Lydia Millen #183 The entitlement of a celebrity but the talents of a nobody!

[MichiganGal]

Why has Irenemylife invited Lydia to hers?

Do they have the same PR people?

 

[Ms.Chanandler Bong]

The garden furniture looks awful and the chicken coop is alot closer than they make out in flogs ie the garden is smaller than they have you believe. View attachment 2320718View attachment 2320719

Imagine all the nice chicken tit everywhere on her lawn and the terrace. That will be a small W in that situation

 

[Margo Polo]

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I bet it’s Carrie writing this crap. They do it all the time.

 

[Ms.Chanandler Bong]

Over the years having dealt with trauma and an anxiety disorder I have had to learn the hard way to distinguish between properly accredited therapists (doctors of psychology with the appropriate training) vs. "life coaches" which is such a broad term and something any of us could do if we did a course. This is not to say all life coaches are unhelpful, but I think we need to be very clear that both deliver vastly different outcomes and obviously someone without the proper training/accreditation like a certified therapist spewing these sorts of trite statements about life is probably going to not do very much. I have never worked with a proper behavioural therapist that would conduct a session that way and simply spew tit like that without giving the client insight / trying to work with the client to see if there is any truth to why someone "hates your shoes".

This being said, that's the sad thing about narcs/certain personality disorders -- their paradigms are so different to ours that it would never occur to them to seek proper help / that proper help is actually the truth. For that I have some empathy and sympathy, because it's a catch-22 sticky situation to get out of. I don't like popular psychology, and so I don't know if or what Lidl has to deal with but given how thin-skinned she was with people who commented innocuously, I can't see her ever willingly sticking to a real therapist and a real therapy plan.

Brilliant, I could sign under this post! You're right. There's a clear distinction between professionals and what I call "feel good" specialists. Her sessions remind me of the scummy scam of Better Help. Employing people who absolutely wouldn't qualify as mental health professionals. No education, no certification, nothing. Not all of them, of course, but enough to make it a big effing problem.

The reason why it's according to Lidlspeech paaaahfekt for her is the yes-mam attitude. She might as well have her therapy in front of a mirror. Or with Cawwie and a bottle of lispin' angel. She doesn't want to change. All she craves is validation for her cunty behavior.
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Comments are pretty negative. People are really starting to see through her now

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As an Aries representative, we do not claim her as one of us
It's not so much astrology, it's the cunthood in her case.

 

[jadore23]

That’s empathy for you!
Unsurprisingly, there are a lot of articles on line on why Narcissists fake being empaths…
I think they say they are Empaths to stop you saying they are Narcissists. Narcissists are known not to have empathy...see above photo of Ali!

I’m familiar with that sort. My SIL is a covert narcissist. She thinks she’s an extreme empath. Very emotional but zero empathy but for themselves. It’s just another form of extreme manipulation. Shark in a dolphin outfit.

 

[coconochanel]

God she is AWFUL, how do the minions not see it?! moaning cause Ali has been ill 5 times, woo bleeping hoo . And how many times has he had to pick you up of the floor with bags of mini eggs and wine? more than five times my lovely now duck off!

 

[Namima]

This vlog was literally 2 grifters ladies constantly interrupting each other, attempting to have a deep conversation only to spill inane platitudes from a self-help101 pamphlet, taking no accountability for your own bad behaviour and casting judgement on everyone around them. No looking inward.

People are jealous of us
It's the TROLLS
It's not me, it's you
I'm ready to change but maybe you're not.
Blah blah blah

F*ck off.
You're the same nasty person you were 2 years ago when you yelled at Nicky "It's not my fault you're pregnant."

 

[cotswoldlife]

Calls irenemylife her friend but from what I can see hasn't liked any of her Instagram photos for at least the last few months

 

[jadore23]

Wow - she’s trying really hard to sell herself on that Teams meeting.
Did she really get all dramatic to emphasise that she has a talent for spotting what sells - ARE YOU KIDDING!!!!!!

Saying this just days after she publicly mentions the failure of the Globy project - She is delusional & absolutely up her own backside with self confidence

”That’s what I’m good at” - Lydia Love you could never pick out an epic piece that’s going to sell, just stick to what you are good at - picking your nose

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She publicly admitted WHAT?!!!

