If he never had a tumour, he wouldn't have done as much work with the band, photoshoots and so on. He did it all for her and their kids so they could have financial security when he was gone. He looked weak during the final tour videos. He must've felt exhausted working when he should have been resting. All that for her and this is how she repays him. She's disrespecting him
Exactly he did it all for her and for the kids and even during all that you could tell from the way she spoke to him and about him that she was putting pressure on him which made me feel even more sorry for him cause the poor man was dying and she cared more about herself most of the time. He even said himself times he really needed emotional support from her she wasn’t the type of person to give it so he would go to other people for it and he said that so casually but I thought how sad that was his own wife struggled to give him sympathy or didn’t seem to understand he was allowed to feel sad and understand be depressed cause anyone in that situation would be. All she cared about was doing interviews and photoshoots with her pushing her positive Parker bs 24/7 as a way to guilt trip him that’s what it came across like in my opinion.
I’m not saying she didn’t have love for him or wasn’t worried about him or scared to lose him cause I’m sure she felt all kinds of emotions as that’s a heartbreaking and tough thing for anyone to go through losing a person they love and having to see someone go through so many changes because of cancer. I don’t know exactly what their financial situation was like I can only make guesses but the fact they comfortably bought a big house it’s clear they weren’t struggling but I also understand she was thinking of after he passed away how will she bring in the same level of income that she’s been used to cause of him but he should of been resting a lot more he looked exhausted and faking a smile in interviews and being too tired to even speak for himself it was so sad to watch.
I understand he wanted to provide for his wife and kids making as much money as he could and spend some of the time he had left with his band mates again I’m sure that was something that meant a lot to him but he put himself through all that for her and you’re right look how much she’s disrespected him and used him that’s her way of repaying him? it’s so wrong. I think she’s desperate to keep her name out there in the public and try be famous cause she has no talent , she doesn’t seem that likeable but she has Toms name and death to make money from.
I know everyone’s situation is different they are allowed to move on when they want and allowed to be happy again but I personally think she moved on way too fast especially when she was doing interviews and posting him on social media acting like she was still in love with him and getting all the attention she could by being the grieving widow when secretly she had a new man I think that would of broke Toms heart. I’m sure Tom would of course want her to still live her life and be happy again but I don’t think she’s as genuine as she tries make herself out to be. I feel sorry those kids because most likely she’ll use them to make money aswell.