Totally agree with all of this. She makes me furious- aware I don’t know all the ins and outs but this really hits too close to home for me- we’re going through the same thing with my sister in law….moved on after my brothers death within weeks and engaged within the year. It’s so heartbreaking for me, but moreso for my parents who have already lost their child. I can’t stop thinking of Toms family and how they must feel.
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If she had found someone nice and was honest and said she had met someone but he could never replace Tom , then fair enough, I think the fact he’s a rum bag make me feel bad for the kids. Also a lot will be concerned for her, she had Tom for years who was a loving caring kind man. someone needs to tell her she will meet someone nice in time and not settle for the first that tp show her attention
I’m so sorry you’re going through this, my love and thoughts are with you all
And also! Sorry I am on a roll this morning
I clearly have a bee in my bonnet about this, but she’s saying she feels like she lost Tom 18 months ago because of his illness, but then she went on loose women and did interviews just after he died saying it was a complete and utter shock because none of them believed or thought he would actually die, so what is it? She lost him when he was diagnosed or she didn’t think he was going to die and she thought she’d have him forever? It doesn’t make sense 
I am just watching the Loose Women interview after Tom passed again and what stands out is that she has an un-controllable grin. It is not a 'brave face' smile or even a slight smile. She looks gleaming with uncontainable excitement.
Those poor children need stability right now. I hope the grandparents are stepping in and providing the support that she should be providing.
Those poor children need stability right now. I hope the grandparents are stepping in and providing the support that she should be providing.
Does anyone else get Jill Tyrrell vibes from her?
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100%. I bet she likes cappuccino too.
Honestly someone like her really doesn’t deserve anyone nice, she’d ruin them. The kids deserve so much more than the person she is, Tom really was too good for her.
thank you so much, I really appreciate your kind words.
From the looks of things, this seems to be some sort of family friend? So I think she’s going to put the ‘ known him for years and he was really there for me’ slant on it. To be honest, everyone moves on a different rates and it’s not for me to say what’s right or wrong. Personally it’s not something I know I would do. The issue for me is the treatment of Tom when he was here, and the way she’s still using his name to boost her profile. If you have got to a point already where you feel you’re ready to move on. Is it not also time to close your Instagram account and just live privately with your children and new partner? At the end of the day the platform has only come from being Tom’s wife. It must be so traumatic for his family to watch unfold.
The way she said she lost him in that 18 months is just so that she can say “Me an’ Sean are together….I’ve been single for two years….” in that ridiculous Gemma Collins voice. Well, they were talking about baby number 3 in Oct 21…which is it Kelsey? This woman spouts so many lies that shr can’t even remember what she’s said!!
I have to be fair to her and say I completely get why she says some things in that interview:
1) people cross the road to avoid speaking to her - this defo happens to us widowers .
2) getting rid of the bed. I don’t think she’s being cold here but that bed in that house- she would only remember him being in it as sick. And despite what they posted I imagine he was a lot sicker for a lot more of the time than ever depicted on socials. Appreciate it has a different context now we know she’s met someone else.
3) loosing him before he died - yes I get that too . Ive written about this before you defo so loose the man you married. The moment my husband was diagnosed his personality changed. Remember we only saw the positive bits on insta.
anyone that’s read my comments before knows I’m defo not a fan and can’t stand her behaviour how she’s milking being the grieving widow. However as someone whose been through exactly the same it wouldn’t be fair of me not to highlight the things that I understand why she says it.
1) people cross the road to avoid speaking to her - this defo happens to us widowers .
2) getting rid of the bed. I don’t think she’s being cold here but that bed in that house- she would only remember him being in it as sick. And despite what they posted I imagine he was a lot sicker for a lot more of the time than ever depicted on socials. Appreciate it has a different context now we know she’s met someone else.
3) loosing him before he died - yes I get that too . Ive written about this before you defo so loose the man you married. The moment my husband was diagnosed his personality changed. Remember we only saw the positive bits on insta.
anyone that’s read my comments before knows I’m defo not a fan and can’t stand her behaviour how she’s milking being the grieving widow. However as someone whose been through exactly the same it wouldn’t be fair of me not to highlight the things that I understand why she says it.
I can understand getting rid of the bed but why the need to disclose that information publicly? To his family, it could look as though he is being erased.
Think I'll be giving this a miss!! (Don't judge me for what I'm currently watching 
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Does anyone remember in Tom’s documentary when they’re house viewing the house that she’s living in now?
Tom’s telling the interviewer that he’s hoping the new house will be a fresh start
, Kelsey asks Tom (who’s looking particularly ill that day) if he’s going to view upstairs with her and the estate agent. Obviously he doesn’t have the energy for the stairs, he decides to stay downstairs.
Kelsey to the estate agent: “He can’t be bothered to do stairs today...”
