I breastfeed - and cringe at her stories! I’ve a 9m and nearly 5 year old and she’s been on more nights away since having her daughter then I’ve had since having my daughter who is 5 next month! I’m not joking I’ve spent 3 nights away from my daughter and that was due to a work course: never left our son x
That’s your choice though. 3 nights in 5 years is really low compared to most people! You won’t get to heaven any quicker.
Sorry but it just bugs me when other Mum’s have a dig about how they never left their kids and someone else has. Different if it’s every week - but every few months is acceptable imo.
She’s young and fairly newly married. I don’t see why her having odd nights away is so bad. Her kid seems to always be well looked after by her hubby or parents.
Easy to preach about it. But the majority of couples I know split up because they don’t have quality time together and stop making an effort as a couple. So it’s important to get the balance right.
My boy loves spending the night with grandma and grandad! Absolutely no harm in it at all