Yeah I have seen them all now.
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Absolute tragedy for that lady
I think tonight’s episode is the worst one yet 
Why do you think it’s the worst?
I just think she comes across as even
more self-centred, other people are grieving too but feels it’s just about her.
Also, poor Tom texting Dave Bolton late at night every night saying how scared he was, such a shame he wasn’t also able to share these feelings with Kelsey due to her toxic Positive Parkers crap. Also, so many things don’t add up, I think dhe’s from the Markle school of fabrication. She said it was just the two of them in that room at the end of his life, but staff were there too. She also demanded to know as his breathing got worse “are you dying? Is this you dying?!” Don’t get me wrong, it must be awful for everyone, but I can’t be bothered with all the lies that come from her mouth.
I haven’t watched it yet but from what you say, how traumatising must that be for some of the last words you hear to be “are you dying?” When my dad was dying I was saying to him how much I loved him and that he was safe and that everything was ok whilst stroking his hand, I hope she at least did that for him
She's saying now 'I felt guilty I couldn't save him' and looks very emotionless in the interview. Its in Dailymail this morning. Odd thing to say
In 2 months Tom will be sadly a gone a year and I bet Kelsey is already planning another documentary or another way to use his name cause there is no way she is just going to go quiet when she’s an attention seeker constantly trying to keep HER name out there. It’s not about keeping his memory alive and trying to spread awareness of brain cancer , it’s about her trying to get fame and money using his name so she’s probably trying to think of another documentary she can make out of it. Also she acts like she’s the only reason he got through his cancer for as long as he did and if he beat it and survived she acts like it would of been thanks to her like she would of been the one who saved him it’s very strange how self obsessed she is trying to take credit for everything. When someone shows sympathy towards him she’ll make it about herself acting like her annoying positive Parker attitude is the reason he got through it all. Yes positivity during a tough time does help to a certain extent but someone is just as strong for admitting they don’t feel positive and they feel scared and they deserve to be listened to and supported so that they know people care whether they’re having a good day or the worst day ever. Sometimes he might of just needed a long hug and cry cause the poor man was dying. I’m not saying it would of been good for him to stay in bed and cry everyday cause then he would of missed out on bonding with the kids and enjoying music which he clearly loved cause those things kept him going so I understand Kelsey wanting him to focus on the positives but it’s like she can’t feel sorry for anyone but herself.
He clearly couldn’t really talk to her about how he was feeling , he couldn’t show her sadness and talk about his fears to her cause she clearly would silence him saying she didn’t want to hear about it and just be positive stop lying in bed being sad. It’s like she didn’t get why he was so sad. When they did the this morning interview and she was smiling and laughing about how the great it was she started this positive Parker thing , her poor husband is just sitting there forcing a smile when he definitely had a million worries and fears going through his head. I really hope he had people in his life who were there for him on the days he was depressed and struggling mentally cause his wife seemed more interested in wanting to make the wanted famous again to get money and get their names out their again (mainly hers) for more fame and attention. She has a very cold insensitive heart and I’ve said it before that of course it’s all hard for her cause her life has drastically changed its very sad and unfair but even if you’re not the type of person who cries or you don’t like crying infront of people , you can still hear in someone’s voice or by their eyes they are heartbroken and feeling emotional but with her there’s not much emotion there if any.
There’s moments in the documentary were I guess you could say she gets kind of emotional but next minute she quickly sounds fame hungry and bitter towards Tom so it’s very hard to read her sometimes. As hard as going therapy can be sometimes it can really help so if she gave it a chance off camera not making a tv series out of it and showed an emotional side to a therapist she trusts maybe it would do her a lot of good cause I think she’s too focused on trying to keep herself in the spotlight that she isn’t focusing on the things that really matter.
