Caledonianprincess
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@raspberryjuice it's 25 here and not a jot of cloud to be seen. My gingerness doesn't know what to do
That's where my head is at as well. I feel so helpless and sad, not that any of us could do much to help beyond offering a listening ear. I wish we could do more. Fuck that nasty little gobshite anyway.My thinking is that it has got properly serious with pc prick and she has to keep low while it's happening
Nah the hospital are the ones who initially said they suspect I've caused it. For a full week they had no alternative explination and then have tried to say they suspect the injury is caused deliberately but even that goes against what the NHS website says about these injuries (when I'm cleared and can explain will make a lot more sense what I'm saying). The hospital have failed to mention someone with expertise at the hospital backed me up and said my explanation explains the injury. When I tried to get their details they tried to obstruct me and said they didn't know their name but I wouldn't stop asking so they had to give it me in the end. This is why I've had to instruct an independent expert. The NHS website in its self basically backs up what I'm saying. The hospital have said my 'story' is consistent (questioned literally about 20 times by different people about it) no signs of child abuse and clear good bond between me and my child. I know some people do abuse their kids but how can it be allowed to accuse a parent when the accusation just doesn't fit and they are trying to force it to fit. It's very hard without my kids and some days have been very dark and I'm in a very low place overall. Obviously I have to stay strong for my kids it's just so hard and feels like a hopeless helpless mountain to climb. Life just gets flipped upside down in the blink of an eye. All I can advise is if anyone ever has to take their kids to hospital film and record everything and get everything in writing. Most people accused do get cleared but a lot of them say social like to try accuse them of other things. Thankfully judges dismiss this 9/10. Just have no faith in the system the way it's treating us all.Lucy it is crazy that they are going against what the hospital are saying. Surely it's the medical professionals opinion that matters on medical things??
I'm coming upto 7 months now. Had quiet a few trips to triage for reduced movements and her measurements aren't how they should be which I'm guessing is the pure stress and distress affecting her.Iβm so sorry youβre going through this. I donβt have any advice but please know you arenβt alone. It sounds long and torturous waiting to get your babies back, I hope you can get to the point where they are back with you soon. Keep looking after yourself chick, youβve got to keep strong for growing your baby girl. How many weeks are you now?xx
im just waiting for @oldjamfan to come in with the filth hereHnm that's a hard one but I'd have to say cockermouth is 2nd place to Disney
Iβm hoping this is it and Della will be back on here with us soon! Very unlike her to go dark for no reasonI'm speculating, but I wonder whether she's had to hand her phone in as part of the PC Prick situation and she can't remember her login details for Tattle to get set up on a different phone? She might be having to wait until they allow registrations to sign in/register under a different name. Alternatively, one of you private detectives needs to check the local news in Ramsbottom for the past week!
Oooh this is clever! Cue me stalking VintedYou know the little people in my head..... GET OUT, YOU'RE READING MY MIND.
I thought the very same Jammy.
I'm thinking it's PC related rather than anything more worrisome
Della if you're reading this go on Vinted & sell anything with TATTLE in the header ...we'll know it's you & message you a code!
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( I feel like we would be friends IRL I see you in all the same threads and always love what you say ) xxxx
This did cross my mind last night.Alternatively, one of you private detectives needs to check the local news in Ramsbottom for the past week!
Yeah I'm fearing the worst nowFrom what I can see, Della hasn't been on here for a week now. I hope she, and her family, are ok. She's a big miss, I love her humour.
I think that's what's worrying everyone, that she's just disappeared, not said she was taking time out or anything. I really miss her here.I know someone said it earlier but itβs just so weird how she was here chatting normally one day and then suddenly nothing for over a week
thank you!! the fear is real thoughGlad you had a fun time, you bloody deserve it!