I’d imagine it’s something in her diet making the baby unsettled. At least bring them for a check up to a paediatrician. Personally wouldn’t bother with a GP, totally inexperienced in my opinion
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Did this woman actually have the knowledge to know what looking after a baby, let alone twins, requires before she got IVF?
She seems to have more assistance than most couples, but can't manage to get out of a night dress?
Surely she goes to the loo during the day? Even if you can't be arsed washing (
) you can bring in a fresh knickers, leggings, bra /crop top, and a T-shirt and throw it onI wonder what her mother must think. I doubt she envisioned Lisa sitting around milking herself/sleeping while her and the father do everything else.
Formula fed babies can get thrush too especially if cold water sterilising is being used. Bottle fed babies could get thrush through her milk as she wasnt she on antibiotics recently?
If the GP told her not to put them on the breast I call bullshit. The GP would have given her something too to clear the thrush if its coming from her. What does she think mums with babies on the breast do?
Either she is lying or her GP is useless.
If she is struggling today then that is tough but would make her more relatable.
I worry though that she is mistaking reflux for hunger and making things worse.
God the big pissed off head on her 
that baby sounds like she is in pain not hungry!! Also why would you put on ‘fresh pjs’ in the middle of the day and not proper clothes?? There’s lots of nice lounge wear out there but not a bloody granny nightie 
that baby sounds like she is in pain not hungry!! Also why would you put on ‘fresh pjs’ in the middle of the day and not proper clothes?? There’s lots of nice lounge wear out there but not a bloody granny nightie I was away for midterm visiting my mam and brought the kids. Honestly just having her there was the biggest stress reliever. I could actually breathe. Lisa has this every single day. She doesn’t realise how damn lucky she is
I really just don’t get the granny nighties. She’s 33!!! I cannot understand it
God the big pissed off head on her
I really just don’t get the granny nighties. She’s 33!!! I cannot understand itMy Mam would give me a clip behind the ear if I was in PJs as often as her. She was convinced my SIL had PND because she lived in loungewear for 6 weeks after baby. 
If she's so keen on comforts you'd think her sister or one of her friends would have got her a nice set of loungewear as a gift for baby shower or the birth. If they are reading here help the woman out!
If she's so keen on comforts you'd think her sister or one of her friends would have got her a nice set of loungewear as a gift for baby shower or the birth. If they are reading here help the woman out!
I’d say she would feel a bit better if she actually dressed herself..
She's waiting for the sweet sweet #collabs to come rolling in for thatMy Mam would give me a clip behind the ear if I was in PJs as often as her. She was convinced my SIL had PND because she lived in loungewear for 6 weeks after baby.
If she's so keen on comforts you'd think her sister or one of her friends would have got her a nice set of loungewear as a gift for baby shower or the birth. If they are reading here help the woman out!
There is no beginning and end to her day. This is the type of thing that causes PND.
Even a 15 minute walk every day with the babies in the buggy would do everyobe the world of good.
If the babies are sleeping 7/9 hours at night, when Dad takes them she could have her shower and get dressed at that time.
Lisa, none of this is meant to make you feel bad , take the advice from women who have been there.
Even a 15 minute walk every day with the babies in the buggy would do everyobe the world of good.
If the babies are sleeping 7/9 hours at night, when Dad takes them she could have her shower and get dressed at that time.
Lisa, none of this is meant to make you feel bad , take the advice from women who have been there.
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My mam made me get into jeans and go for lunch two weeks later at the time I thought she was a witch. Looking back I get it. I needed a slap into the real world
My son had it when he was about that age. He was bottle fed & we took our sterilising very seriously so I don’t think it’s from thatMmm is it common for babies to get thrush from a bottle. Is it from bad sterilization or something?? I’ve heard of it with breastfed babies I remember a friend of mine taking natural yoghurt for it
My mam made me get into jeans and go for lunch two weeks later at the time I thought she was a witch. Looking back I get it. I needed a slap into the real world
Fair play to your Mam!
I'd agree. And so many comfortable options for clothes. I lived in €25 next jeggings (look like jeans) from 10 days after my section. I swear they helped me feel more put together and made my scar feel safe too.
Those and a sweatshirt, perfect Mam attire for day to day business and I didnt feel a mess!
I still live in my post pregnancy loungewear & my baby is nearly 3! They’re just so handy for mucking about the house with her as half my day is spent on the floor but it feels so much better to be washed & out of PJsGod the big pissed off head on her
I've seen her on her stories in nightdresses more than in actual clothes.
Propped up because heaven forbid she would have to nurse one and be stuck for 20 mins
The babies were fed already but she had them propped so the milk would settle before she lay them down. Thats what you do for reflux babies
That's the trait I can't tolerate in her.
Won't acknowledge her situation is leagues away from most- she has way more help than the average new Mam.
Won't admit it's reflux.
Won't admit defeat and give them formula when they scream while she pumps.
Won't admit she has no idea what's going on and needs help.
I'd respect her if she had but she's too big headed now.
Babies back in the cushion instead of lazy snuggles makes me sad. She's literally scheduling away their newborn days.
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