This is the best use of COVID quarantine that I have ever seen2020 - Year in Review
TW - DV, suicide, child abuse.
(Apologies in advance for any typos)
It’s a new year and I am half way through 616 pages of Gomi!
Liela’s new relationship doesn’t seem to have made it into the New Year which is a shame as they really sounded perfect for each other. MLM ex boyfriend held a live about how anxiety wasn’t real. It appears that the sister is separating from from her husband.
1st Jan 2020 - Liela is chased down the beach by a guy demanding her phone number! Posts about how happy she is to be a single Mum with heavily edited photo.
7th January 2020 - back to wearing engagement ring.
January 9th 2020 - had a soul day at the beach where Ever gets badly sunburnt. When a follower asks where the beach is Liela replies that it’s a ‘secret local spot’ but then tags the location on her post.
January 10th 2020 - Leila is exhausted and crying in the shower after her soul day wasn’t soulful enough.
Followers have been messaging her about her beach umbrella! Her DMs have been blowing up! She wrote a post about it and received two comments. Liela is getting so many messages for relationship advice. Her advice ‘the smarter the woman is, the more difficult it is to find the right man’. One poster comments she must be ‘Mensa if that’s true!’
January 15th 2020 - Liela confirms she is no longer in the store, she must have had a job after all! Seems to have been a Christmas casual as she is no longer needed.
January 16th 2020 - posts a bikini photo which is heavily photoshopped as half her knee and left leg are missing. Deletes when a follower points this out.
January 18th 2020 - long post about how amazing she is for looking after her daughter for two and a half weeks. Ever is her soul mate and her one true love. Posts another photo shop fail while made her eyes look extraordinarily large.
January 28th 2020 - long post about her mother dying and telling her that she doesn’t love her every day. Sounds very detailed and awful. Liela also tags her mother in the post. Deletes post within an hour. Many comments saying that she should check on her mother, not post it to social media while her mother is going through such an awful time. Posts stories crying about how HER feelings were hurt and how SHE is so upset.
Update - According to Liela’s post Mother is preventing Liela from having any contact with her or visiting. Post was about how betrayed Liela feels and how disgusting her mother is and how her and Elle will not be supporting her or donating. It sounds like her Mother has a friend involved in this also. Blames the hospital staff on letting this happen.
January 30th 2020 - went to hospital and ending up screaming at the staff as they wouldn’t share any information about her mother. Shared private information about her Mother to followers and is so stressed she’s going to have a cleanse and bath - recommends watching the GOOP series! Is going to hospital tomorrow with all the notes from what her followers have told her to do. Shea going to ‘lawyer up’ and won’t be leaving until she has her way!
February 2nd 2020 - Liela was escorted from the hospital by security. Elle posts ‘Stead vs GCUH’ to her Instagram (Gold Coast University Hospital). Liela says her Mum is under mental health treatment and posts selfie in silky nightie with breasts out. Sister complaining about how hospital hung up on her when she called. Liela requests ‘privacy at this time of mourning’ and then goes onto talk about her mother’s health/mental health.
February 3rd 2020 - sisters are ‘letting go’ of their Mum. According to Liela she is dying and they want their privacy respected while they abuse the hospital staff in the following statement.
24 hours later Liela marches into the hospital and set upon her mother. Story Liela has been telling does not make sense to posters at all, very confusing.
To recap the recap:
1st day - no one at the hospital would talk to her, she wasn’t allowed to see her Mum who was in a mental health unit, was escorted out of the hospital.
6 days later - sister and her were letting go of mother.
1.5 days later - Liela walks into hospital and reunites with mother.
February 4th 2020 - Elle tells Liela that a mutual friend is having an affair, begs Leila not to say anything but she does anyway because of ‘morals’.
Elle complains about her friends being MIA.
February 7th 2020 - has to move out of rental in 7 days. No one is surprised as Liela mentioned the homeowner or property manager followed her on Instagram and would have seen the trail of foster animals which may not have been permitted in the lease?
Much entertainment from the ex Craig! Apparently his content is very Tony Robbins cringe. (Wonder where he is now?)
Liela posts sponsored ad for crockpot and then makes passive aggressive comments to any followers who ask questions about it.
February 10th 2020 - another man is on the scene! So many people are asking her for relationship advice!
February 12th 2020 - shared more health details about her mother that are very personal. Liela says care team said to her sister ‘she really hates your sister’.
Posts more personal information about her mother. Very derogatory comments about the hospital staff and her mothers care team.
Followers advise Liela not to share so many personal details about her mother.
February 15th 2020 - Elle and Liela are arguing. Liela posts again giving out medical information on her mother.
February 16th 2020 - Liela has a dislocated hip. (I wonder what happened to her dislocated knee last year?)
Is back at hospital. Is standing so appears not have a dislocated hip.
February 17th 2020 - posts photos of her mother in various states of undress.
February 18th 2020 - says her podcast about trolls is used as a resource in high schools overseas!
February 19th 2020 - blasts hairdresser in a live. She’s never going to a hairdresser again! Posters comment it’s the healthiest her hair has ever looked as darker and not so bleached.
New man is called Kiwi. He loves to travel and she’s been to Bali so it’s a great match! She posts video while he looks uncomfortable.
February 23rd 2020 - sisters are following each other again.
March 3rd 2020 - has already introduced new man to Ever. Ever doesn’t seem happy in stories, possibly confused by yet another strange man in her life in a short time span.
Liela posts stories gushing over new man while he looks unimpressed. Appears to not enjoy being filmed. Is having sleepovers and he got up in the night when Ever called out and Liela didn’t wake. It’s the first time anyone has ever helped Liela before!
