So I had a look at the Frow, inthefrow or whatever her name is, not a fan of her but... Lydiot must be dying of jealousy. First of all over a million subscribers and lot’s of reels that are actually quite good. Not sure what it is about the frow but they are just vibrant and interesting. She appears quite natural in them, I think she just really enjoys making them. Lydiot on the other hand... absolute disaster. Boring same reels all the time. Also... I think her and Aldi are not getting on at all as his reels are far more better than hers. He is not a professional standard but definitely creativity is there! Hers are soooo boring is unreal. She is soo not creative which makes me think that everything that is a bit on her insta was made by.... Ali. Her Insta recently is awful.
This has always been the vibe I get from LEM, as the viewer, I always get the vibe she doesn't really like what she does, she definitely doesn't want to interact with her followers and it all seems half-hearted and an effort and the viewer should be grateful shes put a video up or the that the brand should be grateful that it's being featured on her channel. (even though in most cases shes being paid)
I have seen so many times her ask a question on Twitter or IG and her followers give her really nice feedback or comments and even recommendations and advice and she never replies, says thank you or even just acknowledges them with the little heart/thumbs up button and to make matters worse if someone did write something she didn't agree with she would only respond to them???
There would be no mention of anything nice ppl did for her, for instance she once put a photo of bunch of flowers up that a friend bought her on her IG grid, the caption basically that it was only uploaded to rub it in someones face in it, the saying something like 'some ppl always let you down' and along the lines of 'you know who your real friends/support are etc' she couldn't just put the post up and be nice and grateful to the person who had given her the flowers.
She would have constant crying meltdowns on Snapchat and she did a few IG lives and hardly replied to anyone on their commenting! I remembered it was before the wedding and some ppl were asking where their dream honeymoon destination was... which they ignored. Turned out she didn't want to spend money on a honeymoon (even though Ali did want one). She couldn't even then just say 'dream honeymoon destination would be....' because then it would give Ali ammo to ask to book one I suppose?
The final straw was the horrible remarks about her mum and then the constant digs at the haters. Watching an influencer's video feels quite personal and like they're talking to you, it's kind of supposed to be like your reading a personal blog and that person grows to be someone you like and feel connected to, which is what I think INTHEFROW is a lot better at.
LEM on the other hand spends the whole time scolding the viewer for things they haven't been doing (I don't ever write hateful comments on any of her content and neither do most of her followers) and well it was actually her constant referencing hateful comments and forums that have driven the most traffic to these sites!
Then it moved on to the salty and arrogant IG captions which were just strange. (throw me to the wolves and I'll come back leading the pack, CEO,000,000, my relationships are immucate etc) which was just strange and cringe...
She used to create sit down the video which did give viewers some form of content and it was like she had thought out some of the things she was promoting (liquid lipstick reviews etc) but nothing she creates now is of any use to anyone it's just vlogs and vlogs of what shes buying.
The last video was as dull as dishwater but at least it showed a bit of her gardening! I have no idea why she doesn't make a video about what I have learned about growing herbs or veg or how to start a little kitchen garden.
She could have strung out buying the glass wendy house and showed how to evolve into a kitchen garden etc. But its not a true passion, she just saw Desi Perkins building her raised beds and her now house and simple just WANTED!!! it was around the same time she decided to get a dog and that it was ok to have a child (as long as its a girl, there's just one and they sleep down the corridor away from her bedroom, hence why the dining room couldn't be turned into a nurse (as suggested by Ali) and was turned in to the peaky blinders set.
When I first followed her she kind of had a bit of a blogger X essex girl vibe which suited her and she did seem more confident and it seemed more authentic, however not to forget she already morphed from emo/ibiza shot girl/chav blogger/fitness blogger at this point.
Basically, her content is boring because it's inauthentic, it's just a mash-up of what others are doing (josie, desi, in the frow, claire channel and Patricia) you cannot be creative when you are always imitating...
Thanks to
@wanderlust73 for the winning thread title!
Still no apology to Nicky.....
There's a deafening silence from Lydia, who continues to remove negative comments, buy bots and deflect attention to her chaotic redecorating.
ESPA go ahead with their Lydia masterclass, watched by 34 people, 30 of whom are Tattlers!
is that it! She pulled in 34 views on that, to be fair she didn't promote it AT ALL! I bet none of her followers knew about it because she was lying low following the whole NL fiasco.