My child is about a week younger than Hallie, Dummy is the Bain of my life but since Xmas it’s been left on her bed & she knows it’s only for bedtime. Every night now she tells me she’s leaving it for the fairies & they are leaving her a pram for her dolly’s for her birthday, fingers crossed. I thought I’d have to get it surgically removed from my eldest so I tried not to make the same mistake with this one ! We had to persevere a few tantrums but we got there in the end. Realised I’d always given in previously for a quiet life. Think it looks worse when your child is quite tall / talkative for their age & they have the bloody dummy stuck in their mouth all the time.I only have the one child (feels like three tbh with his disabilities!) but how hard is it to pack a lunch if you know they’ll be somewhere today? Even if he’s gone a few hours I always put something in his bag as he’s a growing lad. My boy hates underwear so just wears tight fitting shorts that he loves but surely the first thing that goes on is underwear!! Just basic parenting!
I know everyone is different but I get so triggered when I see nearly three year olds with a dummy
Just noticed that I appear to have liked one of her stories hereNot being funny but she CHOOSES to take the girls away by herself and leave K at home. She makes that decision. She can’t feel that bad about it when she constantly chooses to do it
Don’t get me wrong; I don’t know anyone with an addiction so I don’t know what it’s like but I’m sorry, but I’m not feeling sorry for her in this instance.
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I would choose to take my kids away too. She’s doing the best for her children giving them experiences and so the little one could have time with family around her birthday. I get she feels the guilt about him because she obviously loves him. It’s that split thing of you’re doing the right thing for some people but it leaves other things crashing down. I don’t have any experience of living with someone with an addiction like people here must, but my friends husband is an addict and it’s sometimes so difficult to be in his company when he’s really struggling and he can so easily flip in temperament. I can’t imagine being there all the time and my friend has said he’d never leave him, because it’s in health and sickness that they love each other.Not being funny but she CHOOSES to take the girls away by herself and leave K at home. She makes that decision. She can’t feel that bad about it when she constantly chooses to do it
Don’t get me wrong; I don’t know anyone with an addiction so I don’t know what it’s like but I’m sorry, but I’m not feeling sorry for her in this instance.
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Im not saying don’t take the kids away; I’ve taken my son away by myself. She is absolutely entitled and allowed to do so. My point is, she’s now sat on her stories crying about the fact that she’s taken them away and left K on his own. Maybe I’m just being harsh, like I said I don’t know anyone who has had to deal with addiction or deal with someone who has addiction so I don’t even know where to begin to try and understand it. But she does it often so I just don’t understand why she’s so upset about it after this particular weekendI would choose to take my kids away too. She’s doing the best for her children giving them experiences and so the little one could have time with family around her birthday. I get she feels the guilt about him because she obviously loves him. It’s that split thing of you’re doing the right thing for some people but it leaves other things crashing down. I don’t have any experience of living with someone with an addiction like people here must, but my friends husband is an addict and it’s sometimes so difficult to be in his company when he’s really struggling and he can so easily flip in temperament. I can’t imagine being there all the time and my friend has said he’d never leave him, because it’s in health and sickness that they love each other.
She’s a pain in the arse and a bloody moaning faced whingebag about the simplest of things, but I don’t understand what she’s done wrong here, apart from screaming at her kids like a nutter! I hate the way she treats them sometimes.
Its not surprising. Shes so unorganised and she forgets to put underwear on her child.The thing that concerned me is that she said she’d lost her sertraline. What is it lost in a house with a toddler and impressionable young girls. I presume it’s lost in the mess of the Reno. What if one of the girls finds it? Now I’m not the most tidy and house proud person but drugs should be kept in a specific place where children can’t get them. That’s irresponsible imho.
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