 

[Namima]

Jacqueline looks so bored Occasionally she spouts some utter crap we’ve heard before from Lydia. “If someone says they hate your shoes it’s got nothing to do with you..or the shoes” well actually I think it does Jacqui, think it mean they don’t like your shoes

95% of this vlog is just Lydia talking about how great and special she is. Ain’t nobody got time for that, Lydia duck off will you

ETA: I’ve had to turn it off. They amount of toxic positivity and dangerous rhetoric they are spewing about mental health is quite frankly disturbing. I just can’t deal with it. She is a hateful person and so is her cretinous life coach.

Toxic positivity and gaslighting appears to be the spirit of this vlog.

 

[Lola.Petra]

The garden furniture looks awful and the chicken coop is alot closer than they make out in flogs ie the garden is smaller than they have you believe. View attachment 2320718View attachment 2320719

I'm not sure how many chickens they plan on getting, I just don't know if they know how stinky they can be...even with regular maintenance. As you said the chicken coop seems very close to the terrace so when the wind blows they will have the best possible "fragrance" in the air!!!

 

[Oops...]

Since when is she going for rescue chickens now ?

I predicted she’d do this for the first chickens so she looked caring. The chickens she really wants will look glam and have long pantaloons etc. The rescue ones will get eaten by the fox. The fence will then get re-done (everything gets done twice) and extended. She’ll get a bigger coop and then those chickens will be replaced as they get eaten without telling us and then Ali’s work will keep him away much more and she won’t be able to cope with the reality of cleaning up after them. She just wants to twirl to camera with a basket of eggs don’t forget. Should have been a scriptwriter shouldn’t I.

 

[BWa]

I’m not sure they can be referred to as rescue chickens if the conditions they are living in are no better than before

 

[Namima]

Ever since she was called out for being a bad dog owner and shouting at Porter, she overly exaggerates attention on them. The prolonged clips of her doing that fake-affectionate, weird baby voice to the dogs goes through me like nails on a chalkboard. “Oh my gosh, oh my gosh, my whiiiittle bwwwooyy” eurghh. Lets hope she doesn’t come up with a voice and phrases as cringey and irritating when she speaks to the chickens .

And from the convo with Jacqueline, Lyds' friends have also commented on her OTT reactions to everything.
In addition, we here on Tattle have commented on it - numerous times - and we know Lydia reads here.
So she is quite aware of her fake behaviour.
But she cannot stop herself from the OTT exaggerated behaviour. Or, rather, she won't stop.
Obviously "because it's a 'you' problem and not a 'me' problem".
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Anyone think Lyds was talking about Josie when she was discussing her meeting up with friend she had an argument with and the more calm Lyds was, the more upset the friend was getting ?

 

[ilikenailpolish]

I’m not sure they can be referred to as rescue chickens if the conditions they are living in are no better than before

Well if they weren’t before they can surely become rescue chickens when living in the poor bunga conditions, INNIT?

 

[Namima]

Bwahahaha! Her b.s. life coach has an $1100 Hermes pillow. Well, these two were MADE for each other!

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She has 2 on the one couch ... Not so "old money" with the loud logo eh Lyds ?

 

[ilikenailpolish]

I find the whole life coach thing very strange. A friend of mine, a lovely lady with pretty high EQ, took a course recently and now is a “certified” life coach. She asked if I wanted to try it out, I said no.

Honestly, if you have found a good therapist that works for you, I cannot imagine ever paying for life coaching. I’ve asked my friend what the difference is before and she has shared that a life coach - at least in her style of performing the role - does not give suggestions or a “treatment” plan to managing your issues. For example, I used to have very terrible panic attacks. My therapist would teach me a number of skills to regulate these thoughts, walk me through cognitive reframing techniques, give me “homework” at noting when I get “triggered” and assessing the immediate thoughts and how I might reframe them etc etc. A life coach, however, may more likely ask or prompt you in a series of questions or try to nudge you to realise by yourself the causes of it and how you may think you can change your own behaviour. I’m sorry, but I just don’t think that’s very helpful at all because if I could I wouldn’t really want help.