Poor Tom, she must’ve been so draining for him. There he was knowing full well that he wouldn’t see the kids growing up in that house, but having to act like he was okay so that Kelsey wasn’t inconvenienced.
That’s toxic ‘positivity’ and denial right there!
Tom’s telling the interviewer that he’s hoping the new house will be a fresh start
, Kelsey asks Tom (who’s looking particularly ill that day) if he’s going to view upstairs with her and the estate agent. Obviously he doesn’t have the energy for the stairs, he decides to stay downstairs. Kelsey to the estate agent: “He can’t be bothered to do stairs today...”
Poor Tom, she must’ve been so draining for him. There he was knowing full well that he wouldn’t see the kids growing up in that house, but having to act like he was okay so that Kelsey wasn’t inconvenienced.
That’s toxic ‘positivity’ and denial right there!
My heart breaks for him. He must've felt so alone at times. Sad that he would've had to think about his kids growing up in the house and he wouldn't be around for it, and even sadder to think not even a year later another man will be with his wife in the same house. He gave it everything he had at the end and it's just so sad to see what's happening. He would be heartbroken if he could see how much Kelsey was leaving the kids for weeks at a time. And now introducing this new man into their lives so soonDoes anyone remember in Tom’s documentary when they’re house viewing the house that she’s living in now?
Tom’s telling the interviewer that he’s hoping the new house will be a fresh start
Kelsey to the estate agent: “He can’t be bothered to do stairs today...”
Poor Tom, she must’ve been so draining for him. There he was knowing full well that he wouldn’t see the kids growing up in that house, but having to act like he was okay so that Kelsey wasn’t inconvenienced.
That’s toxic ‘positivity’ and denial right there!
How do we know he’s been introduced to the children? Just curious if I’ve missed something. I mean she’s never there so could easily keep him from them.
I was never aware of Tom or Kelsey before his diagnosis. When he died I read that she had invited fans to gather outside of the church (poor Tom couldn’t even have a private funeral). I then came across a clip of her going on about 'raising awareness' and that was it for me. That’s the typical excuse used by influencers who are desperate for attention and she is no different. There is an instagram live of him on YouTube making pancakes and (if I remember correctly) she spoke to him like absolute tit. This was when she was pregnant with their daughter so it’s safe to say that she made no effort whatsoever to change her dreadful attitude when he needed her the most. I’ve seen a few people mention how she’s never with their kids and I’d bet you that he did most of the parenting. It’s brilliant that people are finally seeing through her act.
I think it was nice of her to allow the fans to be part of the funeral (if that's what tom and his family would've wanted as well). Seen so many fans of his on twitter absolutely devastated by the news. He had fans who had met him countless times over the years so it must've been hard for them as well. If the family had wanted it, then I'm sure they would've felt grateful that so many people turned up to say goodbye to their son/brother
I agree with a lot of this apart from the fans being outside the church being a bad thing, Tom absolutely adored all of his fans, he loved them, any chance for them to be involved in anything he was doing he would make sure they’d be there, and as someone who met Tom herself so so many times over the years, and spent quite a bit of time with him when I was young going to signings and gigs and meet and greets, I really wouldn’t be surprised if he said himself he wanted his fans to be able to pay respects, he knew how much his fans loved him, and his fans meant the world to him too x
I remember that live with Tom making pancakes, he was so endearing - telling people about his love for animals, he was sweet and very funny.
Kelsey on the other hand lifted her top to show her boobs “for Jay” and saying how she wished she’d married him instead…it was said ‘in jest’ but she had quite an edge to her when she was talking to him.
One of the stand-out bits for me was when Tom was making pancakes and asking Kelsey to read comments in the chat - she turned the camera on herself and started talking “yeah, so today I’ve been to the gym, and had my make-up done…” who the duck cares - the live was on Tom’s insta - not hers!! You then heard Tom say…”err…do you wanna show them me making pancakes, or what?!!”
She was like that even then
Since his diagnosis she has (from the top of my head) -
- Done an interview with him (spoke over him)
- Missed her sons birthday to be with Jess Wright
- Cried all over instagram (then went to events with a big grin on her face)
- indirectly said that she was the strong one in the relationship
- Done many interviews
- Got a new partner (ex prisoner)
- Spent more time away from her kids than with them
- Turned the attention onto herself
I can’t help but be cynical. It’s all down to individual opinions at the end of the day. I don’t know what his wishes were, I just hope that the final decision was made by him and that the kids are being well looked after.
- Done an interview with him (spoke over him)
- Missed her sons birthday to be with Jess Wright
- Cried all over instagram (then went to events with a big grin on her face)
- indirectly said that she was the strong one in the relationship
- Done many interviews
- Got a new partner (ex prisoner)
- Spent more time away from her kids than with them
- Turned the attention onto herself
I can’t help but be cynical. It’s all down to individual opinions at the end of the day. I don’t know what his wishes were, I just hope that the final decision was made by him and that the kids are being well looked after.
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