He clearly couldn’t really talk to her about how he was feeling , he couldn’t show her sadness and talk about his fears to her cause she clearly would silence him saying she didn’t want to hear about it and just be positive stop lying in bed being sad. It’s like she didn’t get why he was so sad. When they did the this morning interview and she was smiling and laughing about how the great it was she started this positive Parker thing , her poor husband is just sitting there forcing a smile when he definitely had a million worries and fears going through his head. I really hope he had people in his life who were there for him on the days he was depressed and struggling mentally cause his wife seemed more interested in wanting to make the wanted famous again to get money and get their names out their again (mainly hers) for more fame and attention. She has a very cold insensitive heart and I’ve said it before that of course it’s all hard for her cause her life has drastically changed its very sad and unfair but even if you’re not the type of person who cries or you don’t like crying infront of people , you can still hear in someone’s voice or by their eyes they are heartbroken and feeling emotional but with her there’s not much emotion there if any.
There’s moments in the documentary were I guess you could say she gets kind of emotional but next minute she quickly sounds fame hungry and bitter towards Tom so it’s very hard to read her sometimes. As hard as going therapy can be sometimes it can really help so if she gave it a chance off camera not making a tv series out of it and showed an emotional side to a therapist she trusts maybe it would do her a lot of good cause I think she’s too focused on trying to keep herself in the spotlight that she isn’t focusing on the things that really matter.
I wonder what the attraction is. Not her personality, not the fact she’s got with criminal (something which no woman I know would do, and that’s without having just lost a husband), not that she’s a great mum cos she’s never with the kids, and she’s very unpleasant looking. 
I don’t get it. Sometimes I wonder if people just fawn on IG when they wouldn’t IRL for some reason
I don’t get it. Sometimes I wonder if people just fawn on IG when they wouldn’t IRL for some reasonI know this thread is about Kelsey, but look what I found whilst scrolling through Tom’s Insta stories. This was taken on 25th March 2020 - 5 months before diagnosis - and two years before he died. I’m sure that was the eye that eventually closed 
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This is from an advertisement for her show. Just from this pic she’s not likeable. She’s average looking nothing special but her attitude you’d think she was the queen
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I watched the doc for the first time last night and she visited the hospice and his band mate was their which I thought was so lovely and comforting.
But I think this tv documentary is mustve all begin soon so her grief journey is probably in the autopilot, Soldier on, ignore. Keep busy category as she is forced too with toddlers to raise and paperwork so filming is an added stress.
I think there needs to be a documentary on on his type of tumour, the patients, therapies, diets, cancer experts and research on that. Even discussing the research into the dangers of bluetooth technology direct to your head (Headphones, Occulus style virtual reality gaming).
As an ex Journalist I can tell you there is a lot not getting out there because the money is huge in bluetooth tech and gaming industries but the pressures, heat direct to brain are huge. It makes changes.
Now the gaming side is scary as the tap into points in the brain with the headsets and can be fatal.
These stories rarely go mainstream sadly.
But I think this tv documentary is mustve all begin soon so her grief journey is probably in the autopilot, Soldier on, ignore. Keep busy category as she is forced too with toddlers to raise and paperwork so filming is an added stress.
I think there needs to be a documentary on on his type of tumour, the patients, therapies, diets, cancer experts and research on that. Even discussing the research into the dangers of bluetooth technology direct to your head (Headphones, Occulus style virtual reality gaming).
As an ex Journalist I can tell you there is a lot not getting out there because the money is huge in bluetooth tech and gaming industries but the pressures, heat direct to brain are huge. It makes changes.
Now the gaming side is scary as the tap into points in the brain with the headsets and can be fatal.
These stories rarely go mainstream sadly.
I think after watching the finale episode i have formed a different view of her. She does speak about herself a lot, but the documentary is hers, not toms.
She is definitely avoiding her grief, and i think this is also why she feels guilty. He probably wanted to talk about his cancer but she probably thought the best thing to do was avoid it and act like nothings happening. I think thats why when he went into the hospice she didnt visit him at first and ignored everyone. Because she knew the inevitable was about to happen and didnt want to face a life without him.
I still think she is avoiding grief by avoiding things of him and essentially trying to rid the memory of him from her house, to avoid crying. There is no ‘correct’ way to grieve but she does need to slow down and just live in the moment and know its ok to grieve and not be ‘strong’ 24/7.
