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I work with children with ASD some severely autistic and non verbal and honestly they are amazing, as a mum I know it must be hard to wrap your head around but once you see them learn something new or other children accept them for their differences and they accept other children it’s so wonderful.
I do think jade is scared of his delays as someone mentioned above, I think she’s aware of them and ignores them which is no good for either of them. But if she just put her own anxieties to one side (which I’m aware can be difficult) and put him first to get an assessment or some help they would both be much happier and find a balance that suits them as a family.
 
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I work with children with ASD some severely autistic and non verbal and honestly they are amazing, as a mum I know it must be hard to wrap your head around but once you see them learn something new or other children accept them for their differences and they accept other children it’s so wonderful.
I do think jade is scared of his delays as someone mentioned above, I think she’s aware of them and ignores them which is no good for either of them. But if she just put her own anxieties to one side (which I’m aware can be difficult) and put him first to get an assessment or some help they would both be much happier and find a balance that suits them as a family.
Love this. Thank you. I’m not afraid to admit I still worry about my sons future but my head is in a much better space than it was 6 months ago!
 
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I’m not 100% sure she does know or suspect. I don’t like the idea of trying to diagnose a child from the limited amount we see of them on social media but I do think if he was laughing, talking etc she would be putting that on her stories, so maybe it is a valid representation of what he’s like. I think she just likes to think she’s still got a little baby and because she doesn’t take him anywhere really, no classes, no interaction with other mums except her sister who’s baby is much younger, I don’t think she would necessarily know whether he was behind or not. I can’t imagine her reaching out to other Instagram mums even and saying “hey what can your two year old do?”
 
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Love this. Thank you. I’m not afraid to admit I still worry about my sons future but my head is in a much better space than it was 6 months ago!
I can only imagine how worrying it must be, but as a SEN 1:1 it’s honestly so rewarding when they reach new milestones or understand something they didn’t 3 months before and you get to share it with parents. Your son will thrive with your help and support 💙
 
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Toddlers are mad little things. Not speaking at 2 isn't that bad as a stand alone thing, it's not unusual or unheard of and it seems like he tries to communicate with her?! He probably can't talk because no one talks to him, can't imagine Jade is riveting conversation. But if we are thinking it from the snippets she has shown she must surely see it from spending all day with him.
I hope she pushes ahead because once he is supported she will see him flourish just like @Waves89 said.
 
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His lack of chat or "wee" on the swing is so sad ❤ my little boy is the same age as River and joins in with counting or "ready steady go!" Then would be squealing with excitement!! Is she ever going to acknowledge it?
 
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His lack of chat or "wee" on the swing is so sad ❤ my little boy is the same age as River and joins in with counting or "ready steady go!" Then would be squealing with excitement!! Is she ever going to acknowledge it?
It’s so sad. I said further up that my wee boy is on the pathway and yes he is older than river but he would be going bananas with excitement, he frigging loves the swings
 
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It’s so sad. I said further up that my wee boy is on the pathway and yes he is older than river but he would be going bananas with excitement, he frigging loves the swings
My boy loves the swings too , sad to see river with no engagement like that 😔
 
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Thought his dad was taking him for a haircut? I remember I wanted a girl, but we had a boy. I love the absolute bones of him now and wouldn’t change it for the world, however I remember thinking I wanted him to be different and thought I’m going to grow his hair. I put it in a top knot and left his bottom curls out. I did it once and realised how bleeping stupid he looked and never did it again. Moral of the story, he’s a boy. It works for some, it didn’t for mine and it isn’t working for River. Give the poor boy a haircut
 
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I think she said before that he needed his hair cut but Rod hadn't got round to it yet...wtf. Bring him yourself like every other mother Jade 😂😂 it looks horrific
 
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Am I missing something here? Unless Rods got pink trainers on? 😂 isn’t she on the sand with her sister yet she’s writing that and putting footprints in the sand that aren’t rods? Like what’s the point? 😂
Also, why is she wearing a fleece when it's 28 degrees in South Wales at the moment 😳
 
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Am I missing something here? Unless Rods got pink trainers on? 😂 isn’t she on the sand with her sister yet she’s writing that and putting footprints in the sand that aren’t rods? Like what’s the point? 😂
Of it just the fact that the trainers are pink that makes you think it’s the sister? As my husband has some pink trainers 😂
 
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Poor child's hair...all because she is stupid enough to think that only Dads can take their son to get his hair cut 😂😂😂
 
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