I know exactly what you mean, I feel for everyone who’s suffered a loss no matter when. But the way some people carry on is ridiculous, my sister in law does a post every single time there is an awareness sort of day going on about her 2 losses (both CP’s), never does she mention she has 2 lovely, living, breathing children right infront of her and I just think of the amount of people who must look at her posts who can’t have kids and think duck off!! She also is one of these who says ‘you should never ask a couple when they are having kids as you never know what they’re going through’ (which I completely agree with) but then proceeds to ask me an my husband and when we’re having kids at any family gathering in front of everyone…Whoever said a loss is a loss (sorry I think of a reply 9 years later then forget who to quote) you’re right but the way she acts is insulting. I dunno I can’t describe it. I think of my poor friend who lost her baby at 34 weeks. It’s just not the same is it. And then you’ve got Turbo twit acting like she’s in the same boat! Boils my piss