As for the new fella, well, i dont know. I dont necessarily agree with the timing. Maybe its a distraction. And considering we havent heard anymore about it maybe shes cut things off?
She is definitely avoiding her grief, and i think this is also why she feels guilty. He probably wanted to talk about his cancer but she probably thought the best thing to do was avoid it and act like nothings happening. I think thats why when he went into the hospice she didnt visit him at first and ignored everyone. Because she knew the inevitable was about to happen and didnt want to face a life without him.
I still think she is avoiding grief by avoiding things of him and essentially trying to rid the memory of him from her house, to avoid crying. There is no ‘correct’ way to grieve but she does need to slow down and just live in the moment and know its ok to grieve and not be ‘strong’ 24/7.
As for the new fella, well, i dont know. I dont necessarily agree with the timing. Maybe its a distraction. And considering we havent heard anymore about it maybe shes cut things off?
Can't believe it's almost been a year alreadyI remember someone saying devices such as headphones can cause things like that, as well as something simple like sleeping with your phone next to you. I wish there was more information out there about this
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You’re right, there should be more on the dangers. This felt like a complete waste of a 6 part primetime dicumentary - timewise & moneywise.
Her grief when all the attention will have died down will
be very different - a bit like how everyday people deal with grief. At the moment she’s telling people she’s strong, but she’s masking and delaying. I hate the fact they all equate crying and showing emotion as being weak - her whole circle seem to think that, and I think her own mother is one of the worst.
I agree with you saying showing emotion is not weak I disliked that part. I am emotional and ALWAYS express my emotions due to traumatic grief and yes everyone grieves differently BUT we MUST NOT state ever crying is weakness its expression and the most obvious form expelling your feelings in full without holding back.
It can happen easy or take a while to get there.
I havent seen the whole series and just learnt there were a few and some prior documentary.
Her husband seemed lovely and what a voice. My gosh I didnt really know about the band as people as I never saw them interviewed ever ehich is odd considering Im a tv freak.
But I know "Im glad you came" that was a great tune!!!
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I think she feels guilty because she’s moved on, who knows if she was with this bloke then, or if spmething had already happened when this was filmed.
I don't even know why I'm commenting but the fact this lady got off with another guy so soon is bleeping disgusting. And then milking it. She drives me mad.I wonder what the attraction is. Not her personality, not the fact she’s got with criminal (something which no woman I know would do, and that’s without having just lost a husband), not that she’s a great mum cos she’s never with the kids, and she’s very unpleasant looking.
Why did she rehome the dog Buddy? That is heartless as he and Dolly got on so well. Who has Buddy now?
I am in two minds about her, she has gone through so much trauma she is going 100mph and it will hit her like a ton of bricks which is why therapy is so important and for the kids. She needs to slow down a bit.
Therapy is such a private thing i don’t think it should be filmed and cos it’s being filmed she is not opening up so much and putting on a brave face.
Saying that though she says herself she is very adaptable to situations so admits they are doing ok so does that explain why she appears so positive? I don’t know how she does it I would be in pieces. I don’t have a support network around me though like she does.
One other thing, if I had a pound for every time she used the word ‘like’ I would be rich!
I am in two minds about her, she has gone through so much trauma she is going 100mph and it will hit her like a ton of bricks which is why therapy is so important and for the kids. She needs to slow down a bit.
Therapy is such a private thing i don’t think it should be filmed and cos it’s being filmed she is not opening up so much and putting on a brave face.
Saying that though she says herself she is very adaptable to situations so admits they are doing ok so does that explain why she appears so positive? I don’t know how she does it I would be in pieces. I don’t have a support network around me though like she does.
One other thing, if I had a pound for every time she used the word ‘like’ I would be rich!
Watching episode 6 and their friend Dean is more emotional and sensitive about Tom's death than his 'grieving widow'... I feel for Dean, he is clearly missing his friend a lot
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