BYG did not write that at all.
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I'm so, so sorry for what Lauren's went through. For me to weep reading and imagining her situation isn't anything like experiencing it.
I think she's just so confused and hurt her story is a bit all over the place. That the Naked Doula was there is a bit alarming, to say the least.
For all Lauren has her faults, I'm sure she's went into this pregnancy thinking she was doing all the right things and was being given the best advice.
Don't know what else to say other than I'm sure the full story will come out (simply because the media's recounting of the story isn't consistent - though DM outdoes itself again by getting names wrong. Do they actually proof read before they publish?).
I think she's just so confused and hurt her story is a bit all over the place. That the Naked Doula was there is a bit alarming, to say the least.
For all Lauren has her faults, I'm sure she's went into this pregnancy thinking she was doing all the right things and was being given the best advice.
Don't know what else to say other than I'm sure the full story will come out (simply because the media's recounting of the story isn't consistent - though DM outdoes itself again by getting names wrong. Do they actually proof read before they publish?).
Thats because she's binned the money for herself. Grief is a selling point dontcha know
This! Exactly this. The baby would have lived if she had gone to hospital when her water broke and been monitored.. The baby's distress would have been picked up and action taken. That baby was in distress for hours whilst she sat a home chilling wanting the perfect home birth. I honestly don't know how I would live with myself
Errrm aren't all babies born with blue eyes and they change colour (if they are going to change) over the ensuing weeks?
Petite? In what way?I've just read a article online from ok mag that says her baby wasn't born alive. Poor little thing
You would honestly think with her being a petite person delivering a 9lb baby they would have recommended a hospital delivery.
Well in fact yes, I just assumed the babyâs eyes would have been closed. I wasnât asking to be insensitive - just a genuine question as to how SHE knew Lorenaâs eyes were blue.
I knew she'd sell her story, unbelievable. I'm disgusted at the photoshoot. I know everyone grieves differently but for some reason, my stupidity really, I expected her to be quiet for a quite a while and not say anything. That's what I would do. But I just can't comprehend being a grieving mother and having photoshoots and drinking up at a 1 year olds parties and smiling for the gram.
This is far from true. All hospitals would send a low risk person home to await contractions for a period of time (varies in different trusts). She also wouldnât have required continuous monitoring. Please donât blame someone for losing their baby. Iâm not a fan of Lauren, I think she is very troubled but no one should be blamed for the death of their baby.
Having 4 sprogs of my own, 3 born by emergency c section due to complications, her post just doesnât make sense. Iâm hoping this is just due to her confusion and emotion rather than trying to convince people there were no complications after many brought up concerns due to her behaviour during pregnancy and possible GD?
Blamed, no. However, if (which seems extremely likely) Lorena's death could have been avoided by medical intervention instead of sitting at home for 3 days under extremely poor advice, that is something that really does need talked about - to prevent this happening to other women.
TND has alot to answer for and I wonder how many other babies have died in similar situations?
At the end of the day, birth preference shouldn't come before the literal survival of your baby.
I agree.I had a lot of sympathy for her until that article came outand I also find it very hard to imagine that they would attempt to resuscitate a baby that hadn't had a heartbeat for over 2 hours, sorry.
I posted on another thread that my daughter was stillborn in October (39 weeks- placental abruption) and so much of the article doesnât make sense.
If Lorena was stillborn, she should be saying it. If she was born alive then passed, say that.
I just canât imagine 10 doctors would be attempting resuscitation tbh. Then again, there are parts of the day my daughter was born I remember like it was yesterday and other parts that are still hazy 9 months later so it could be that.
Raising awareness- donate the fee for the exclusive article to Tommys or Sands?? Donate your baby things (we gave the nappies and formula to the hospital straight after I came round and met her).
I know she has Larose but how she can be so glammed up and talking to âjournalistsâ is beyond me. I know everyone is different but it seems like a very different way to behave from how the majority of the baby loss community seems.
It seems like possible medical negligence from the midwife to me. My waters always break hours before contractions start and every time hospital have said after 24 hours is an infection risk
Unfortunately a baby has no rights until born in the UK and one persons perception of risk is very different to anotherâs but no one makes the choices they do with the intention of harm. I think it needs talked through the appropriate channels, kicks count, SANDS, midwives etc. Every person is different and maternity care isnât âone size fits all approachâ.
I disagree, the midwife can only advise, she had the doula there and she would of told Lauren no stay at home
The article I read says her midwife told her to stay home
That article did choke me up a little. I do feel for Lauren.
I don't have any birthing experience or any real knowledge on this subject so I don't feel too inclined to comment. No matter what actually happened, this is still devastating.
RIP little Lorena.
I don't have any birthing experience or any real knowledge on this subject so I don't feel too inclined to comment. No matter what actually happened, this is still devastating.
RIP little Lorena.
Letâs say, the doula was responsible in the sense she told/advised Lauren to ignore any medical professionals advice - can the doula even be held accountable, really? Like for negligence. Presumably you have to sign some type of waiver to say youâll always take the advice of a medical professional or something? Idk. I understand sheâs looking to blame someone, who wouldnât? Her baby is dead and she has no idea what happened - Iâd just hope if it wasnât NHS negligence, she wouldnât blame them for the sake of blaming someone. I feel like most women in the UK have a really positive experience with their midwives and those who bring their babies into the world, the registrar at my birth was a little bit snappy but she wasnât negligent at all⌠other than that I truly had the most wonderful NHS midwives.
Many years ago with my first child due in three weeks time, I thought all was going OK until a routine blood test indicated that in fact the placenta was dissolving meaning instead of going home to wait I was taken in immediately to be induced. TBH I'd never even heard of this as a possibility of an outcome, the machine they plugged me into failed to work leaving me for endless hours with nothing happening and finally my labour was physically brought on by tearing the amniotic sac to bring my baby on - it was a horrible experience all in all but I had my child at the end of it all.
I cannot imagine what it must be like to go through all that to end up with nothing which is exactly why I do not understand how Lozza is carrying on like nothing ever happened. God forbid she and Chas are stupid enough to have another baby in ten months time
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