making it out like its a piece of piss to get out with one baby! i have a 6week old here, first child and im seriously overwhelmed and have zero help because everyones keeping their distance with covid. Ive made myself go to dunnes and everytimenim ok for 10/15minutes then i start sweatin and panicking because shes mooching!
lisa going on made me feel like a twit for feeling that way because as she kept saying “I have two babies!”
It's all about practice. The more you get out the more it becomes normal. Your feelings are totally valid and I think every mum has them.
I work with a lady who had a single baby first - night mare experience her baby had colic, reflux and screamed and puked for the first 2 years of life.
She had twins after. 'Easy' babies who picked a routine and were very calm. She has said many times that she'd have the twins over and over again. Found it much easier than her one baby (the twins are 19 now!) She shivers when she talks about how things were with her first baby
It really depends on your babies temperament.
Lisa's an eejit with the world of help and two babies she feeds into submission.