, just like we all do. Walking away from your family takes courage but to then slag them off multiple times a day online is asking for trouble.
I wasn’t surprised to find a thread on her!
I’m sensing we are all getting a similar vibe - we believe her past but feel she’s taken it too far on TikTok now. It’s become a business move and it’s so very obvious, she will go live at any given chance!
I’m sensing we are all getting a similar vibe - we believe her past but feel she’s taken it too far on TikTok now. It’s become a business move and it’s so very obvious, she will go live at any given chance!
I definitely believe what she says has happened to her previously.
Things shifted for me when she told her followers to stop trauma dumping on her safe space and then the repeated "I'm here to build a community" and the "get dicked" comments in a supposed safe space. It's all that thats contradictory for me.
It feels like she just wants a captive audience who better not dare share their story, but then we're supposed to believe she's only on tik tok to create a community. It does not make sense. Of course it makes sense to her and we are all terrible people for calling her out. I actually dread to see where her trauma dumping will lead to.
I definitely do not agree with telling other people's abortion stories or sharing private information that is nobody else's buisness. I think she's crossed a line and like others I really am questioning her motives as I feel duped by her intentions.
Yes she has crossed the line really, it’s verging into malicious communication offences. You don’t have to name someone to be guilty of harrasing them. She needs to be careful.
Even if a person has abused you or committed heinous crimes in general etc etc. They still have legal rights. As frustrating as that might feel!
Yes, just this! I was struggling to articulate exactly what I felt and youve you've said it perfectly. I don't agree with anyone getting abused but to spill the tea in such detail and so many times a day about a persons private information is indeed malicious communications. On some videos she seems almost gleeful to be telling everyone her families secrets. I think so many people are watching because they know it's going to end badly and they want a front seat view of the car crash. There's a reason why she's the only person doing what she's doing and that's because it's wrong. I also really struggle with her motives. It's all so contradictory.
i actually really liked Mel initially, can relate with the whole childhood trauma thing and found her account interesting and courageous to share everything.
That said, as you mentioned, someone politely commented asking if she thought her hyper sexuality was a result of her childhood, completely reasonable question and seemed more like the commenter was trying to open up discussion rather than insult Mel. Mel then does a rant video and will not listen to any differing opinions in the comments.
In the video she completely trauma dumps on the original commenter saying how her brother gave her her first orgasm at 9. To me that’s just completely wrong. She gets a question she doesn’t like, uses it as an opportunity to take advantage of her trauma and dump it on someone who could be triggered by it - amongst thousands of others who watch her page who have gone through the same thing. Disgusting
I caught some of her live last night and she was making fun of her mum and her lack of mobility. Her mum is disabled she can't help how she walks . I get that she might be a witch but why take the piss out of her disabilities? She seems obsessed with her mum ,
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She is coming across as a bit of a bully herself, the husbands look on his face when he walked in and clocked she was on TikTok
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She is coming across as a bit of a bully herself, the husbands look on his face when he walked in and clocked she was on TikTok
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I don’t dislike her per se but I do think she’s going too far now! I’m enstranged from my parents aswell but the way she reacts is giving them ammunition, she would be better off just ignoring