OF COURSE many others without conditions per se turn to life coaches in general for some kind of “mentorship” but my friend also says that is not really the goal of life coaching either so I don’t know what in the snake oil is the point of it all. I would rather pay someone qualified and do it the right way. Btw, years on, I now no longer have bad panic attacks. Well on occasion, but at most a couple times a year compared to several times in a week! Personally I think I would’ve suffered more going the life coaching route.

another tattler revealed the ethical issues - and I agree. My therapist would never want to be my friend. Which sucks as after so many years she seems lovely but I remind myself she is paid to be LOL but more importantly she says she is my caretaker and has never divulged anything other than her name and CV. She has always stressed that me knowing more does nothing beneficial and if anything that knowledge may have insidious ways of undermining good treatment outcomes. Certainly the advertising of her services in this way on YouTube would be unthinkable, but heyho Lidl has an unqualified mental health professional “life coach”, not a therapist. Had Lidl been an actual friend I would also tell her to be wary as if it is a paid ad or promo then I feel intrinsically that this “coach” cannot be 100% devoted to her interests only. Conflicts of interest are very sneaky things and the most well-meaning of folk are subject to them.

I don’t wish to taint all life coaches with the same brush. Some people have real natural talents to help others and I know they must mostly have good intentions. If anyone finds it works for them I would be interested to hear their stories, though I will say I’m fairly convinced in my POV that they generally offer vague fluffy hackneyed statements.

 

[Namima]

Um when did she say that she had internal guilt? Sounds to me like the wife of Ali’s friend has internal guilt. 🥸. Rest of it is a raging pity party and borderline attack on Ali as a “sicky” person. She’s the one who can’t even get out of bed or off the floor for every little thing. And him being actually sick for 1 day, has her making herself sick for 2 weeks and posting and talking about it in public. Crazy


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And saying Ali is sick now so she knows in 2 weeks time she is going to be sick ... Really ??? Who knows they're going to be sick in 2 weeks time or a weeks time ??? Unless they're faking it. Okay then Nostradamus.
She's literally given us notice she's going to be sick in 2 weeks time, ie. not uploading a vlog AS SHE HAS NOTHING TO VLOG.

 

[gvt]

I am going to be on a reporting spree this weekend on this cheating bast**d

Lydia’s looks exactly the same!

I wonder at this point how many are even real….

 

[Oops...]

I find the whole life coach thing very strange. A friend of mine, a lovely lady with pretty high EQ, took a course recently and now is a “certified” life coach. She asked if I wanted to try it out, I said no.

Honestly, if you have found a good therapist that works for you, I cannot imagine ever paying for life coaching. I’ve asked my friend what the difference is before and she has shared that a life coach - at least in her style of performing the role - does not give suggestions or a “treatment” plan to managing your issues. For example, I used to have very terrible panic attacks. My therapist would teach me a number of skills to regulate these thoughts, walk me through cognitive reframing techniques, give me “homework” at noting when I get “triggered” and assessing the immediate thoughts and how I might reframe them etc etc. A life coach, however, may more likely ask or prompt you in a series of questions or try to nudge you to realise by yourself the causes of it and how you may think you can change your own behaviour. I’m sorry, but I just don’t think that’s very helpful at all because if I could I wouldn’t really want help.

OF COURSE many others without conditions per se turn to life coaches in general for some kind of “mentorship” but my friend also says that is not really the goal of life coaching either so I don’t know what in the snake oil is the point of it all. I would rather pay someone qualified and do it the right way. Btw, years on, I now no longer have bad panic attacks. Well on occasion, but at most a couple times a year compared to several times in a week! Personally I think I would’ve suffered more going the life coaching route.

another tattler revealed the ethical issues - and I agree. My therapist would never want to be my friend. Which sucks as after so many years she seems lovely but I remind myself she is paid to be LOL but more importantly she says she is my caretaker and has never divulged anything other than her name and CV. She has always stressed that me knowing more does nothing beneficial and if anything that knowledge may have insidious ways of undermining good treatment outcomes. Certainly the advertising of her services in this way on YouTube would be unthinkable, but heyho Lidl has an unqualified mental health professional “life coach”, not a therapist. Had Lidl been an actual friend I would also tell her to be wary as if it is a paid ad or promo then I feel intrinsically that this “coach” cannot be 100% devoted to her interests only. Conflicts of interest are very sneaky things and the most well-meaning of folk are subject to them.

I don’t wish to taint all life coaches with the same brush. Some people have real natural talents to help others and I know they must mostly have good intentions. If anyone finds it works for them I would be interested to hear their stories, though I will say I’m fairly convinced in my POV that they generally offer vague fluffy hackneyed statements.

It’s the lack of professional body governing the behaviour of the therapist. Also, not sure if this is a good way to advertise for a therapist. As I said, it was watching 2 echo chambers - all well and good but not something I’d feel too happy having to pay for. I’m no expert though…