One poster comments that ‘she’s thrown her sister under the bus more often than she’s cooked tinned crab’ lol
March 4th 2020 - Ever is screaming that she wants to go to her Aunty’s. Liela admits she uses practitioner only natural remedy whenever she has outbursts. Liela records tantrum. Apparently recording Ever is a ‘parenting hack’ so she can sit down and tell her ‘how stupid she looks but not in those words’. Liela will tell her ‘how do you think this makes Mummy feel?’
March 5th 2020 - adds in bio ‘lover to Mark’.
Mark has not posted Liela to his Instagram yet.
March 7th 2020 - posts nude bath photo. Says she tried to hang herself in the past. A psychic has told her she will have a son very quickly and marry a man whose name starts with M.
Many comments on how uncomfortable Kiwi Mark looks.
March 12th 2020 - Liela is becoming her Mums full time carer. Hello Carers Allowance!
Kiwi Mark is FIFO.
March 22nd 2020 - during a live Liela talks about a post which has been shared (I think a poem?) and Liela is angry people aren’t crediting her. Ever interrupts her for something and she tells her to go and wake up her sleeping mother to help. Sharing information about corona virus that doesn’t sound to be accurate and saying ‘ok boomer’ to anyone who is trying to correct her.
She isn’t making any decisions around self isolating (despite having her high risk mother living with her) and said she couldn’t cope if Ever wasn’t at kindy as she needs time to recharge. She was forced to buy 24 packs of toilet paper which blew her budget out! Said she cried in the supermarket as people looked worried and she couldn’t buy her cheap pasta.
March 24th 2020 - social media break and ‘lover to Mark’ removed from her bio. Removed bath tub photo and photo of them in bed with Ever.
Relationship appears to be over. The psychic was wrong?!
March 25th 2020 - social media break is over. She doesn’t have the luxury of time for a break because ‘you guys need me’.
Much essential worker.
She’s not going to talk about Mark and from now on all relationships will be private.
March 27th 2020 - posts Evers crotch in underwear online.
Goes on a live to say how hard it is to be inside for 6 days. Pleads for followers not to abuse nurses.
March 27th 2020 - defends ScoMo.
April 1st 2020 - posts meme mocking people with English as a second language.
Posts screenshot of conversation with sister. Appears a man made a joking comment and Liela abused him. Followers have told her that wasn’t necessary and to be kind. Liela is kind she says! She says she’s always kind to everyone she meets!
New live saying she is 33 as has been a solo Mum since she was left pregnant and she’s now the carer and bone marrow donated for her mother.
Sisters celebrate the free childcare for essential workers.
Holds live showing off the toys she has bought for Ever. One follower comments that she should get her head out of her phone and give Ever attention instead which Liela did not like. Follower went onto say ‘we’ve all seen you lock Ever in her room screaming’ which Liela denies and said never happened.
Followers question why Liela is shopping so much and leaving the house when her Mum is so vulnerable. Liela is now claiming she’s being bullied! She is an essential worker as she has to take her Mum to the hospital so she can do what she likes! She spoke to the police and they told her it’s fine!
April 3rd 2020 - one poster comments Liela is two minutes away from launching into conspiracy theories.
Same day, Liela pleads with followers to stop watching the news. Tells followers to run, don’t walk to the Kmart chocolate sale. Posts ‘rebels’ to her story while her Mother is in the oncology ward.
April 5th 2020 - posters have stumbled across most recent ex on two dating apps. Did not swipe right.
Sister asks followers the difference between a paperback and a hardback book.
Liela gets her hair done by her pregnant ‘best friend’ during lockdown.
April 6th 2020 - joins TikTok and tries to lip sync to songs unsuccessfully. Many posts laughing about this.
April 8th 2020 - shames nephew for wetting the bed.
Followers questions why Elle is taking her Mum to all her appointments when Liela is the carer.
Goes to the beach to photograph a friend as it’s essential service.
April 11th 2020 - Evers Dad has a new partner and they have Ever who looks very happy. Posters are very pleased to see this.
Liela is busy playing ‘old French music’ while cooking with fresh produce. One follower commented on the YouFoodz in the background which was swiftly deleted.
Ever is at child care again as Liela needs soul time.
April 16th 2020 - Liela is writing a new book to help everyone!
Goes to the beach for a soul session.
April 20th 2020 - Liela is now telling followers to juice, use crystals and reiki to help with Covid. Liela is a reiki master!
In a Q and A someone asks her if she travels, she replies she’s been to Bali a few times
Ever is back in child care while Liela completes her essential worker tasks of walking her dog and having soul time at the beach.
Posts photos of Ever naked in the bath.
One poster comments ‘she’s as spiritual as she is literate’. LOL
April 22nd 2020 - is over dating and wearing a ring on her ring finger.
April 23rd 2020 - Liela creates soul session PDF workbook. No one comments on post. Says thousands are joining her and her kiwi sister for a sunrise soul session and to use a hashtag but only 25 show up on live, quickly dropping to 12. Appears 8 of those are posters from Gomi. Unsure if she knows how to meditate as chatters through it to a friend.
One follower asked for the hashtag from the meditation so she can see the photos. No response to this.
Ever is in care five days a week.
April 27th 2020 - Liela is now an immunisation expert. Has a rant about vaccines.
Blames midwife for her pelvis being bad.
Says she’s not afraid of needles because she’s donated eggs.
Holds live where she gushes about her mediation being joined from ‘women all over the world’ but apparently the only international woman who attended was NZ sister.
April 30th 2020 - cries in live as says cannot walk, says she was high on CBD oil yet drove to pick Ever up from daycare. She needs surgery for her sore back. Was doing yoga and walking on beach day prior but says she ‘totally understands what people who suffer with chronic pain go through’.
