Ohhh, he just looks like he acts. Motherboy, insecure af, controlling. He gives me ex-addict vibes. And I don't say it because of the tattoos, it's his mannerisms.
What is that will all the influencers spouses? I like Jaime Gen. (even if I can't understand 3/4 of what she is telling, I still hope I get into her Scottish accent one day), but her guy is not for me. Alex, Char, Ali. From the list, I have to say, Ali is the most bearable of them all. He tries to have a career of his own, and you know if they would divorce, he would just try to find work, either influenza or in the real world.
Why Alex doesn't drive can have many reasons. But I think no one would question him, if he wasn't such an ambition-less controlling free-loader. Someone in the frow thread once told, that she had a date with Alex, back in the day, during one of the many break-ups between him and Vic. And he loathed her, she had an affair, with a neighbour or whomever. He is so miserable.
The only partner of an YTer I watched, I ever liked, was Simon, the husband of Emma Hill. But since her hiatus, her content is so dull, and you neither see him nor the dogs any more.