Even on an organised boat trip? I’ve never worn one for something like that!FFS I hate seeing kids on boats without life jackets. We are a sailing family and kids swim like fish but they don’t ever go out on the water without an aid on.
Absolutely. Accidents can happen on any kid of boat trip and it being an organised trip will not stop her children from drowning. I wouldn’t use a trip company that didn’t provide jackets.I notice the black cloud only hangs over her when she’s with her partner and kids! She was happy as Larry when she went away with the girls!!
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Even on an organised boat trip? I’ve never worn one for something like that!
Completely agree, she has so much to ground her and be thankful for and all she sees is problems. I'd probably feel more sorry for her if she seemed aware of the privilege she has but she's absolutely delusional and oblivious to it.She has counselling week in week out, she's on medication, she appears to have disposable income despite not having a proper job and is able to be at home for her kids and gets loads of time on her own. I get it that K has addiction issues but she's had plenty of opportunity to leave that relationship and he brings a lot to the table both financially and as a parent. I'm sorry to sound heartless but I just don't know what she's got to be depressed about!
Unfortunately depression doesn’t discriminate. My auntie had all of this and more and still killed herself. I wish people were more clued up on depressionShe has counselling week in week out, she's on medication, she appears to have disposable income despite not having a proper job and is able to be at home for her kids and gets loads of time on her own. I get it that K has addiction issues but she's had plenty of opportunity to leave that relationship and he brings a lot to the table both financially and as a parent. I'm sorry to sound heartless but I just don't know what she's got to be depressed about!
I think they’re all still there from what I can see. The post where she talks about how she’s struggled is a post not a story, if that helps.Has she dirty deleted some of those stories?
I agree. I know this isn’t in the rave section but I do like Lil and think it’s harsh to say she has life pretty grand so should stop moaning. As someone said, she quite clearly does have depression and that doesn’t disappear just because on paper she has disposable income, holidays etc. She is in a very fortunate position but depression doesn’t care about that. Not everyone’s children are a walk in the park either and it can be tough.I feel very sorry for her to be honest. Parenting is bloody hard, holidays with kids are no picnic but to feel that extreme is very hard. I hope she’s being open and honest with the girls about how she’s feeling because in years to come they’ll be able to read all this stuff she’s sharing on the internet about how hard they made her life.
I'm not going to deny her depression because it can hit anyone. What I will say is that depression isn't an excuse for her to deny her immense privilege.She has counselling week in week out, she's on medication, she appears to have disposable income despite not having a proper job and is able to be at home for her kids and gets loads of time on her own. I get it that K has addiction issues but she's had plenty of opportunity to leave that relationship and he brings a lot to the table both financially and as a parent. I'm sorry to sound heartless but I just don't know what she's got to be depressed about!
This!!! Every single word of it!!I get the chat about depression all too well, but equally she enrages me because she does absolutely nothing to improve her situation she just continues to moan.
Could she give her kids more structure and routine that would help her to feel less stressed? Yes.
Could she go to work even part time to give her a sense of routine and purpose? Also yes.
Could they as a family make different choices that cause less stress on the household? Yes.
Could she spend less money on all those luxury things and weekends away to stop her worrying about their household finances? Yes.
I get that depression is an illness but she’s a grown adult with a huge amount of privilege… the woman has a therapist, PT and eating coach ffs and yet she still doesn’t address fundamental things that could help her feel better in herself and create a happier household. At some point she needs to recognise that she has the power to make her life feel different and can make changes that will reduce her stress and in turn her families stress.
It’s just honestly ridiculous for her to be on stories crying about money then fucking off on holiday swinging her designer handbags about and then moaning about the kids and not even putting pants on them or getting them to school on time when SHE IS THE FUCKING PARENT. She chose three kids when she was already struggling with two. Honestly man, depression or not she is choosing the life she’s living and it’s fucking exhausting listening to her whine about it.
Maybe I’m being harsh, but I just don’t think Lil has that kind of depression.Unfortunately depression doesn’t discriminate. My auntie had all of this and more and still killed herself. I wish people were more clued up on depression
Oh my god, yes this! 100 times this. Can the people on here saying they feel sorry for her please read this then read it again. Slower. And take notes.I get the chat about depression all too well, but equally she enrages me because she does absolutely nothing to improve her situation she just continues to moan.
Could she give her kids more structure and routine that would help her to feel less stressed? Yes.
Could she go to work even part time to give her a sense of routine and purpose? Also yes.
Could they as a family make different choices that cause less stress on the household? Yes.
Could she spend less money on all those luxury things and weekends away to stop her worrying about their household finances? Yes.
I get that depression is an illness but she’s a grown adult with a huge amount of privilege… the woman has a therapist, PT and eating coach ffs and yet she still doesn’t address fundamental things that could help her feel better in herself and create a happier household. At some point she needs to recognise that she has the power to make her life feel different and can make changes that will reduce her stress and in turn her families stress.
It’s just honestly ridiculous for her to be on stories crying about money then fucking off on holiday swinging her designer handbags about and then moaning about the kids and not even putting pants on them or getting them to school on time when SHE IS THE FUCKING PARENT. She chose three kids when she was already struggling with two. Honestly man, depression or not she is choosing the life she’s living and it’s fucking exhausting listening to her whine about it.
I agree. My comments weren't meant to sound like I was uneducated about depression, but I genuinely feel like some of her underlying issues are within her control and rather than make the changes she just moans. She has a life that many would give their right arm for and she is completely ungrateful. If it makes her unhappy then only she can change that.Maybe I’m being harsh, but I just don’t think Lil has that kind of depression.
I’ve been to those kind of places myself and it’s not fun. The last thing I’d do is post about it on SM, and I didn’t have the kind of stuff she has in her life to ground me.
Her’s is way more about self pity and using it as an excuse in my very humble opinion. And she is happier when she isn’t with her kids. Being devil’s advocate here but I think she uses talk of depression/poor self image to shill and be ‘relatable’. None of us can say for definite if she does or doesn’t have it though in fairness
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Oh my god, yes this! 100 times this. Can the people on here saying they feel sorry for her please read this then read it again. Slower. And take notes.
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