Openly shares she screamed at every person who looked at her while hobbling to get coffee as ‘she doesn’t give a f*ck’.
Films family at hospital wearing face shields because it’s ‘weird’. Did not seem to comprehend they were at the hospital and very likely compromised as followers pointed out.
One poster follows Jess Schembri and believes Liela copies most of her writing.
Says she had the best sleep ever in her new bamboo sheets so back pain can’t be too bad.
May 2nd 2020 - sisters must be fighting again. No birthday post for Elle and has unfollowed.
Liela has live about ‘toxic ex friends’ and booking a flight to NZ to see sister.
One poster speaks of Liela in the wild experience when Ever was throwing sand in children’s faces at the playground. When the Mum asked her nicely to tell her to stop Liela said ‘no, f*CK off’. The woman with her laughed. Sounds on brand.
May 4th 2020 - Liela has live on how hard it is to be a single Mum. Posted lovely post to older NZ sister after ignoring Elle’s day. Elle commented on the post, ‘where’s my birthday post ya bortch’ which received more likes than the actual post about NZ sister.
May 6th 2020 - rages for people to not ask her stories about her birth! While having the full birthing video in her highlights, vagina and all.
Posts birthing video again. (I believe this is the fourth time).
Changes account to private.
May 7th 2020 - removed post about NZ sister and of Ever naked in bath.
May 10th 2020 - Liela posts Mothers Day appreciation post about herself, never mentioning her ‘dying’ mother.
A blur of lives about vaccines and her opinions on them, soul sessions at the beach and Ever in daycare.
Much:
Do your research
Educate yourself
One poster accidentally replied to Liela’s story regarding vaccination instead of sending to a friend and Liela shared her full name. Poster received a huge amount of follow requests and was surprised that they were messages of support and only one message abusing her from a fake account.
Another photoshop fail with wonky slimmed knees.
May 26th 2020 - is on the becoming Mum podcast. Told story of being left pregnant but didn’t mention she threatened to stab Evers father and kill him. Said her ‘words’ are on tee shirts around the world.
Says she has taught Ever to hit kids back if they hit her.
A follower has called out Liela on her lies and for shaming a follower. The comment hasn’t been deleted but has many likes.
May 27th 2020 - shared video of George Floyd without naming him, called him ‘a black man’ then shared stories following promoting a drink.
May 29th 2020 - takes photo at the beach staring at the sea and says she’s going through a rough time.
Later that night….she’s bounced back and is heading out for a night out.
Posts recommendations for Byron rentals because she needed to move ASAP then quickly deletes it.
Holds live giving her version of events in the US in regards to racism. ‘I feel like this is such a big issue and has I have a huge platform people expect me to lead this and I’m so emotional’ ‘there’s three sides, the police, his and the truth’. 37 people in the live and 4 commented on Gomi thread.
June 1st 2020 - said that ‘all lives matter’.
Deleted post.
Talking about manifesting but unable to say what she’s manifested in new live.
June 2nd 2020 - adds black square to Instagram. When someone politely asks her to remove the Black Lives Matter hashtag (the hashtag being used with the black squares were affecting the important information being shared) she replies ‘I have had to edit this THREE times now so I hope this fits the bill’.
Always listening and willing to learn.
June 3rd 2020 - Ever is with Elle and looking very happy. Many comments on what a different child she seems when with the sister.
June 4th 2020 - after a tireless 1.5 days of activism, Liela removes black square.
June 5th 2020 - posted peek of a new man on stories #privateneversharingagain
Honey Badgars brother makes an appearance and everyone is amazed at how much he looks like Ever.
June 9th 2020 - buys a laptop and is disgusted to get it home and find there is no USB port!
June 10th 2020 - makes a post about her Mums transplant being on its way and is annoyed it is so close to her birthday. The audacity of her mother having life saving surgery on her birthday!
Later that day complains there is no one to take candid photos of her. Is crying because it’s so hard being a single mum without a photographer partner.
June 11th 2020 - took CBD oil and had ‘the worst reaction ever’. Drove to the hairdressers after said reaction. Medicinal CBD has very minor amounts of ThC many posters pointed out.
June 12th 2020 - photo shoot for Evers birthday. Posts photo where Liela is front and centre and Ever is out of focus and running out of shot.
Bought herself a present for Evers birthday as she was ‘upset’.
June 14th 2020 - ever had a dream she was dying so now Ever is psychic. Says it may be to do with her ‘heart condition’. Is calling her ‘spiritual team’ to find out what to do.
No posts of Evers actual birthday other than her sister posting one of Ever at the skate park.
June 19th 2020 - has live with one of her spiritual team. Talk over each other frequently for an hour.
Liela has a stalker! No evidence of messages however to share when asked.
Sister may have a new partner?
New podcast ‘own and align’.
Ever is with Elle and now has a mullet.
June 26th 2020 - makes dramatic post about her mother being told she wasn’t going to make it in an open ward. A follower questioned her on this as said she didn’t believe this would happen.
June 29th 2020 - holds live about how hard the blood tests and x ray were and that she wouldn’t recommend saving someone else’s life by becoming a bone marrow donor as it’s too hard. Says this all in front of her mother.
Liela got a new tattoo this week even though you are advised not to have any six months before being a donor.
June 30th 2020 - Elle spent day with mother and talked about how proud she was of her. Stark comparison to Liela who just talked about herself and complained.
Liela shares message asking her about her weight gain but won’t share messages from stalker when asked.
July 7th 2020 - filmed a story where Ever showed her Mum the outfit she had picked out. Liela laughed at her and Ever got upset and ran away.
Suggestions for a GoFundMe for Evers therapy when she’s older? Can we make a pact to make this happen when we know 100% Liela can’t touch the funds?
