I don't understand all the people who are saying we shouldn't complain to Ofcom because the show would be boring without drama. We do not only have the two options of watching someone be abusive or watching a boring show. There are so so many ways for a show to be entertaining without glorifying abusive behaviours.
There was loads of drama on the night the lads returned from Casa Amor, and people were praising the show for being so interesting. Yet that night didn't involve anywhere near the level of aggression that we saw last night. Even last night could have been entertaining and dramatic without being unacceptable, if someone had intervened as soon as it became clear that no one would be able to de-escalate things. It is possible for a television show to be entertaining and suspenseful without upsetting a large portion of your audience, other TV producers manage it every day.
Victims of abuse have recognised their own experiences within the behaviour that Faye displayed last night. If that doesn't demonstrate exactly why complaints to Ofcom are justified then I don't know what will. Society's response to domestic abuse is already terrible, and normalising those levels of aggression on TV helps feed in to the narrative that it's not a big deal.
I've seen a lot of comments on other sites praising Faye for standing up for herself and I don't agree with those either. Assertion and aggression are very different, and it is entirely possible to stand up for yourself or your friends without being verbally abusive. We need to stop making excuses for that sort of behaviour and start actually addressing it.