I think it's obvious why she doesn't bother sending himI agree with this, I don’t think she is neglectful but I don’t really get why he wasn’t in preschool sooner - current situations now make things a little bit different because my son still isn’t back in preschool as the preschool are focusing on the older kids about to go to school in sept.
either way, my son started when he was just over 2, I was doubtful that it would do much as he felt so much younger than the other kids, but he only had 6 weeks before Covid happened. I can’t even tell you how much his speech and social skills came on in those 6 weeks!
I don’t get why she doesn’t, he’s clearly he favourite so perhaps she just doesn’t want him to leave BUT he clearly does need help. She needs to address it for Jesse’s sake, not letting him ‘become a super star builder on mine craft’ I’m all for screen time, but it feels like they don’t have much independent play without a tablet either
Its nothing to do with wanting to keep him at home
She does nothing with him at home
She doesn't want to address that he has a problem I think
So the longer he stays at home and the longer she ignores it then she doesn't have to deal with it
Preschool would have highlighted Jesse's issues by now 100% if covid hadnt happened
They may have highlighted already and she ignored it
They would have given him time to settle in etc before bringing up any issues
But then she didn't even bother sending him more than 1 day a week so they prob barely got to assess him at all in the preschool
I'm sorry but that is neglectful
Keep him happy OR keeping HER happy??I remember her saying many times that Jesse isn’t keen on preschool so maybe she’s trying to keep him happy but I do really think he’d benefit from it, especially when it comes to school. Presumably she wouldn’t just keep him out of school because he “doesn’t like it”
Ignorance is bliss in her case