Liela is holding frequent lives with never more than 100 viewers despite being 2020 and the (what we know now to be) the beginning of the pandemic?
Elle has given up another pet.
July 9th 2020 - Liela gives Ever CBD despite it giving her a reaction not long earlier.
July 16th 2020 - her Mum is in dire straits so she won’t be posting much but if you need her you can email. She needs coffee recommendations and then rolls her eyes saying how unfair it all is and then posts photos of her lunch.
July 20th 2020 - lives from hospital as Liela is donating bone marrow for her Mum. Made tik tok video about having to spend her birthday that way.
July 25th 2020 - asked nurse to take a photo of her washing her naked mother in the shower and then posted it.
July 27th 2020 - holds live slagging off the professional dietician for not understanding nutrition
Later that day films herself eating McDonalds.
(you can’t make this stuff up!)
Holds new live about everyone being jealous of her.
Back with Ever for the first time in ten days who is clearly struggling to adjust. In live Liela says ‘I do look after you bubba’ and Ever (crying) says ‘no you don’t’. Liela asks followers for advice.
July 29th 2020 - Elle is looking after Ever for the day so Liela can get eyebrows done and have a soul day drinking cocktails with a friend after one day of parenting.
A follower has called her out on neglecting Ever and how she treated the hospital staff (she yelled at the doctor) and she says that everyone is jealous of her.
August 1st 2020 - threw Evers artwork which she was proud of into the bin and blamed the dog. Let’s Ever yell at the dog.
Says she won’t be posting Ever to her feed anymore and then posts a photo of Ever with her nipple showing.
August 2nd 2020 - conflicting stories about shaving her mothers head. Liela says her Mum can’t speak to give them permission to shave her head so Liela went off at them and then her Mum turned to her and said ‘I’m over it, I don’t want to fight anymore’.
Filmed herself later on the phone/talking about when she was on phone to the head of the hospital saying ‘if she was Jewish this wouldn’t happen’. Referring to the concentration camps.
More conflicting stories when she said she initiated Ryan’s Rule due to the fact hospital staff shaved her mothers head without telling her the. Changed the story to using Ryan’s Rule to not being treated properly/ why she’s in ICU.
Later said her mother wasn’t given fluids for three days.
August 3rd 2020 - posts photo of herself with her Mums head cut off with a caption saying her angel has her permission to die now.
Posts that she will be suing the hospital then that’s she’s having a break from social media.
August 4th 2020 - removed stories where she spoke of abusing the staff and suing the hospital.
Posts that she has the flu and can’t visit her Mum. Talks about slipping her Mum CBD oil in hospital.
August 5th 2020’- social media break is over. She says she couldn’t visit her Mum due to border closures after yesterday saying she had the flu.
Positive news! Her Mum is doing better. Liela claims it is due to her enacting Ryan’s Rule. She is suing hospital for negligence but as no examples of this other than head shaving. Complained about the medical staff speaking to her in calm, patient voices.
Sister said the doctors told her their Mums transplant is following the expected path and she was always going to have a rough patch before getting better.
August 8th 2020 - having social media hiatus to be with family however is out at a party according to friends on social media. Still telling followers her Mum might not make it. Liela feels like ‘a shell of a person’.
August 9th 2020 - sisters are giving very different diagnoses. Knowing that the Mum is alive now thankfully it appears that Elle was telling the truth, Liela not so much.
Holds a live crying that she needs more business to pay for Mother’s legal fees.
Gets brows done later in day.
August 10th 2020 - reshares posts about how inspirational she is.
Posts her Mum in a very vulnerable state.
One poster may have hit the nail on the head! ‘I think the sisters will continue their unhealthy symbiotic relationship the whole of their full lives. The only thing that may push them apart is when Liela starts a GoFundMe and steals all the money but Elle is so used to be used she probably won’t even notice as long as she gets the odd beige gift’.
Many posts disgusted in Liela stripping her Mums dignity by the recon photo.
One follower has called Liela out on her post to explain the actual process for Ryan’s Rule.
A poster has explained that any change made to policy has to be implemented by QLD health as only they have the jurisdiction. Being a public hospital any changes must be adopted by all hospitals in the state after a trial. Therefore, Liela’s posts about policy being changed due to her is an outright lie. The poster providing this information disclosed she works for Governance for the Australian Government.
Liela posts photo sunbathing photo with quote on how she is pioneering change in the medical world. ‘This is why it’s so important to SPEAK UP’.
(These recaps blow my mind. Surely no one that follows her buys this?! Has reminded me of Liela’s recent live with NZ sister who is having a hysterectomy - April 2022 - and Liela telling her to explain to the surgeon that it’s a ‘spiritual procedure, not a medical procedure because the surgeons don’t understand and to keep the womb that’s being removed).
August 13th 2020 - tries to call out Makaia Carr unsuccessfully as Makaia Carr called out Liela’s bullsh*t stories. Doesn’t tag Makaia in post however.
Loads of new posters joining to say how disgusted they are in Liela’s behaviour to the medical staff and her mother. Much disgust in using their mothers serious health issue for content and relish in the attention.
One new poster has family who works in the ICU at the hospital and confirms that everything Liela has been saying is untrue. Confirms hospital staff were aware of what she was saying online.
August 16th 2020 - posts a new man with many ‘we’ comments but tells followers to respect her privacy.
Is desperate to cross the border into NSW to do some shopping in Byron. Got lips tattooed. Is now a reiki healer.
Screeched at random person who was in a disability park (person had a disabled child) tells followers she was a teachers aid for children with disabilities.
Buys letters for Evers room but can’t tell the difference between W and M.
Holds live with 25 viewers, 8 appear to be in Gomi thread. Talks about her partner being there.
Introducing Brad Watto, new man.
