slightly off topic but seeing lucy make breakfast/dinner for dan made me wanna ask about your opinions about doing wifey things for a guy who isn’t your husband? is it a way of making the man feel so comfortable/ pampered so he won’t wanna leave or is it normal nowadays? would appreciate some outlooks maybe there’s a thread on this sorta topic too? also not tryna offend anyone who does i just wanna know why x
I think its normal enough but as with everything really depends on context.. a lot of women / men cook a lot for their other halves because they enjoy it and Enjoy feeling like they’re looking after them well. So long as one person isn’t doing everything. Some people can’t cook so their other half does the cooking. If it’s very one sided and one person is doing all of the meals, cleaning, laundry, dishes etc then It takes on a different meaning. In our house If I cook my boyfriend will then do the dishes, and he’s rubbish at laundry (shrinks everything lol) so I do laundry but he always does the bins. If a relationship is balanced I think it’s ok. In Lucy’s situation I think the meals she cooks Dan doesn’t matter because the real issue is the general feel from pretty much everyone watching that he is not into her
so her cooking For him is pointless because their relationship is so one-sided.. no amount of home cooked meals will make him love her like she’s hoping it will. Plus she’s paying for everything so the least he could do is cook something. Does he even make her a cuppa. I find it really sad