She could always turn off the message reply option on her stories. She won't do that though as her engagement will plummet.View attachment 136381
Including this here for people to read.
I’m sure she’s hurting a lot after 13 years together.
but it’s difficult to have it both ways. She says she wants to show her emotions on social media and that she’s having a hard time (fine) but doesn’t want the nosey questions. I find it hard to see how you can do the former without ending up with questions?
Sad and a lot of money on an extravagant wedding too.Yeah def sounds like he’s left her or she’s found out he cheated on her. I don’t understand why he married her if he didn’t want her and split after only 6 months of marriage. I do feel sorry for her though.
All good points. I realised too that she said it happened in January, so not like it happened in lockdown, and had to spend 24/7 together and realised it wasn't going to work. They got married in June (?) and then 7 months later were separated. Very quick, I feel like there must have been trouble already. A woman I know got married and then her husband "ran away" a week later. He didn't want to get married but didn't tell her.To be fair to him though, we’re only seeing one side of the story and it’s being painted as he’s left/done something.
whilst of course he might have had an affair (which is awful), so might have she?
Or she’s was caught texting / flirting with guys online?
Maybe one wanted kids and the other didn’t yet.
Maybe financial troubles, one is a spender and the other is fed up of sorting it out.
He’s a solicitor and maybe he’s away from home a lot but doesn’t want to give up is career, and they just can’t agree.
Maybe he wanted her to get a job that wasn’t Instagram.
They moved to be near her family I think? Maybe he’s not happy with that anymore.
and so on. I suppose just trying to be fair to him as often these things are a bit of both sides contributing to the breakdown.
their wedding did look amazing, I mean to be fair their engagement was pretty big as well (in Bali) so it doesn’t smack of a guy that wasn't invested in the marriage. But some couples do find after the big wedding they don’t have much in common anymore when they get back to real boring life.
I think it would be hard not to mention it at all on SM, because she never really posted her husband she could have got away with it although I think it would be mentally draining. She should have posted a story at the beginning saying they had separated and she is working through it and she won't be saying any more about it. People would have been understanding but because she was dragging it on with the hints, people got curious which is natural. Also, I can't imagine how hard it has been to go through a separation and then a god damn pandemic and not being able to see friends, and therefore I think she was venting her emotions on Instagram. I empathize for her in that sense but she could have handled it better Instagram wise.I’m sorry but she’s brought this on herself. If she hadn’t had drawn so much attention to the situation along with the cringe crying / break up song posts then she wouldn’t have got as many direct questions. She wanted the attention and the soppy messages from followers but only on her terms.
She is lucky she has a ‘Social Media’ job as there are others out there with varied and better content with genuine content. It’s probably because she is attractive that she’s got as far as she’s got. For her, it’s all about obtaining freebies and showing off and has been since she started up. She isn’t genuine and its been noted numerous times that she is very passive aggressive when things don’t go her way.
I do feel sorry for anyone going through a break up, they obviously aren’t easy, but hopefully this teaches her a lesson of don’t complain, don’t explain.
I agree! To be together for 13 years, an affair is all I could think of that would be so unforgivable to split so soon after the wedding. Any other issues I would assume they would try and work through for another few months or so, after being together for so long!Happy to begin the speculation!
I think affair
Just to add - I’ve heard of many men marrying despite having another woman on the side.
Let me talk through my reasoning:
1) not financial troubles - they have a lovely home, he has a fantastic job, they’ve never shied away from expensive things. Going by their relationship I’m sure they were transparent with money especially given her career there would have been a lot more needing to be contributed (mortgage wise at least) from him.
2) not agreeing job wise - solicitors work long hours, yes, but she was used to the worst of it - the hard graft post-uni and to split later would make no sense. They’ve known each other’s schedules for years and she has weekends away from gifts and meals out for brands. Couples with long working hours usually instead crumble YEARS down the line usually after children.
3) falling out of love - possible as they have nothing to focus on now the bigwedding is over etc. However, you tend to just march on rather than only last 7 months!
4) affair - this is my bet. Solicitors / industries similar are notorious for it (I work in the industry). Perhaps not a full blown affair but easily him having an emotional one with a colleague or getting too close to someone or even a one off mistake. Or maybe it was her. I just place my bets there!