Eating tinned crab pasta while talking about the ‘Chinese vaccine’.
Back seems to be fine?
More new snarkers joining the thread with Liela in the Wild stories. Similar themes of face like a smacked ar$e while being rude to people. Much love and light View attachment 1190455
August 21st 2020 - photo shoot in bed with new man. Fortunately Ever isn’t in it this time.
Ever has not been in stories for many days now. Appears to be with her father again.
Liela has made it Facebook official.
August 22nd 2020 - posts photo of Ever with new man. Ever doesn’t look happy.
Many lives with conspiracy theories.
August 24th 2020 - two weeks in and she’s ‘in love’. Long post about how much she adores him and how grateful she is for him.
August 26th 2020 - has womb healing. Elle gets fillers.
Starting to talk about babies with new man.
Something is going on with someone called Smi_f. Appears that Liela is very jealous of her (maybe another Mummy blogger?)
Starts adding to wedding Pinterest board again.
August 30th 2020 - wearing wedding band.
September 2nd 2020 - steams vagina with camomile tea or is recommending to do so.
Boating day - new boyfriend comments on Ever being 4, going on 18.
Shares Pete Evans content.
New post about being left pregnant.
Adds ‘Lover to Brad’ in bio.
September 9th 2020 - poster shares she knows Evers Dad who is an ‘unassuming, lovely man who has a beautiful family’.
S___fl questioning why Liela openly talks about Botox and fillers but will not get vaccine.
Posts another photoshop fail. A poster messages she saw Liela in the wild that day and that she is far bigger than her edited photos.
September 14th 2020 - is now a doula.
Declares herself to be a ‘thought leader’.
September 18th 2020 - Ever has scratched Brad so Liela is talking about it and laughing.
September 24th 2020 - moving in with Brad!
Comments on how miserable Ever is looking lately other than when she is with Elle and her cousins.
Posting photos with hand on pushed out belly.
Says she’s now $5k in debt from buying furniture.
October 2nd 2020 - on a road trip and much concern for Ever who is not restrained and would fly through the windscreen if made to stop suddenly.
Appear to all be sleeping together on back of the Ute. Mum has been put back in hospital for ‘her own protection’.
Went for a late night skinny dip, not sure where Ever was at this time.
October 4th 2020 - ever has a proper seatbelt now.
October 8th 2020 - posts that she has lost her identify from looking after her Mum and is exhausted from caring for her.
October 16th 2020 - posts photo of Ever in swimmers.
Lover to Brad is removed from bio.
October 20th 2020 - makes post about Ever taking toys from day care and films herself talking to Ever about it. A follower has posted advice which was gained many likes but no response from Liela.
October 21st 2020 - deletes photos with Brad, they no longer follow each other. Removes Facebook relationship. Ever and dog are with sister.
October 23rd 2020 - changed account to private and refollowing Brad. Unhid the photos she removed of them.
October 29th 2020 - is psychic and feels the energy of the dead.
Books hotel room with Brad and let’s Ever sleep on the sofa while they have ‘romantic time’.
October 31st 2020 - in Q&A says her Mum is now cancer free.
*according to a poster no one is declared cancer free until 5 years of clear bloods.
Ever wants a pair of $11 mermaid shoes so Liela lectures her on valuing things and doesn’t buy them but buys herself $99 Zara shoes.
November 3rd 2020 - implying she has had another miscarriage.
November 5th 2020 - has the worst flu she’s ever had. Takes Ever to kindy orientation.
November 9th 2020 - Elles cat is pregnant again. Elle wants to sell them for $250 each.
Liela posts story about abusing someone and hitting them with a trolley? Unclear on details.
November 13th 2020 - says they are trying for another child. She has twisted hips and it’s her midwives fault.
Is in cycle 5 trying to get pregnant but followers are questioning timeline as doesn’t seem to add up as Liela posted in August upset she didn’t have a partner to ‘offload to’. Liela doesn’t respond.
One poster knows Brad and says they were definitley not together in July as Liela is now saying.
Starts deleting comments from anyone questioning timeline.
Is going to share her raw, unapologetic and authentic fertility journey to this miracle child!
Losing followers and claiming it’s because ‘people aren’t happy for her happiness’.
Called a follower a c you next Tuesday.
Post photo of large belly with her hand on it
November 17th 2020 - Brad shares video of Ever naked on the beach.
An article has been written about her and she’s suing for defamation.
November 18th 2020 - abused a volunteer in a charity shop. Unsure as to why.
November 20th 2020 - her mum is back in hospital for two weeks while Brad, Ever and herself go on a trip.
December 2nd 2020 - complained about a $8 voucher from Jetstar.
December 11th 2020 - deletes post from someone who won a photo shoot from Liela in a charity auction and has been trying to book it for a year.
Posts about more things Ever never said.
December 18th 2020 - has period. Cries.
December 25th 2020 - posts a video with her Mum while laughing at her head scarf.
December 30th 2020 - posts a year in review where she says the stem cell treatment was the worst thing she’s ever done in her life.
December 31st 2020 - a movie is being made about her ‘words’.
Looks like Liela is finishing a year with a partner however with a brief scan into 2021.....
January 2nd 2021 - Posts ‘Please respect my privacy’.
On latest post about break up (which appears to be a word for word copy from last break up post) a follower caught a comment from Brad before it was deleted:
Haha, this was nice to wake up to x
For anyone interested I had been down visiting family for Christmas and my nieces first birthday. Leila and I hadn’t been fighting so this was very strange to wake up to. Not to mention thousands of messages from friends and family. Leila was welcome to come but couldn’t as she was on standby for a birth shoot.
No we weren’t fighting about anything and I wish her all the best. Breaking up on social media is SO LEILA though. Cya guys.
