Hi all, I’m new to this thread but just watched her stories and needed to comment! I don’t understand the whole thing about tik tok, it doesn’t fit her brand, it doesn’t suit her, she can’t find her feet on there etc... Why does EVERYTHING have to be about her brand? Why not just enjoy it for what it is really? A bit of fun?! Why does everything have to be about money making?!
Because for Lydia, everything is about money. She equates success with money, being a good person with money. Her dad, (who left her mum for a younger model) is the apple of her eye because he had money, yet her mum she criticises and openly said she doesn't have a good relationship with because she's 'poor' in her eyes. She dreamt of having designer clothes and a big house and resented friends whose parents bought them all that because she didn't get it from her mum when she was younger.
Her grandparents she adores because they had Cartier watches and Aston martins, she's jealous of people with more money (hence the fall out with Claire Channel), she wants everyone to think she is rich hence why she is so boastful and crass - because she equates money for status. She takes herself so damn seriously and convinces herself that she works hard and is 'building a brand'.
If you notice, she doesn't like or is friends with people whom she believes have more money or are more successful than her because it makes her feel inferior. She just likes to dominate, both in her friendships, relationships and by trying to belittle others all the time and make out she's daddy little rich girl, she feels superior to others. Typical narcissist - everything needs to be about HER.