If they fell out of love, surely there would have been signs of that for ages, not just suddenly 7 months after the wedding? Although perhaps because the wedding was paid for, they went through with it.Thanks for posting the screenshot, I don't have instagram and I really wanted to know what had happened!!
If she was fed up with people being 'nosy' she could have stopped posting the crying selfies and the hints alluding to her being heartbroken weeks ago. Imo, she knew it would make people wonder what's going on. Why else post them?!
I'm gonna place my bets on a possible affair too. I can't see financial issues, the house was pretty big for their first home and if he's a solicitor in the city then he will be very well paid. She must take it in for the amount of sponsored posts she does. She was accustomed to his job before they married and I would imagine they had a discussion about children pre wedding.
Perhaps they fell out of love, but less than 12 months into a marriage surely they would have fought a bit more to save it.
I work in the corporate industry, in local government. Legal work is intense and who knows, perhaps he was spending so much time with colleagues he decided the relationship wasn't right. Late night working can lead to all sorts, I've seen colleagues lose relationships for a quick fling.
Just guessing though! Doubt we will ever find out.
I don’t disagree. But up thread I said I think it’s a bit unfair to jump he’s had an affair mainly because were only seeing her side of the story and to give him benefit of the doubt I suggested a few other reasons why they may have split.Happy to begin the speculation!
I think affair
Just to add - I’ve heard of many men marrying despite having another woman on the side.
Let me talk through my reasoning:
1) not financial troubles - they have a lovely home, he has a fantastic job, they’ve never shied away from expensive things. Going by their relationship I’m sure they were transparent with money especially given her career there would have been a lot more needing to be contributed (mortgage wise at least) from him.
2) not agreeing job wise - solicitors work long hours, yes, but she was used to the worst of it - the hard graft post-uni and to split later would make no sense. They’ve known each other’s schedules for years and she has weekends away from gifts and meals out for brands. Couples with long working hours usually instead crumble YEARS down the line usually after children.
3) falling out of love - possible as they have nothing to focus on now the bigwedding is over etc. However, you tend to just march on rather than only last 7 months!
4) affair - this is my bet. Solicitors / industries similar are notorious for it (I work in the industry). Perhaps not a full blown affair but easily him having an emotional one with a colleague or getting too close to someone or even a one off mistake. Or maybe it was her. I just place my bets there!
I don’t disagree with you. But from a financial perspective I find it so unlikely to have just come out the woodwork.I don’t disagree. But up thread I said I think it’s a bit unfair to jump he’s had an affair mainly because were only seeing her side of the story and to give him benefit of the doubt I suggested a few other reasons why they may have split.
in terms of financial trouble, you never know. People get mortgaged to the hilt, cars on lease, big holidays, loans for weddings then it all needs paying back. Also if one in the couple spends / fritters money away it can cause problems and lead to a split. You can have a great salary which can open up many credit lines, doesn’t mean you’re good with money or dont spend beyond your means.
if you google his name, it’s clear what line of legal work he’s involved in. so definitely long hours, nights away. I bet he has to go to London a lot. I doubt that was the situation at the start of his career, if he worked mainly in Manchester plus remember they also lived in Manchester too. So he was probably around more and they spent more time together.
If he’s career minded he’s could be putting in even more hours which can cause rows. Think about it, he could be in London all week, shes in Chorley or whatever. Their worlds could easily have moved apart, even without having children. He might be getting pulled into the London lifestyle and socialising whilst she’s at home on her own. I think many couples would struggle to make that work personally.
I disagree that people try and make things work as well. These days people are constantly told to put themselves first, don’t settle if you’re unhappy etc. The divorce rate in the UK is pretty high. it’s easy to have a big glam wedding and pretend you’re in love but a lot of people don’t want to work at their marriages. A lot of people don’t like to compromise or realise they have toxic traits that cause problems for their partners. So they just bail and move onto the next. I think them being married less than a year is a red herring, they were together a long time and they could have had issues all along but were too scared to break up. Maybe they thought the wedding would make things better and it didn’t.
affair is the obvious answer. I guess it just feels a bit harsh to paint him as the bad guy when we have no idea. But equally if he did have one, then he’s a shit and she would be rightly devastated after so long together.
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