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This is the best use of COVID quarantine that I have ever seen
It was me who saw the Kiwi on one of the apps after him and Leila split 
I had a forgotten about that!
I had a forgotten about that!
Thank you! It's definitely filled the time ha ha. A few too many typos from autocorrect as was using the notes app on my phone and the Covid headache came on towards the end so it could be tidier but what a ride! I have only recently started following this mess and to see the cycles is so interesting, it's always the same even down to a Christmas/NY relationship breakdown!
I find it very interesting how all three sisters appear to use their social media as therapy sessions/validation for their strange behaviours but yet it seems none have ever sought out qualified professionals to help? It's like they scoff at anyone who is trained in health care but yet trust someone who completed a five minute "life coaching" or someone who intuitively cleans their womb instead?
Will definitely complete 2021 but going to have a break from the mess over Easter ha ha!
Its because all 3 of them are doll bludging slugs. They don't have money to invest in Therapy so just make up weird tit to try con their 'following' and even when they did get money go and spend it on useless tit.
They all need intense help/therapy/support.
After reading those recaps?! They are one very fucked up bunch. Just with how they are with Men?! How fast they 'fall in love' introduce Men to their kids?! The way they lie so easily. It is beyond messed up.
Enjoy the break!
Why is she promoting her rip-off of a photography session offer ($250.00 for 30 lousy minutes?!!!) on her previous scam jewelry business account instead of her photography business account?!
And by God, she has the UGLIEST feet I've ever seen!!!!!!
And by God, she has the UGLIEST feet I've ever seen!!!!!!
That’s a new thread title right there.
She is proper nuts. How many times did she video herself holding Evers hand. That poor kid.
This is brilliant! Can you imagine being her & reading this behaviour! I remember it all & i truly believe she is an absolute nutter that can not be saved. She definitely seems to have hit rock bottom this past few months.Thank you! I just wrapped up 2019 and thankfully it was a seemingly calmer year for Ever, mainly as she seemed to spend the majority of it at her sisters
2019 - New Year and I hope a new Liela as 2018 was a lot.
TW - sexual assault, DV.
4th January 2019 - announces that she is creating a make up line!
7th January 2019 - iLiela is heading off on a trip and very excited. Holds a two hour live where she says she loves co-parenting and having adventures with Ever as Mum and Dad. Says if she didn’t have Ever she would definitely be living in in a terrace in inner Sydney.
Many lives about being a single Mum and no one understanding how hard it is.
New live with tips about how to work from home. Hot tip! Be home before 2pm so you can reply to emails.
January 16th 2019 - posts photos of ex friends then did live chastising someone for posting photos from 2009 and mentioning they did drugs at that time. Said how irresponsible it is to share that to their followers then says ‘I spent my twenties high’.
January 18th 2019 - during live mentions Ever is away for the weekend and ‘she doesn’t miss her one bit’. Rants about mothers who call themselves solo Mums when their partners go away (she has been talking about this for around a week now by the thread, about someone called Lyree Kyree).
January 19th 2019 - talks about her make up line, one commenter recognises the primer she is saying she created as from another brand which is already developed.
January 23rd 2019 - announces she would like to live off the grid.
January 24th 2019 - posts about having no support from anyone when she went to hospital with gastro! She’s a single Mum! The photo she posts with this caption from hospital has her Mother in the background lol.
Turns out she called her sister at 1.30am who did indeed answer, race to her house and sat with her until the ambulance arrives so as usual had great support from her sister. Ever was already at her sisters that night also.
One commenter mentions that several weeks earlier Elle had a gallstone attack while Leila was doing a live. When a follower asked Leila if Elle was okay she snapped ‘she’s fine, she’s waiting for an ambulance and there’s nothing I can do anyway’.
Liela is starting a new business! When asked about campervan she says it’s in the garage unfinished but will sell it. Make up line no longer happening.
Liela is now saying she had a possible heart attack! As this can be confirmed with a blood test it appears to be untrue.
^^^this is all the same day.
January 29th 2019 - drinking mock tails and asking where the nicest maternity dresses are these days. Someone craving attention?
Wants to get breast implants removed.
January 31st 2019 - posting photos holding her stomach.
February 1st 2019 - posts a ‘I miss you’ post for Ever and says Ever uses the f bomb frequently. She loves Ever ‘wildley’
February 5th 2019 - starts podcast! No one has listened yet so no further details.
February 8th 2019 - Liela has cut finger! Says she is ‘bleeding out’. Screaming (but has time to set up a live about this accident) and says it’s SO HARD being a single Mum with no one to look after her when she hurts herself.
February 9th 2019 - says nasty things to a pregnant woman at the beach who found her dog when it ran away and blames it on the Moon. Laughs about how she called the unborn child terrible names. Very proud of her actions and repeatedly said she went into full crazy girl mode. Ever was there as well.
February 10th 2019 - during a live days she is not vibing with the toddler personality and they are clashing. She’s disinterested and disconnected from Ever at the moment as she isn’t getting enough sleep. She is irritated that Ever asks questions (Ever is two). Says she and Scott have the same ‘gentle’ approach to parenting and she hasn’t had ANY time for herself lately.
One commenter notes that she had the night to herself the weekend prior.
February 13th 2019 - Sister has Ever again.
Told followers she had booked a fancy Valentines Day lunch for her and Ever however no posts.
February 14th 2019 - She has a new business - maternity photography and dress hire! Seems to be following the same business venture as Coven and Co one follower notes.
February 19th 2019 - wants to go on MAFS. (If this happens I will send these notes to Megan Pusetto).
Says Ever has temperature of 43 degrees and has taken her to a cafe for lunch and the park for a milkshake. Liela says Ever had febrile convulsions during night.
Within an hour all mentions of Ever being unwell are deleted.
When followers comment on her posts she said ‘she can handle the temperature and convulsions due to her first aid training’.
February 24th 2019 - during live told Ever to ‘piss off’ five times.
Someone has listened to her podcast! It’s about being left pregnant! The next episode is going to be about ‘the rise’.
She asked fans to leave reviews and cried troll when she received a negative one.
February 26th 2019 - has the flu so is getting on a flight. She knows a man is staring at her, zooms in on him in the live but he’s very far away and not looking in her direction.
Ever told the taxi driver he smells like a poopey nappy which Liela thinks is hilarious.
Liela’s business now has a website and is a carbon copy of Coven and Co.
Has photo shoot in maternity dresses. By standers in the way of her images are photographed and slagged off on her stories. Photo shoot is at one of Sydney’s business cafes and tourist attractions but no one else is allowed there okay?!
More posts about being a single mother.
March 4th 2019 - Liela has the flu again so is off to read a book in a cafe and then is going shopping.
March 5th 2019 - in one of her stories Ever hits Liela. Liela calls her a b*tch. Story is deleted within 20 minutes when she is called out.
March 10th 2019 - says in a live when Ever has a ‘meltdown she locks her in her room and holds the door closed’.
March 11th 2019 - promotes herbs for a ‘calm parenting style like her’.
March 16th 2019 - a new low. Compares the Christchurch terror attack her to her own trolling.
March 18th 2019 - has a colonic and now can’t stop vomiting or doing number twos. Then posts an hour long ramble in a car park.
March 21st 2019 - declares she wants to be more ethnic with her cooking so adds parsley and a ton of crab meat to the fry pan.
Says she wants to take a step back from Instagram and then posts 40 stories and a long post about her daughters bad behaviour the next day.
March 22nd 2019 - Says doctor has discussed secondary infertility with her despite Liela recently becoming pregnant and miscarrying.
Later films Ever who is clearly distraught and crying while laughing at her.
March 24th 2019 - Liela fell over and dislocated her knee!
March 27th 2019 - proudly shares with her followers that she’s had another go at a stranger after they spoke to her for driving onto the footpath.
Has a live about another child hitting Ever at daycare. Says she wanted to go over and drop kick the boy but her sister held her back. She won’t socialise with low grade people anymore. The staff tried to calm her down as she caused a huge scene.
March 30th 2019 - has live as feels triggered that Ever won’t have a beautiful birthing video to watch when she’s older. Despite this, she’s amazed at what she has achieved even though she was left pregnant she has her dream kitchen table and Ever has a jools pram.
April 1st 2019 - Audi must have dropped her as an ambassador as she removed it from her profile description and untagged Audi centre GC in her latest post.
April 17th 2019 - posted a ten minute video of her new gifted mop while ever is in bath tub in another room.
Her foster dog has gone missing.
April 19th 2019 - blames Ever for forgetting her shoes and yells at her.
April 21st 2019 - Holds angry rage live. A follower commented that if Ever was vomiting she shouldn’t be at the shops as she’s infectious! Liela went off, called the person vile, revolting, disgusting and a d*ckhead. She’s a single mother and doesn’t have anyone to leave Ever with, she deals with trolls daily but the trolls are especially active at Easter (??!!) she doesn’t have time for this!
Trolls are contacting the businesses she’s working for. Be warned! She’s going to troll the trolls! What this entails is her going to their Facebook pages and writing mean comments about their children.
Seriously.
Deactivates Instagram.
April 21st 2019….later that night.
Activates Instagram again. Live on being alone, having no support (but mentions her sister picking up Ever when she wasn’t coping two nights earlier). Seemingly obsessed with talking about how her life would be easier in a partnership. Says she hasn’t had a night out for TWO YEARS! She has Ever every second of every day!
April 23rd 2019 - posts a full day of beauty treatments. Ever is not with her.
April 27th 2019 - deletes Instagram again.
Oh no, apparently she’s been hacked! Suddenly has 4000 new followers though?
Changes name from Ever the Daring to Leila Stead. Suddenly has a new logo. Says her PR company are onto it.
In latest post writes ‘this is me as a new mum circa 2015’ deletes comments from followers saying Ever was born in 2016?
Finally credited her sister for her photos. Says she will teach Elle all she knows but Elle was a photographer first!
May 10th 2019 - went to public bathroom and left Ever outside waiting for her.
May 18th 2019 - posts the birth video again.
A blur of ‘I’m a single mum and it’s hard work, I have no support’ posts.
June 16th 2019 - celebrates three years of motherhood with some drinks. She’s done it with NO SUPPORT, all by herself and deserves it! No friends seem to be at the party, just family.
June 20th 2019 - holds live, Ever is crying in the background. Says ‘she’s out there and I don’t have the energy for it. I don’t have the fuse for it. No one understands my life as a single mother’.
Ever came up to her during live and said ‘I love you Mummy’ Liela responds with ‘love you too, space would be nice’ and pushes her off.
Shortly angrily ends the live as someone comments that she is clearly triggered.
Back on live - someone has said something that has p*seed her off, no one understands how hard it is for a single mother. She says Evers Dad is not rich and she has no financial support and she’s going to move far away soon.
Later the same day the sisters unfollow each other.
Liela posts about comments Ever has made about death which sounds either very concerning or a complete fabrication.
June 21st 2019 - 6am photo shoot with newborn on the beach in the middle of winter. When McDonalds gets her order wrong Liela says ‘I hope this isn’t a sign that the newborn is going to be a d*ckhead’.
Fight with sister has been confirmed as Elle is going through a lot and took it out on Liela according to Liela.
June 24th 2019 - back following sister so must need a babysitter.
June 25th 2019 - sister is looking after Ever as Leila needs an extra night away from her. Friday to Tuesday.
July 3rd 2019 - held live as someone has stolen her identity and she has a Telstra account under her name. Ever is in background screaming and crying while banging something. Liela says she has locked herself in her room so she can ‘get this live done’.
Another live. Telstra called security on her and she was escorted out of the store. Ever was with her also. Was treated poorly as she’s a single mother.
July 5th 2019 - Tilly didn’t like cat so gave it away.
July 8th 2019 - visiting surgeon for removal of breast implants.
It’s Liela’s birthday soon and she wants a spa day, two parties and a ritual.
Liela has a woman’s circle (3 friends) where everyone has to say something nice about her for her birthday. So spiritual. Does not spend any part of her birthday with Ever.
July 26th 2019 - Liela has the flu again. Discusses the birth photography session she recently had and implies she was more helpful than medical staff.
In live days she was accused of calling an aboriginal girl the n word at school but she would never use that word because she’s Samoan. She then refused to go to ‘racist counselling’.
She says she is constantly being hassled in the street because she’s famous.
Says she once was bashed at school, said to ‘ask Elle’ and then quickly said ‘no, don’t’.
Sister still has Ever five days later.
August 1st 2019 - sister has Ever for a sleep over again.
Leila is now claiming that gluten causes schizophrenia and mental illness and she’s a better mother not eating bread. Then makes a big bowl of regular pasta for dinner but says as noodles are thinner it will be okay.
August 2nd 2019 - during live days she was a high risk mother and social workers would check on her every second day following a suicide attempt.
August 7th 2019 - was catfished by a man online and sent him nudes. He also asked for photos of Ever which she sent him. Says she was being ‘groomed’ in live. Compares her situation to rape victims and being raped.
August 8th 2019 - has accused friend who lived with her of stealing money from her and her clients. Turns out friend is also doing photography and was prior to Leila deciding it was her career so no actual money was stolen.
Announces in live that she was engaged previously.
August 12th 2019 - won’t be posting Ever much online as she was cat fished.
One hour later Ever is on her stories again wearing a full face of makeup.
August 26th 2019 - back to dating. Posts men's accounts from Tinder shaming them.
August 29th 2019 - had to send Ever to her sisters to deal with her Mums illness. No mention of how her Mum is, just poor Liela, poor poor Liela.
September 4th 2019 - sister is unwell and has gone to hospital in an ambulance. Liela takes Ever to a strawberry festival.
September 7th 2019 - posts video of Ever singing out ‘everybody what the f*ck’.
September 10th 2019 - Liela has joined an MLM! Arbonne. Calling out for strong businesswoman to join her on this incredible journey to financial freedom! #gIrLbOsS
Previous night in a live said she had a blood test and some numbers came up. It’s a tumour but ‘not cancer guys! I had a full mood test that detects all cancers’ (what about cervical cancer?)
She says that cancer doesn’t grow in an alkaline environment she says which is amazing as she’s SELLING an alkaline product. What a coincidence!
Arbonne gig lasts six days.
October 5th 2019 - posts photos of Ever in her underwear.
October 25th 2019 - posts her wish for Ever to choose a man and father of her child wisely. In photo Liela is wearing an engagement ring and wedding band.
November 9th 2019 - posts new man. New man appears to also be in an MLM as Instagram full of product spiels. They are meant to be! He also posts long talks ‘wisdom’ whilst driving and looking at the camera.
December 16th 2019 - Liela lost two photography clients as her computer crashed and she lost the photos. Instead of being apologetic she talks about how she’s so proud of herself and how wonderful she is.
December 20th 2019 - unfollows the BF on Instagram and vice versa.
Looks another relationship has bit the dust and so has 2019!
Ffs Tarah just be present with your kid. I mean, I can understand a few snaps etc but she had her phone out every step of the way. So many performative photos and videos. I can’t imagine what it must feel like to go out with a parent and they spend the whole day on their phone.
No real connection between mother and daughter hey. It’s purely for the gram. Such a sad reality for little Ever.
Agree, put the bloody phone down for once. Mind you she’s really overcompensating on the loving Mother act
no doubt read the brilliant recaps here documenting her abuse and/or she’s gearing up to somehow exploit Ever whilst being the first woman in Australia to be left pregnant for her next scam
Has she realised no amount of gofundme’s or deceitfully obtained donations will buy you that. Keep trying coz girl you have none of those things.
Omg! Apple podcasts top shows list- anyone we know that would fit this bio for an episode????
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Love how she's "soaking up moments in the sunshine" while her phone is glued to her hand. Posted 11 hours ago and no comments, 11 likes? She won't be happy!
Such a kickass photographer! and this unflattering shot is the best she could do? get in the bin Liela, you have zero qualities or knowledge that any self respecting person would want to take onboard for free let alone pay whatever disgusting price you are charging. Stay tuned for new website and brand name…
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So what is she now… a life coach, a journaling couch, a photographer coach… with what qualifications ? With her track record I wouldn’t be taking advice on anything!
To give her credit this is clearly the first time she hasn't photo shopped an image
I can't work out the weird line on her crotch though, it doesn't seem to be just her too tight jeans riding up?She is literally shrilling a “course” which is the complete opposite of what she is saying here. “I don’t live my life so you can understand it,” but join my course so you can be just like me.
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Literally the last person I would take advice from. She is not successful at anything nor do I aspire to look, live, speak or think like her. Nobody with sound mind would. She is the most unfortunate being on the gram. No talent, no original idea, no kindness, no compassion no sense of decency. I can't fathom this one.
‘I chase where my soul leads me’…WTF does that even mean? And that photo is not doing you any favours LIela- so unflattering. But hey now we know what you look like without a filter I guess.
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